Bro Windsor,
The diff betw u and Uncle Ram is that he doesn't call his foe using derogatory names like fathead eg. Maybe you should use Hokkien expletives next time like CB, it's less offensive actually.
you are quite right. Hokkien expletives like CB seem less offensive and hurtful than English insults like Moron, Retard, Maggot, Bastard.