i know where you are coming from, it makes more sense now. Choosing where to stay first is important before all the other necessary parts will fall into place. Start well, good to go. Start bad, oh crap..
Good perspective on the seasonal climatic issues. I feel more grounded and certainly looking at the whole picture from another point of view. Time to adjust some plans..
"Start well" from a Singapore point of view, or a Kiwi's point of view? Because local knowledge is important.
I have been through this before. I think it is a good idea to visit the country if you want, BUT NOT make the decision based on that one visit. My second big move from Perth to Auckland will be more relaxed. I did some dumb things from Singapore to Perth.
Neddy, I don't quite get what you mean by Kiwi's point of view. Any advices or tips to look out for?
Thanks neddy, your views are much appreciated. Plenty of culture shocks waiting for me once i am there. Guess the 1st year of landing always make or break the new emigrant.
It is like getting to know a new girl.
My first year was a Honeymoon of the joy of living in a different place and getting to know the place. The new experience thingy.
It was only when I got down to the business of living like the rest (2nd-3rd year) that I began to see the darker side. That was also when I kind of miss the familiar (eg friends, Singapore). This period was a trial because I was also looking for meaningful work. There is nothing like work that defines a man.
There may be a period when you think Singapore is better (you missed the grass). Usually, a trip back to Singapore will bring your focus back to why you wanted to leave in the first place. The same shit back home just got worst while I am getting better in adapting to the new country. I build new relationships within the Asian community as well as getting to know people from outside the community. The Aussie who helps my citizenship application is now like an elder sister to me. She has retired but still help out in the op shop.
If you can overcome that, usually when you establish a home (not house) and has a reasonable steady income stream, things will get better.
I think the 7-year inch applies to migration as well. If so, just treat it as your experience of a lifetime. No life experience is really ever wasted if you mature and broaden your knowledge, test your character and understand yourself better.
Your sole objective should not just be getting out of Singapore because of politics there, but it has to be something for yourself and your family.
Hope I helped.
I believed the feeling of emotional attachment may appeared from time to time and these are the happy memories of the past that we once remembered being that way. Other than that, i am happily looking forward to CA/NZ recce trips.
I liked your matured views in terms of how you define yourself in a foreign place and the ways to cope with the situation at heart. Adapting to a new place and integrating with the cultural community take time and effort. Nicely summed up.
Well, in my case, my mind and heart is somewhere else and i know there was much more out there in life, so I doubt there is anything that i would missed back in tiny dot. Dealing this void of familiarity was the first thing i did because i knew that if i wasn't strong enough to make this trip, then might as well forget it. The point is once the decision has been made, there's no turning back.
I believed the feeling of emotional attachment may appeared from time to time and these are the happy memories of the past that we once remembered being that way. Other than that, i am happily looking forward to CA/NZ recce trips.
I liked your matured views in terms of how you define yourself in a foreign place and the ways to cope with the situation at heart. Adapting to a new place and integrating with the cultural community take time and effort. Nicely summed up.
Well, in my case, my mind and heart is somewhere else and i know there was much more out there in life, so I doubt there is anything that i would missed back in tiny dot. Dealing this void of familiarity was the first thing i did because i knew that if i wasn't strong enough to make this trip, then might as well forget it. The point is once the decision has been made, there's no turning back.
I believed the feeling of emotional attachment may appeared from time to time and these are the happy memories of the past that we once remembered being that way. Other than that, i am happily looking forward to CA/NZ recce trips.
Met an ex-Singaporean pensioner at a Perth pharmacy today. He is having a heart condition and need this $249/month medication. But he paid just $5 for the medication. (Aussie Health care card holder, Medicare card holder would have paid $31) It is one of those PBS-RPBS Authorised prescription.
He told me that this medication will not be affordable to his Singaporean friends.
Lucky fellow!
The Singapore you knew and loved has already been destroyed anyway so what is there to stay on for. You might as well proceed to the next chapter of your life.
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There's pros and cons in every country, living abroad from time to time you'll learn to appreciate your home country more - at the same time you would also embrace your adopted country ie.Australia.
...Culture shock is overrated these days , there's really nothing shocking about Oz's culture other than it's openess to freedom of speech, media, sex etc. Integration is really not that difficult after all, yes, there's many asians here but you really don't want to spend your whole life socialise with the same community where you originally come from!
There's pros and cons in every country, living abroad from time to time you'll learn to appreciate your home country more - at the same time you would also embrace your adopted country ie.Australia.
Put the crappy Sg govt system aside, the accessibility and convenient to food and services in Sg is one of the very few reasons we miss the little red dot apart from our family & friends. Other than that, the general obsession of achieving top grades and elite status / social class in Sg is a 3rd world culture at best. Not forgetting most Sporeans can't even command a good standard of language be it English or Mandarin.
I'm in my 4th year here, yes I think I'll relocate to Sg for a few years but I have a strong feeling I won't stay long. Reason being I want to spend more time with my ageing parent, cos who knows how long my dad would live?Second is to use my abroad experience to have another push in my career(Sg, after all is a regional hub for financial services so the job scope / opportunity is broader than Oz which is very domestic-driven) However, at least I have an option of moving back to Oz. I have already gained the local experience and have had worked for big corporations here. A lot of aussies work abroad for a number of years and move back, often they'll get disappointed with the limited job opportunity here (I'm talking about financial services) but the pros is they get a more balanced lifestyle, space, and access to the beautiful environment eg. weather, parks, beaches(free!)
Culture shock is overrated these days , there's really nothing shocking about Oz's culture other than it's openess to freedom of speech, media, sex etc. Integration is really not that difficult after all, yes, there's many asians here but you really don't want to spend your whole life socialise with the same community where you originally come from!
There's pros and cons in every country, living abroad from time to time you'll learn to appreciate your home country more - at the same time you would also embrace your adopted country ie.Australia.
Put the crappy Sg govt system aside, the accessibility and convenient to food and services in Sg is one of the very few reasons we miss the little red dot apart from our family & friends. Other than that, the general obsession of achieving top grades and elite status / social class in Sg is a 3rd world culture at best. Not forgetting most Sporeans can't even command a good standard of language be it English or Mandarin.
I'm in my 4th year here, yes I think I'll relocate to Sg for a few years but I have a strong feeling I won't stay long. Reason being I want to spend more time with my ageing parent, cos who knows how long my dad would live?Second is to use my abroad experience to have another push in my career(Sg, after all is a regional hub for financial services so the job scope / opportunity is broader than Oz which is very domestic-driven) However, at least I have an option of moving back to Oz. I have already gained the local experience and have had worked for big corporations here. A lot of aussies work abroad for a number of years and move back, often they'll get disappointed with the limited job opportunity here (I'm talking about financial services) but the pros is they get a more balanced lifestyle, space, and access to the beautiful environment eg. weather, parks, beaches(free!)
Culture shock is overrated these days , there's really nothing shocking about Oz's culture other than it's openess to freedom of speech, media, sex etc. Integration is really not that difficult after all, yes, there's many asians here but you really don't want to spend your whole life socialise with the same community where you originally come from!
I think you have to move where the job/or career opportunity is - in this age and time.That's what i am doing now before i crumpled further under the policies of the myopic govt
Hello IWC2006, i am glad to hear of your overseas experience. Instead of Oz, I am considering CA/NZ to absorb the sights and sounds as part of the foreign cultural experience.
CA and NZ is a world apart, I wonder what's your decision to rule out Oz. NZ is a beautiful country but it's economy size is too small, even Oz's economy is small in my eye (apart from mining), unless you are using NZ as the springboard crossing over to Oz. You have to make up your mind is CA or NZ.
If you are considering to return in the near future, I think you will have to be prepared to deal with the reasons why you choose to leave in the first place. The 'shit' is still here in a more serious fashion (no pun intended). Do look into the employment visa and dual citizenship issue before coming here though.
I don't need to deal with the reason cos my goal has already achieved. The good thing is if you have a PR visa and having working and living in OZ for a couple of years; you can always move back. Nothing is for sure these days, never say never.
Life on the other side of the fence tends to broaden our perspectives and expand our viewpoints towards a well-developed and globalized mindset. I have read many accounts of successful individuals who have used overseas employment as a launching pad towards success in their mid-career progression. Go for it if you can.
Well done ! We can enjoy in SG together... hehe.
Good for you.
Some Aussies who migrate to Singapore are enjoying life to the fullest over there. Other than some nasty experiences with petty sour-grapes locals, they tend to mix with foreigners and more open-minded funky cosmopolitan native Singaporeans.
I don't know about that, i would have preferred HK though and closer to my partner's family, but economy is slowing down in HK as well.
............................neddy's adventures in prc.