Lots of dumped sluts with kids on Tinder looking for a provider.

[Cottonmouth]

Man asks if divorced women with kids on dating apps ‘want a man to help them raise the kids they bore for someone else & take care of her for life’​

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"Got any man will want this kind of relationship?" — Man

October 6, 2022
By Anna Maria Romero
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A man took to social media with an unusual complaint, saying that he has seen many divorced women who have kids on dating apps recently.
These women, he added, want a serious relationship and even marriage, which he appeared to find problematic.
He asked, “So that means they want a man to help them raise the kids they bore for someone else & take care of her for life? Got any man will want this kind of relationship?”

Mr Desmond Ang asked this question on the Complaint Singapore Facebook page on Tuesday (Oct 4), which elicited over 180 responses from netizens.
One commenter asked the man, “Do all these single mother deserve creeps who wants ONS (one-night stands)or FWB (friends with benefits)?”

Another woman wrote, “it only makes sense for her to request for a long-term relationship that can be the new stepdad for her child and be financially stable. That is logical. We cannot assume also she won’t be working to financially support her kids.”

“Everyone has the right to look for their lifelong partner,” another pointed out.

“If you love her, accept everything she has. Even her family,” urged another.

One commenter pointed out the reality that “single parents are looking for real and long-term relationships.”
However, this did not go over well with another netizen.

“Not every man is egoistical to the extent that they will view it as ‘someone else’s children’,” another commenter pointed out.

One female netizen wrote that women “can be very capable nowadays.”

Yet another wrote, “Wow. You realise that there are men who are divorced with kids too, right? Do you think they shouldn’t be on dating app too?”

However, some netizens seemed to agree with the poster.

/TISG

 

[laksaboy]

Single mothers are trash. End of story.

 

[bobby]

If you have to go onto an on-line app to look for a partner....you yourself is desperate.

 

[blackmondy]

Sounds like ATB.

 

[mahjongking]

fuck them.....on second thoughts...better not
fuck them still, verbally haha

 

[Loofydralb]

Single mothers are trash. End of story.

In principle. But if find one without the baggage of kids, that's a good deal.

 

[bobby]

Donch ever marry a wife with baggage....

 

[Patriotmissile]

U go tinder u expect to find pure virgin young chio girl for your taking? U get jamie kind with multiple husbands and kids. Get real.

 

[Cottonmouth]

Donch ever marry a wife with baggage....

What if the baggage is more fuckable than the main course?
It's not incest if she's not your daughter.

 

[Flying Horse]

Single mothers are trash. End of story.

Our mainstream media like calling everyone not to "stigmatized Single mothers" as they are now considered socially vulnerable group. Another long term plan to normalize social ill.

 

[bobby]

What if the baggage is more fuckable than the main course?
It's not incest if she's not your daughter.

Even hand carry cabin luggage is subjected to customs inspection...

 

[CPTMiller]

Single mothers are trash. End of story.

There are man who choose divorce woman with kids. Nothing wrong it's their choice.

 

[laksaboy]

There are man who choose divorce woman with kids. Nothing wrong it's their choice.

Their choice is trash.

 

[zeddy]

Most of these single moms want a gong gong guy to take care of them and their kids financially.

 

[Cottonmouth]

Most of these single moms want a gong gong guy to take care of them and their kids financially.

Their daughter better have a tight pussy.

 

[hollowman]

Aiya this kind of thing is pretty standard I guess. There are various kinds of single mum each with different expectations and various kinds of chee Hong man each also having different expectations.

For the single mum side
The self sustained kind will set higher expectations. They want to find a companion, someone to share their life with more than someone to provide for the kids. This kind may not be so hard up for marriage.
The low ses kind is more hard up for marriage.
It also all depend on how attractive they are in physical appearance. Give and take kind of things I.e a very chio single mum has to downgrade themselves to that of a average looking single woman.
If you were to read public comments you can see woman will usually carry a different thinking as man.

For the chee hong man side.
Some will not even want to get themselves into such relationships. The more clear minded ones.
For myself as a clear minded person, the very important factor is on whether the ex husband is still alive or not. I do not wish to look after someone else child and later the father return to claim ownership. Even if the ex husband has disappeared from their life at that point of time, it doesn't mean that this will not happen in future.
Amdk is very good in dealing with this kind of single mum I.e they can strike a balance in it.
I think rarely you will find gong chee hong who would willingly go all the way to look after the single mum and kids.

 

[Datingafter35]

Single mothers are trash. End of story.

Single mother who believe a life is precious decide to bring life into this world. Then realize she will be single and alone once the child goes to k2 or p1.