Haha! I don't mind if my son gotton chosen for competition. For the fact that he was trying to get into the school archery team for CCA, but wasn't chosen because he wasn't tall enough and his strength still not there. The school team was famous for archery and he chose it because of archery. He mood was down for a couple of days.
One thing I find nowadays, schools gets so involved in winning competitions that they forgotten to nurture those that have interest. They only go for those that have the potential to win.
And for those having young kids now, my advise is to see what is your kid's inclination. Then prepare them early inordered not to be disappointed.
Neverthelessly, 此处不留爷, 自有留爷处! Don't say I never offer huh....
I understand, some kids are late bloomers, etc. Thats why i disagree with early streaming, etc. Case in point, had a friend who went to 7E or something in Primary school yet made it to 6A and then suddenly to Express stream, one of the top scorers in the entire school in our cohort.
So never give up on your kids even though it may seem hopeless, you never know what they will become later in life, give
them a chance.
If someone like me, who both parents and state had no hopes to begin with could succeed, anyone can succeed.
Please don't give up on your kid just because someone said so.