The trickle-down effects are just starting; the stealing, the extortions, the embezzlements, the prostitutions, the ah longs, the killings....
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Those who work in the offices nearby will be affected first. They will take their lunches and pop in and never got out. Mesmerised !!! Once, twice...Their livelihoods fly out of the windows. Sack for truancy and heavier cases, embezzlement, books are surely going to be cooked to feed their newly discovered habits.
Any casinos that are surburbanised will have these type of formerly upright workers bend for the love of gambling is an addiction and they are many who are willing to lose everything just to get the highs that the casinos offered.
So many studies were published and available from every major cities that has a casino or two built into them and the time taken to correlate them back to normalcy were between 12 to 15 years.
Meanwhile, Singapore could go to hell and roasts in between these years....
Anyway, some self-analysing would help too :
You may have a gambling problem if you:
Feel the need to be secretive about your gambling. You might gamble in secret or lie about how much you gamble, feeling others won’t understand or that you will surprise them with a big win.
Have trouble controlling your gambling. Once you start gambling, can you walk away? Or are you compelled to gamble until you’ve spent your last dollar, upping your bets in a bid to win lost money back?
Gamble even when you don’t have the money. A red flag is when you are getting more and more desperate to recoup your losses. You may gamble until you’ve spent your last dollar, and then move on to money you don’t have- money to pay bills, credit cards, or things for your children. You may feel pushed to borrow, sell or even steal things for gambling money. It’s a vicious cycle. You may sincerely believe that gambling more money is the only way to win lost money back. But it only puts you further and further in the hole.
Family and friends are worried about you. Denial keeps problem gambling going. If friends and family are worried, listen to them carefully. Take a hard look at how gambling is affecting your life. It’s not a sign of weakness to ask for help.
If your loved one has a gambling problem, he or she might:
Become increasingly defensive about his or her gambling. The more a problem gambler is in the hole, the more the need to defend gambling as a way to get money. Your loved one may get secretive, defensive or even blame you for the need to gamble, telling you that it is all for you and you need to trust in the “big win someday”.
Suddenly become secretive over money and finances. Your loved one might show a new desire to control household finances, or there might increasingly be a lack of money despite the same income and expenses. Savings and assets might mysteriously dwindle, or there may be unexplained loans or cash advances.
Become increasingly desperate for money to fund the gambling. Credit card bills may increase, or your loved one may ask friends and family for money. Jewelry or other items easily pawned for money may mysteriously disappear.
The biggest step in treatment is realizing you have a problem with gambling. It takes tremendous strength and courage to own up to this, especially if you have lost a lot of money and strained or broken relationships along the way.