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Envy, Lust and Honor-Seeking
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The teaching of the Talmudic sage, Rabbi Elazar Hakapar:
"Envy, lust and honor-seeking drive a person from the world."
Rabbi Elazar Hakapar tells us that these three character traits
are not only morally wrong, but also physically harmful, as they
harm the person who engages in them. A person who has envy,
lust and a desire for honor will be a very unhappy person.
These traits drive people to jeopardize their health, which in
turn, "drive a person from the world."
On the other hand, our sages in the same chapter of Pirkei Avot
tell us, "Who is rich? He who is happy with his lot!"
They also tell us, "Who is honored? He who honors others!"
When one is not envious of those who have more wealth, but
instead are happy with their lot in life, then they are indeed
wealthy. At the same time, one who does not seek recognition
but is happy, content and gives honor, is indeed honored and
will be healthier and live longer.
The story is told of a miser who put all his money in a pot and
buried it in the ground so that no one could take it away from
him.
One day he went to retrieve his money, but to his great shock,
he found that someone stole his money and instead left him a pot
full of rocks. The miser walked around crying, tearing the hair
from his head and bemoaning his terrible situation.
One of his friends, trying to console him said, "Why are you so
upset? After all, you never had any benefit of your wealth.
You never used your money, nor will you ever spend it for
yourself or for anyone else. So why are you so upset?
You wouldn't have had any use of your money anyway?"
To this the miser replied, "True, for myself it doesn't really
make a difference whether the pot is full of gold coins or
rocks, I will have no benefit from either. What hurts me is
that someone else out there is benefiting from my money.
This hurts more than anything else!"
To help remind us on a daily basis of our true wealth, our sages
instituted a series of blessings, which we recite each morning.
When we wake up in the morning, we bless and thank God for
returning our soul refreshed for the new day. We thank God for
giving us the power to see, to move our limbs, to stand, to walk
etc. These blessings make us aware at the beginning of each day
of how fortunate we really are and help us focus on the many
blessings we receive each minute of the day.
King David concludes the Psalms reminding us that we must thank
God for every single breath which we take!
We should continuously remember the wise guidance of Rabbi
Elazar Hakapar:
"Envy, lust and honor-seeking drive a person from the world."
If only we wouldn't take for granted the wonderful gifts which
God gives each of us each day; we would realize how much we have
to be thankful for.
HAVE A VERY GOOD, HAPPY, HEALTHY AND SUCCESSFUL DAY
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The teaching of the Talmudic sage, Rabbi Elazar Hakapar:
"Envy, lust and honor-seeking drive a person from the world."
Rabbi Elazar Hakapar tells us that these three character traits
are not only morally wrong, but also physically harmful, as they
harm the person who engages in them. A person who has envy,
lust and a desire for honor will be a very unhappy person.
These traits drive people to jeopardize their health, which in
turn, "drive a person from the world."
On the other hand, our sages in the same chapter of Pirkei Avot
tell us, "Who is rich? He who is happy with his lot!"
They also tell us, "Who is honored? He who honors others!"
When one is not envious of those who have more wealth, but
instead are happy with their lot in life, then they are indeed
wealthy. At the same time, one who does not seek recognition
but is happy, content and gives honor, is indeed honored and
will be healthier and live longer.
The story is told of a miser who put all his money in a pot and
buried it in the ground so that no one could take it away from
him.
One day he went to retrieve his money, but to his great shock,
he found that someone stole his money and instead left him a pot
full of rocks. The miser walked around crying, tearing the hair
from his head and bemoaning his terrible situation.
One of his friends, trying to console him said, "Why are you so
upset? After all, you never had any benefit of your wealth.
You never used your money, nor will you ever spend it for
yourself or for anyone else. So why are you so upset?
You wouldn't have had any use of your money anyway?"
To this the miser replied, "True, for myself it doesn't really
make a difference whether the pot is full of gold coins or
rocks, I will have no benefit from either. What hurts me is
that someone else out there is benefiting from my money.
This hurts more than anything else!"
To help remind us on a daily basis of our true wealth, our sages
instituted a series of blessings, which we recite each morning.
When we wake up in the morning, we bless and thank God for
returning our soul refreshed for the new day. We thank God for
giving us the power to see, to move our limbs, to stand, to walk
etc. These blessings make us aware at the beginning of each day
of how fortunate we really are and help us focus on the many
blessings we receive each minute of the day.
King David concludes the Psalms reminding us that we must thank
God for every single breath which we take!
We should continuously remember the wise guidance of Rabbi
Elazar Hakapar:
"Envy, lust and honor-seeking drive a person from the world."
If only we wouldn't take for granted the wonderful gifts which
God gives each of us each day; we would realize how much we have
to be thankful for.
HAVE A VERY GOOD, HAPPY, HEALTHY AND SUCCESSFUL DAY