I guess prices may slowly pick up once people start to realise. I don't suffer from crab bucket or crab mentality, hence i always felt its good for folks to realise that are options out there. Maybe its just me but just like for sports, i never liked to compete even when i knew i would win. I thought to myself, what do i stand to lose by seeing more of my countrymen succeed?
Well, things sometimes don't go well even though you may have the best intentions.
I recently tried to help out a forumer who was buying a property, she asked me for contacts and in the end, i gave but told her i will stay out of it as i am not related in any way to any deals and yes did tell her she was free to choose whoever but the one she wanted me to intro, i told her did the best follow up for me.
Yet, probably that person(guess for some, you can't take the sinkie out of them) thought i would surely earn commission in some way if she approached the contact i gave so she still (naturally) approached another guy instead.
So she basically approached another sales person, it was just unfortunate for her she picked the guy who basically disappeared right after the sale.
Of course, they have the freedom to choose but now she is bothering the really hardworking people as the guy who sold it to her is doing a complete disappearing act and she is not approaching the problem by highlighting to the management, instead taking advantage of the kindness of some guys by making them attend to her after the sale.
My friend told me he will still continue to attend to her even sacrificing his other time with his customers and cover up for his bad colleague, that really made me feel bad. The good shouldn't have to constantly suffer the bad. :(
I really feel bad for the unsung guys who are genuinely doing their job, not getting credit for the sales and yet have to keep answering phone calls or attend to endless questions.
Well, I really felt bad pretty depressed the past few days over events at home and at work. I sincerely hoped i didn't pass on my bad luck to him and feel sad for the poor guys who do their job. Its always those irresponsible ones who leave crap for others to clear. I will try to avoid my friends to avoid passing my bad luck to them, they certainly do not deserve it.
To avoid any such issues, I am sorry but will refrain from passing any contacts at all from now on.
Just go with whereever you like, whoever you like and hopefully don't abuse others kindness along the way.