I attended one of my NS guy's funeral together with two other guys many years ago. In front of his coffin we said this: "You fucker! Why you go so soon? We were supposed to meet next month to chiong KTV. Anyway, you better come and join us on that day. Otherwise, we'll sure fuck you when we meet again over the other side!" Luckily, his wife didn't hear it. Poor chap. He died of nose cancer in his late 30s.