Wuqi,
Thank u for sharing your painful n hurtful past with all our cyber friends here. I m glad things are looking rosy now for u and lady Wuqi .I am sure the future will be even brighter than before for a warm shining gem as yourself.
Thank you MsTrii, i guess if i survived all these plus some of their attempts to break up our family, then we basically can survive anything.
Everyone has fears, i didn't tell my wife how fearful i was during the time my car lost control nor how fearful i was when the first time i went to the 2nd link to search for our dream home and ended up in Senai.
I didn't give up and resisted the STRONG urge to panic. I calmly told my wife, i took leave today and we still have 3 hours of daylight left, lets make the best of it. 30 minutes later, i was in the development we wanted to visit. I made more trips and visited over 20 plus potential sites before decided the first place we went to, was the best. Until today, it still is at least to me and my family.
One learned bro, also from SG even better, it was very bad jam and super heavy rain when he first went to view a property. When coming out, his car went over some wood with nails sticking out and slashed his tyres when he was looking at a property. He had to fix his tyres even though i rushed down to do an emergency fix but the fix didn't hold as there were just too many holes in the tyres. It would have been construed as a bad omen to many and i am sure most would have given up. No sir, not him, he steadfastly held on and bought his property.