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can you share how you integrate to the life there and make australian friends and be assimilated to australian society
do you think of yourself today as an australian? what about your kids?
(i do not intend these questions to be intrusive. They are questions running through my mind now on what it means to migrate.)
I use food to illustrate ... this complex relationship. I am integrated into life. I have Australian friends, people I can call upon to help me water plants when I am away, etc. I consider myself Australian. My inner circle know me as Australian. But a Singapore tourist still see me as a Singaporean with a funny Singlish-Aussie accent.
It is a pretty strange thing ... I actually find Aussie office tea snacks quite alright ... the pasties and pies - with sauce. I still don't like vegemite.
I have a lot of asian food ... I bring my angmo colleagues to HK chinese restaurant and they ask if we are having indonesian food.
I learn how to hug my angmo female colleagues "properly", but shake hands with my more shy asian female ones ... but my asian female colleagues get hugged by the angmos.
I learnt to appreciate the Aussie Rules ... I sings Advance Australia Fair but remember Majullah Singapura. My Aussie colleagues ask me about my birth country. They ask me how often I communicate with my community. But at the same time, when they announced their appreciation at an after office drinks when they found out that I had renounced my SG citizenship. One jolly felle who worked in SG before ... threatened to send me back to Lee Kuan Yew. But he celebrate my new life as well.
I also realised that Australians are multi-cultured. In general, your best friend may be an Irish migrant or you may date a pretty Croatian-Australian girl. The way I treat the Chinese mainlanders are better than when I lived in SG.