Mid-Life Crisis

[oli9]

I'm not there yet but I'm already on the way.........

Bro
What you also need is a 3D/2N an orgy night out screw fest with your pals. Sometimes in times like these, you need your bros to see you thru the dark times.
Ive been there before & now know what youre going thru. Most of us will have to go thru this full circle.

 

[Logisex]

Bro
What you also need is a 3D/2N an orgy night out screw fest with your pals. Sometimes in times like these, you need your bros to see you thru the dark times.
Ive been there before & now know what youre going thru. Most of us will have to go thru this full circle.

Its a terrific idea. I've stayed clean for the past few years, been a good employee, husband and son and like many married men, lost touch with my bros. It might also kick start my sex life with my wife again or I might just divorce her for no good reasons. I might also fire my boss and start life in a totally new field.
Whatever it is, I think you are right that I need to go thru the full circle........

 

[Logisex]

After 3 consecutive cups of Nescafe, I think I get it now - its F.E.A.R.

Fear of living the life that I wanna live. Fear of losing it all.

Its like wanting to be a porn star but somehow never get to do it.

I've been too good for too long.............

 

[Wang Ye]

After 3 consecutive cups of Nescafe, I think I get it now - its F.E.A.R.

Fear of living the life that I wanna live. Fear of losing it all.

Its like wanting to be a porn star but somehow never get to do it.

I've been too good for too long.............

So end of it all you just want to live life on the wild side for a while.

Please report to SBF (the sex forum) and ask to join the BS group for a naughty KTV outing.

 

[Logisex]

So end of it all you just want to live life on the wild side for a while.

Please report to SBF (the sex forum) and ask to join the BS group for a naughty KTV outing.

I was an old timer there and have probably spent 1/3 of my life in all kinds of KTVs

 

[laidback]

It's time to start keeping a young + super hot mistress or two. I'm not talking about students from china who need just S$1,500 a month. I'm talking about local SMU/NTU/NUS girls who need a sugar daddy for their college education + material obsessions. Believe me local college students are surprisingly wild in bed and much more satisfying compared to the bei-gus.

The money you need to do that will motivate you give your best and give you a second wind at work. The girls will get to finish college and be given a chance out of the poverty cycle. The guilt will make u an even better husband. The extra sex will provide you the exercise you otherwise would not get. Win Win situation.

 

[Einfield]

Bro,
You are running out of time, you don't have that many 10 years to burn, this could be your last stretch.
That is what bothering you and you may not even know it.

You want to re-start life again, you need to or you will sink like a rock.

How you choose to do it, is entirely up to you.

I was an old timer there and have probably spent 1/3 of my life in all kinds of KTVs

 

[Logisex]

It's time to start keeping a young + super hot mistress or two. I'm not talking about students from china who need just S$1,500 a month. I'm talking about local SMU/NTU/NUS girls who need a sugar daddy for their college education + material obsessions. Believe me local college students are surprisingly wild in bed and much more satisfying compared to the bei-gus.

The money you need to do that will motivate you give your best and give you a second wind at work. The guilt will make u an even better husband. The extra sex will provide you the exercise you otherwise would not get. Win Win situation.

Sounds logical

 

[Ash007]

Sounds logical

As long as you don't end up like a JAck Neo bro.

 

[Logisex]

Bro,
You are running out of time, you don't have that many 10 years to burn, this could be your last stretch.
That is what bothering you and you may not even know it.

You want to re-start life again, you need to or you will sink like a rock.

How you choose to do it, is entirely up to you.

You are spot on. I do know it - which is why its bothering me.

 

[Wang Ye]

I was an old timer there and have probably spent 1/3 of my life in all kinds of KTVs

前辈! Okay that rules that option out.

But from the looks of things you are just going through a phase questioning your self-worth and place in the universe.

 

[Logisex]

As long as you don't end up like a JAck Neo bro.

I won't be like Jack Neo because I despise him. Having mistress is one thing but going around conning women for sex its another. I can be down as a rock but i will never go that low.

 

[Ash007]

I won't be like Jack Neo because I despise him. Having mistress is one thing but going around conning women for sex its another. I can be down as a rock but i will never go that low.

Sorry, I meant to say, don't get caught out like Jack Neo. Want to eat, make sure your mistress/lover/syt understand your position. If you wife agrees it would make things even better.

 

[STUCK_HERE]

It's time to start keeping a young + super hot mistress or two. I'm not talking about students from china who need just S$1,500 a month. I'm talking about local SMU/NTU/NUS girls who need a sugar daddy for their college education + material obsessions. Believe me local college students are surprisingly wild in bed and much more satisfying compared to the bei-gus.

The money you need to do that will motivate you give your best and give you a second wind at work. The girls will get to finish college and be given a chance out of the poverty cycle. The guilt will make u an even better husband. The extra sex will provide you the exercise you otherwise would not get. Win Win situation.

And do a Jack Neo?

 

[streetsmart73]

It's a new position created by my new boss as he wants to capitalise on my expertise for his pet projects. I used to manage a 30 staff team but its a one man show now though I'm given a lot of flexibility to start from ground zero. I was also given an honorary seat in the company management committee though I'm not suppose to be in since I'm not a department head anymore.

So it seems I have nothing to complain about (other than the pay) but it just doesn't really sink in, which is why I'm wondering what the fark its all about.

hi there

1. logisex, honest i know how and what you are currently going through.
2. i was feeling exactly what you are back in late 07 and early 08. i quitted my job although i was at the pinnacle of my career.
3. i was just lost and empty. there was a little voice inside me telling funny things too. yes, i did block such things out fast.
4. no sex cannot occupy the emptiness in life.
5. pls don't quit as it is somewhat a lifeline.
6. what i did is to pray and exercise.
7. yes, i have been doing my workout routines since 19.
8. the phase will pass you fast without you realising it.
9. you shall find meaning in life again.
10. the other thing is support from your loved ones and trusted friends.

 

[cooleo]

U guys are missing the point if u think having sex is the solution to getting past a mid life crisis.

A mid life crisis is when u realized u not getting younger anymore n many things which u may do when younger is not really applicable liao. Such as playing arcade games. Quite rare and odd to see a 50year old man doing Parapara dance at arcade right?

I will say go travel around the world. Go Europe with a buddy, or maybe the missus!

 

[jw5]

After the CNY holidays, I've been feeling aloof and could not seems to be able to transit into my new job role.

All of a sudden, I think I'm feeling exactly like Kevin Spacey in the movie "American Beauty". I can't remember when was the last time I had sex with my wife, would rather DIY though I'm thinking of a LTF (lunch time fark) with a teenage girl now. I've lost interest in almost everything and always has the urge of calling my boss up and tell him I quit.

I feel like a zombie at times. Other times I would just drift into space. What the fark is going on.........

By all means diy while fantasizing, but don't ever turn it into reality.
Don't worry about being like a zombie, I can bet you that more than half of your colleagues are also like that, only that they pretend not to be. Your boss probably is too at times.
Try to think about something you really want or like to do. (something legal and which does not harm anyone please)

 

[jw5]

Bro
What you also need is a 3D/2N an orgy night out screw fest with your pals. Sometimes in times like these, you need your bros to see you thru the dark times.
Ive been there before & now know what youre going thru. Most of us will have to go thru this full circle.

I disagree bro.
Firstly, something really bad may result from this.
Secondly, once you see your friends naked and fucking, life will never be the same again.
Then again, maybe I'm a scaredy cat. :(

 

[jw5]

It's time to start keeping a young + super hot mistress or two. I'm not talking about students from china who need just S$1,500 a month. I'm talking about local SMU/NTU/NUS girls who need a sugar daddy for their college education + material obsessions. Believe me local college students are surprisingly wild in bed and much more satisfying compared to the bei-gus.

The money you need to do that will motivate you give your best and give you a second wind at work. The girls will get to finish college and be given a chance out of the poverty cycle. The guilt will make u an even better husband. The extra sex will provide you the exercise you otherwise would not get. Win Win situation.

You sound like someone who has been there and done that.
Care to start a new thread with more details?

 

[SotongMee]

Sound like another old cow eat new grass shoot wannabe case.

How come few mid life crisis "victims" ever felt like answering spiritual call like making life changing moves in becoming a Xtian pastor, Islamic mullah, Buddhist monk or Hindu priest?

After the CNY holidays, I've been feeling aloof and could not seems to be able to transit into my new job role.

All of a sudden, I think I'm feeling exactly like Kevin Spacey in the movie "American Beauty". I can't remember when was the last time I had sex with my wife, would rather DIY though I'm thinking of a LTF (lunch time fark) with a teenage girl now. I've lost interest in almost everything and always has the urge of calling my boss up and tell him I quit.

I feel like a zombie at times. Other times I would just drift into space. What the fark is going on.........