@rogue1109, odyssey & crystal:
my eldest just started primary, and younger one will be joining him in a couple of years.
as typical sinkie, the kids attend classes in sg like berries, english and music lessons.. basically 6 of 7 days a week are used.
wife can't drive, totally dependent on me if we were to move in.
so, if i were to buy the house, we cannot move in full-time, only weekends.
actually it will be ideal if we were able to all move there and rent out the hdb.
for that arrangement, i considered staying at my parents' place as transit (waiting for the kids to start/end school), then evening wait for me to fetch everyone home.... no-go, cos she got problems with my mom.
then, her parents' place...quite far away. she don't want to waste travel time (which better used for kids' homework).
i think she is simply not receptive to change and harder routines (waking up at 5-6am instead of 7am, crossing border daily)
finally i considered renting out a room.. and still working it out... hopefully privacy won't become an issue...
don't really want to rent out the jb house.. cos what can RM1.5 to 2k do? probably not enough to cover maintenance/damage by the tenant.
so worse case, not rent at all.. all from my own pocket till everyone is ready. but at least the house is sitting across the causeway ready for my retirement.
sigh..this walking atm cum robot better not fall sick.. else everything falls apart :(
anyway, i'm still working things out, if all goes well, probably within early next year. my financials will be more secured for half a decade if my company wins a big contract this june (that's partly why i'm also taking my time here)
my eldest just started primary, and younger one will be joining him in a couple of years.
as typical sinkie, the kids attend classes in sg like berries, english and music lessons.. basically 6 of 7 days a week are used.
wife can't drive, totally dependent on me if we were to move in.
so, if i were to buy the house, we cannot move in full-time, only weekends.
actually it will be ideal if we were able to all move there and rent out the hdb.
for that arrangement, i considered staying at my parents' place as transit (waiting for the kids to start/end school), then evening wait for me to fetch everyone home.... no-go, cos she got problems with my mom.
then, her parents' place...quite far away. she don't want to waste travel time (which better used for kids' homework).
i think she is simply not receptive to change and harder routines (waking up at 5-6am instead of 7am, crossing border daily)
finally i considered renting out a room.. and still working it out... hopefully privacy won't become an issue...
don't really want to rent out the jb house.. cos what can RM1.5 to 2k do? probably not enough to cover maintenance/damage by the tenant.
so worse case, not rent at all.. all from my own pocket till everyone is ready. but at least the house is sitting across the causeway ready for my retirement.
sigh..this walking atm cum robot better not fall sick.. else everything falls apart :(
anyway, i'm still working things out, if all goes well, probably within early next year. my financials will be more secured for half a decade if my company wins a big contract this june (that's partly why i'm also taking my time here)