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Stopped initiating chats since a long time ago so I started a small experiment and wait for women I matched to initiate chat on app.
Guess what?
Most of the time they initiated by asking how are you?, how's your day?, what are you working as?
As a guy, we may think that girls dont reply cos we are boring. But it's not that. They just found someone else they want to chat with. That's all. So fellow guys, don't need to crack your head to think of creative lines because women's replies are just as boring. Those who expect guys to put in most of the effort while they themselves are boring can skip. Because they're being double standard. You're setting your own bar too high. So it's really ok to just say hi how are you?. If they really want to engage in a chat with you, they'd reply. If not skip.
That's my takeaway. How's yours?
Guess what?
Most of the time they initiated by asking how are you?, how's your day?, what are you working as?
As a guy, we may think that girls dont reply cos we are boring. But it's not that. They just found someone else they want to chat with. That's all. So fellow guys, don't need to crack your head to think of creative lines because women's replies are just as boring. Those who expect guys to put in most of the effort while they themselves are boring can skip. Because they're being double standard. You're setting your own bar too high. So it's really ok to just say hi how are you?. If they really want to engage in a chat with you, they'd reply. If not skip.
That's my takeaway. How's yours?
