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Resurrection from Death

"But in fact, Christ has been raised from the dead. He is the first of a great harvest of all who have died. So you see, just as death came into the world through a man [Adam], now the resurrection from the dead has begun through another man [Jesus Christ]. Just as everyone dies because we all belong to Adam, everyone who belongs to Christ will be given new life. But there is an order to this resurrection: Christ was raised as the first of the harvest; then all who belong to Christ will be raised when he comes back."1

"Max Lucado in his book, Six Hours One Friday, tells the story of a missionary in Brazil who discovered a tribe of Indians in a remote part of the jungle. They lived near a large river. The tribe was in need of medical attention. A contagious disease was ravaging the population. People were dying daily. A hospital was not too far away—across the river—but the Indians would not cross it because they believed the river was inhabited by evil spirits. And to enter its water would mean certain death.

"The missionary explained how he had crossed the river and was unharmed. But they were not impressed. He then took them to the bank and placed his hand in the water. They still wouldn't go in. He walked into the water up to his waist and splashed water on his face. It didn't matter. They were still afraid to enter the river. Finally, he dove into the river, swam beneath the surface until he emerged on the other side. He raised a triumphant fist into the air. He had entered the water and escaped. It was then that the Indians broke into a cheer and followed him across.

"Isn't that what Jesus did? He entered the river of death and came out on the other side so that we might no longer fear death, but find eternal life in Him."2

Suggested prayer: "Dear God, thank you that Jesus, after he died on the cross to pay the penalty for all my sins, arose from the grave. Because of this your Word assures me that if I have accepted Jesus Christ as my personal Savior, I will also rise from death to live with you in heaven forever. Please help me to be sure that I am a real Christian and follower of Jesus Christ. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully in Jesus' name, amen."

 

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Object Lesson - Eyeglasses
The Holy Spirit Helps Us See
This Christian object lesson uses a pair of glasses to help children as well as adults or youth realize how the Holy Spirit helps us see God working in and around us in the spiritual realm of His Kingdom.

You may also be interested in the devotional Bible study for adults.

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Topic:

The Holy Spirit helps us see and know God and how we can live for Him.

Materials:
A pair of eye glasses

Bible verses:

Ephesians 1:18-19a; 2 Corinthians 4:6; 2 Corinthians 3:16

Bible Story:

2 Kings 6:8-17 God's Invisible Army

Object Lesson:

Begin the lesson with a quick game of "I Spy". Have students look around the room for things that are a certain color or shape; for youth or adults, have them find certain words either around the room or in magazines or the Bible. Take a few minutes to talk about how wonderful it is that God has given us the ability to see.

If you wear eyeglasses or reading glasses, talk about how they help you see. Ask any other students that wear glasses share how their glasses help them see. Can they see better with or without their glasses?

Explain that you are going to use glasses to share with them an object lesson about God and how His Holy Spirit helps us see and recognize things we can't see with our physical eyes. He helps us see life more clearly.

Read Ephesians 1:18-19a

"I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened, so that you will know what is the hope of His calling, what are the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints, and what is the surpassing greatness of His power toward us who believe."

Ask what they think Paul means by "the eyes of your heart".

Guide their answers to the understanding that "the eyes of our heart" do not help us see the physical world around us, but they help us know and understand in our heart the things of God and His Kingdom.

Depending on the age of your students, have someone read the following two Bible verses, or you read them:

2 Corinthians 4:6 -
" For God who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of God’s glory in the face of Jesus Christ."

2 Corinthians 3:15-16
"Even to this day, whenever Moses is read, a veil lies over their hearts, but whenever a person turns to the Lord, the veil is removed."

Take a moment to talk about these two verses. Talk about how in the first verse it mentions "darkness". Is it easy to see in the dark?

The second verse talks about a "veil". Have students cover their eyes with their hands or other object; ask if they can see.

Explain that when we accept Jesus as our Savior and Lord, and He comes into our life, He is light so we can see and know God. He uncovers our eyes and helps us see God and spiritual things. We can see hope in Him; we can see riches that are not money, but peace and joy and love, etc. We can see His power at work!



When Jesus brings us life and light, He also gives us His Holy Spirit. His Holy Spirit is with us every day and helps us understand what we read in the Bible. He guides us and helps us see how to walk and follow Jesus. He helps us see spiritual life more clearly.

[Option: Make the take home craft glasses and have students put them on each time you say "put on our GLASSES" with statements below.]

Every day we have a choice to allow the Holy Spirit to help us see, like putting on our glasses...or not.

When we sit down to read the Bible, we need to ask the Holy Spirit to help us understand what we are reading...put on our GLASSES!

When we don't know what decision to make, we need to ask the Holy Spirit to help us know what God wants...put on our GLASSES!

When we are angry at a friend that hurt us, we need to ask the Holy Spirit to help us forgive them...put on our GLASSES!

When our mom or dad tells us to do something, we need to ask the Holy Spirit to help us obey them...put on our GLASSES!

Have students think of other daily occurrences in which we need to remember this object lesson and ask the Holy Spirit to help us see.



Bible Story - 2 Kings 6:8-17

If you have a longer period of time. Read the story of Elisha and God's invisible army to give students an actual occurrence of how God's Holy Spirit opened the eyes of Elisha's servant to see the spiritual work of God protecting and fighting for them.

 

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Bible Object Lessons on Temptation

These hunting and fishing Bible object lessons do a great job to illustrate Satan's traps and snares.

Recently a couple of men from our church shared with our Awana kids some interesting Bible object lessons on temptation and Satan's schemes.

Object Lesson using a Barrel Net
Now I had never seen a barrel net before, but they are very interesting. The opening at one end is very large and the smell of bait entices the fish into the net. The net then has two funnels into which the fish enter, but cannot go back out.

Actually there is one small way out of the net, but the fish are trying every other way to get out once they are caught in the net.

This is a wonderful illustration how Satan entices us into sin. It doesn't look threatening and the bait is so attractive. Once we are caught in the net of sin though, there is only one way out - that is Jesus. We can try other ways, but there is only one out of sin's trap.

Matthew 7:13-14: "Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. 14 But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it."

John 14:6: "Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."

Bible Object Lesson using a Snare
I may not be a hunter, but I do realize how effective snares can be. The danger is that they blend in with the natural surroundings. A snare captures an animal as he's going about his normal activities. It won't kill the animal, but it will bind its leg and leave it helpless.

Satan can hide snares among the normal surroundings of our everyday life too. We can be caught unsuspecting if we're not careful to keep our spiritual eyes open and be on alert. It's important for us to listen to those that watch out for us like our parents or teachers. Also, we need to read and study the Bible because it warns us about Satan's snares and teaches us how to avoid being caught in them.

1 Peter 5:8: "Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour."

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Duck Decoy Bible Object Lesson
A duck decoy is made to look just like a real duck. The hunter places it in the water, splashes the water to make it move, and then uses a duck call to make the sounds of a duck.

Ducks follow a leader. As they hear what they think to be a duck calling to them, they follow. As they come closer, they get in grave danger because they're following a "fake" duck.

Who are we following? There are many voices that call for our attention and want us to follow them. There are our peers (others our own age), television programs, movies, etc. We need to be careful who we follow. The one we should be following is Jesus. He's the "real deal" not a decoy!

In Luke 21:8 Jesus says: " He replied: "Watch out that you are not deceived. For many will come in my name, claiming, 'I am he,' and, 'The time is near.' Do not follow them."

John 12:26: "Whoever serves me must follow me; and where I am, my servant also will be. My Father will honor the one who serves me."





Fishing Christian Object Lesson
Now I may not hunt or even fish with a barrel net, but as most Southern gals do, I enjoy fishing with a pole! This also is a great Bible object lesson to show how Satan can dangle something in front of us that looks good, but contains hidden danger just like the bait on a hook attracts a fish. That bait can be so tempting, but oh how careful we need to be because of the hook that hides within it!

Fishing, however, can also be a positive experience when Jesus is the fisherman or "fisher of men." He does not tempt us, but gathers us to himself and asks us to share His love with others.

Matthew 4:19: "Come, follow me," Jesus said, "and I will make you fishers of men."

 

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Object Lesson with Cake - Romans 8:28

Baking a cake can teach a powerful object lesson for kids. Let's face it, bad things happen in life. We live in a world tainted by sin. But the good news is that God can use both the good and the bad, "all things", to work together for our good when we trust Him!


Topic: When bad things happen, trust God.

Title: Let God do the Baking!

Objects: Ingredients for a cake & an already baked cake or cupcakes...this could also be done with cookies or brownies!

Bible Verse: Romans 8:28 - "God causes all things to work together for good to those who love Him and are called according to His good purpose."

Key Takeaway: God can even use even the bad times in our lives for good.

Christian object lesson:

How many of you like to eat cake?

Why? (Possible answers may include: it's sweet, tastes good, etc.)

Do any of you know what things go into a cake? [Give time for them to guess.]

Then all these things must be good - right?

Would you ever consider eating the ingrediants of a cake separately?

A spoon of flour?

A raw egg?

A little oil? [Allow children to taste a little flour, oil or cocoa. Of course...not the raw egg; we sure don't want someone to possibly get sick!]

How did each taste? ...Yuk!

Of course there is the sugar too - yum! Let each taste a bit of sugar; it will help get the "yucky" taste out.



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Show them the already baked cake or cupcakes.

Life can be a lot like a cake! . Separately there are some bitter times, some raw, hurtful times, and some dry, bland times.

Help them think of some "not-so-good" or tough times they have experienced or others may have experienced. Depending on the ages, it may be anything from a skinned knee to the loss of a loved one. Share something from your own life too. Remember your life is a wonderful living example for them!

But there are also the good times! Take a few minutes and have them think of some "good times" - birthday celebrations, new baby brother or sister, a vacation, a good meal, etc.

Some of the cake ingredients by themselves didn't taste very good, but when everything is mixed together we have a delicious cake to eat!

God is able to blend the good and the bad experiences in our lives together for our good. All together they create a life that is meaningful, useful, and tasty!

Romans 8:28 is a beautiful promise: "God causes all things to work together for good to those who love Him and are called according to His good purpose."

Depending on their ages, you can discuss more in detail how God has used some negative or tough times in your own life to bring about good.

The Bible is also full of some great examples!

Joseph - If he had not been sold into slavery, he may not have later been in the position where he could save his family from a famine.

Esther - "For such a time as this" God used Esther to save the Hebrew people from being killed.

No - all things are not good, but in God's hands they can be mixed and blended along with the good into a beautiful creation. It's during the bad times that we see how BIG our God is. He loves each of us and He is in control; we can trust Him!

[Now let them taste a piece of baked cake.]

Discuss how even though the ingredients do not taste good alone, they are all necessary for the cake to taste good in the end.

This Christian object lesson is a fun way to explain a difficult life lesson.

 

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Bible Object Lessons on The Trinity

Use these simple Bible object lessons along with Scripture to help students better understand the teaching of the Trinity in the Bible.

The word, Trinity, actually is not found in the Bible, yet the concept of God existing as one God, but in three persons is revealed throughout the Bible.




Nothing can quite capture the complete concept of the Trinity (One God - the Father, Son, & Holy Spirit), we must accept by faith that God is One and yet exists as the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

The following Bible object lessons are only inadequate tools, but can help children (or youth & adults) at least begin to grasp a better understanding. Note that none of these are perfect comparisons; they all fall short.

For a more in depth article that expounds on this, see "What is the Doctrine of the Trinity?"

Bible Verses About the Trinity

Trinity seen in creation -
The Father: Malachi 2:10 - "Have we not all one Father? Did not one God create us?"

The Son: John 1:1-4 - "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made."

The Spirit: Genesis 1:2 - "the Spirit of God was hovering over the waters."

All Three as One: Genesis 1:26 - "Then God said, "Let us make man in our image, in our likeness,"

Mark begins his Gospel account pointing to the Trinity-

"One day Jesus came from Nazareth in Galilee, and John baptized him in the Jordan River. As Jesus came up out of the water, he saw the heavens splitting apart and the Holy Spirit descending on him like a dove. And a voice from heaven said, “You are my dearly loved Son, and you bring me great joy.”

Mark 1:9-11

Trinity included in how we pray -

"pray to your Father, who is unseen"(Matt. 6:6).

Jesus,the Son, goes on to say in John 14:13, 14:14, 15:16, 16:23, 16:24, and 16:26 that we should ask in His name.

Romans 8:26 says: "We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us..."

Jesus speaks of the Trinity

Jesus leaves us with this command: Matthew 28:19 - "Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,"

Throughout God's Word He shows that He exists as the one, true God, but also as three identities.

Bible Object Lessons - What's in a Name


Object - a name tag

How many names do you go by? I go by Susan, Mom, Daughter, Sister, Teacher, and even Sweetheart sometimes(by my husband of coarse!)

Does this mean that I am more than one person? Of coarse not! In the same way God is one God, yet His identity is defined through three persons - God, Our Father; God, the Son; and God, the Holy Spirit.

*Of course, God is not three persons merely in name alone.



H20 - Trinity Lesson from Water


Object - glass of water

Scientists call the substance of water H2O because it consists of super-tiny particles called molecules which are made of 2 even smaller atoms of Hydrogen joined to a single atom of Oxygen.

However, water (H20) can take a liquid form - water, a solid form - ice, and a gas form - steam. It remains H2O though no matter what form it takes.

In the same way God is God whether He is in the person of - God the Father, God the Son, or God the Holy Spirit. He is still one God just as the substance we know as water is still H2O.

*God, however, does not change from Father or Son to Holy Spirit in any way; God always exists as all three.

 

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BackPack & Spiritual Gifts Object Lesson

An object lesson can make learning so much fun and keep the lesson fresh in our memory! This is a fun one for especially when kids are about to go back to school.

A backpack filled with various school supplies can teach how we each are important to God's work for His Kingdom. He has created us each to be uniquely used with a variety of spiritual gifts, talents, personalities, experiences, etc. We are each different, but all work together for the building up of His Church!

Topic: Spiritual Gifts

Object Lesson Title: What's Your Tool?

Object: Backpack filled with a variety of school supplies, a few random items and also a Bible. Try to have one item per student.

Bible Verses: 1 Corinthians 12:4-7

Key Takeaway: God has equipped each of us uniquely to work in His Kingdom; the greatest tool He has given to all of us though is the Bible!

"There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but the same God works all of them in all men.” 1 Corinthians 12:4-7

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More Back-to-School object lessons

Christian object lesson:

Hold up the backpack and ask students what type of items they would expect to find in it. If they are about to go back to school ask what items they will be taking in their backpack as they go to school.

Pass the backpack around and let each student remove one item and tell for what purpose it is used. Note their reactions as they pull out the "random" non-school items. Ask if they were surprised when someone pulled out a whisk, wooden spoon, hammer, or toothbrush. Note: Do not show the Bible until the end of the lesson.

God has many different tools in His backpack (the Church). Each is special and has a special purpose. We wouldn’t use a whisk to write with, but it is very useful for cooking.

We expected to find pencils, paper and notebooks in the backpack. In the same way, many times we only expect God to use the pastor, deacons, elders, or Sunday school teachers. In reality, God wants to use each and everyone of us. God has created us unique and different. He wants us to use our gifts for Him.

Take each of the items one at a time and ask children to think of ways each could be used by God and who might use such a tool. For example: the hammer may be used by a missionary, someone helping fix a roof, or a Christian construction worker; the pen may be used to write encouraging notes, write down memory verses, used by a teacher, etc.

Have them also think of other tools, gifts or abilities God has given them that they can use for His glory - ex: singing, drawing, helping others, sports, etc.

Finally pull out the Bible and explain that it is the most powerful tool that God has given to us! We must make sure we have it in our backpack for everyday life.

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Use Bible characters to point out more Christian object lessons; the following examples show how God uses many different types of people in His work. Give the clues first and see if kids can guess who they are; then read the Scripture for each.

(Peter) was a fisherman, was one of Jesus’ disciples, denied Jesus three times, was used mightily in building up the church (Acts 2:38-39)

(Paul) was a tentmaker, persecuted or punished Christians, met Jesus on the road to Damascus, went on missionary journeys, wrote most of the New Testament (Acts 20:7)

(Dorcas/Tabitha) was a seamstress, was a believer, made clothes for the widows, died and was brought back to life by Peter (Acts 9:36)

(Luke) doctor, traveled on missionary journeys with Paul, wrote one of the Gospels as well as Acts (Colossians 4:14)

(Mary & Martha) two sisters that were homemakers, had a brother that Jesus brought back to life, one anointed Jesus before He died (John 12:1-3)

(Barnabas) encourager, stood up in defense of Paul, went on missionary journeys (Acts 15:35)

 

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Object Lesson of Worth & Value
This simple object lesson encourages students to see their worth and value comes from God and is not based on how others may see them or even how they see themselves. Identity is something everyone deals with. God desires for each of us to find our identity in Christ.

• Topic: Identity - our worth & value
• Object Lesson Title: You're Worth It!
• Object: Pennies
• Bible Verses: Ephesians 2:8-10, Psalm 139:14, Genesis 1:27, Romans 2:11
• Key Takeaway: Our value is not determined by how others see us or even ourselves; it is based on what God says about us. We are marked "valuable" by Him. He does not show favoritism and neither should we. We should view every person valuable and worthy.

Object Lesson:
Hold out a handful of pennies. Ask which one is worth the most. Hopefully they will say "They are all worth the same!"

Pretend to argue with them that you think the shiniest ones are worth more than the dirty or old worn pennies. Finally ask them how they know they are each worth the same. Answers may vary, but lead them to understand that they are "all pennies" and that each one is marked with the value of "one cent."

Give each student a penny to hold.

Just like all these pennies are the same, we as people, as human beings, as God's highest creation are the same.

Have students look up Ephesians 2:10 -

"For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them." NASB

Many Bible translations use the word "workmanship." Take a few minutes to discuss how artists, cooks, craftsmen, builders, etc. may feel about something they have created. Let them also express how they feel when they have worked really hard to make something.

I love how the New Living Translation states it this way: "For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago."

We should be like the Psalmist in 139:14 and say, "I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made."

Even in Genesis 1:27 God set men and women apart from all other creation. He marked us with His image.

"God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them."

God has marked each of us with His image. Even when that image became damaged by sin, God valued us. Our value and worth to Him did not change - so much so that Jesus came to die for each one of us. God deemed each of us worthy of sending His son to die for our sin.

"But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." Romans 5:8



This object lesson demonstrates He didn't wait for us to get all shiny and clean. We are of worth to Him even while we are dirty and dingy.

Have each student look closely at their penny. Ask how many of them have the words "one cent" marked on them. The answer - ALL. Every penny is worth the same. Every person is worth the same to God. He does not have favorites.

Romans 2:11 says - "For there is no partiality with God." NASB or as the NLT phrases it - "For God does not show favoritism."

Have students read the words written over the head of Abraham Lincoln on their pennies. Read together out loud - "In God We Trust."

Because we are of such value and worth to God, He sent Jesus to die in our place because of our sin. Jesus took our punishment. All God asks is that we turn away from going away from Him and come back to Him by believing and trusting in Jesus. In God we trust.

Going back to Ephesians 2, read verses 8-10 now.

"For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are His workmanship (His masterpiece), created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them." NASB

Encourage students to remember each time they see a penny that they matter to God. He loves and values them and wants them to put their trust in Him every day. Also remind them that every person matters to God; therefore, they should also matter to us. We can share this good news with them by using the object lesson of a penny.

 

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Object Lesson with Toothpaste

The Bible talks a lot about our words. This simple object lesson will give kids a visual they will remember and help them think before speaking.


Topic: Think Before Speaking - Words Can Hurt

Title: No Taking It Back!

Object: Toothpaste

Bible Verses: Ephesians 4:29, Proverbs 11:9, 15:1,4, Psalm 141:3

Key Takeaway: Our words can be stones that hurt or gifts that build up. Once they are out of our mouth though, they cannot be taken back.



We probably have all heard or even chanted the jingle – “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never harm me.” We would also probably all agree…that just isn’t so! Words can hurt. Words can damage. Words can scar!

Solomon, the wisest man that has ever lived, attests to exactly this when he writes in Proverbs 15:4 – “Kind words bring life, but cruel words crush your spirit.” GNT

This Bible object lesson of being cautious and mindful of our words is an important one and one that the Bible speaks of often.

Ephesians 4:29 – “Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear.” [Other translations use “abusive word” NLT or “corrupt word” NKJV. ]

Proverbs 11:9 – “With their words, the godless destroy their friends, but knowledge will rescue the righteous.” NLT

Proverbs 15:1 – “A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.”

Christian object lesson:

Begin this lesson talking about how often we brush our teeth. Ask:

• Why do we brush our teeth?

• How often do you brush your teeth?

• Do you have to be reminded to brush your teeth?

Hold up the tube of toothpaste. Ask for a volunteer to squeeze all the toothpaste out onto a plate. Encourage them to use all their strength and get it all out. Next ask for another volunteer to come and put all the toothpaste back into the tube. Offer them a spoon to help, maybe a toothpick, even a small funnel. Allow others to try if they think they can do better.

We know the saying – “What goes up, must come down,” but in this case what came out does not just go back in! Our words are very much like this toothpaste.

Have everyone say the word “anger” together. Now tell them all to take the word back. Trying to put the toothpaste back into the tube was difficult, but taking our words back that we say is impossible!

Read the object lesson Bible verse - Ephesians 4:29 together.

Paul talks about unwholesome or abusive words; what type of words might these be? (curse words, words said in anger, insults, name calling, etc.)

Then he talks about words that are good for edification and give grace. Words good for edification are words that build up & encourage. Words that give grace to the hearer are words that may not be deserved, but are said in kindness in spite of not being deserved.



Let’s change some “unwholesome” words to words that build up or give grace.

Examples:

• Your younger brother or sister comes in your room without permission. You want to yell, “Get out, Dummy!” Instead you say, “I’m busy right now, could you come back later please? Maybe then we can play.”
• Your parent won’t let you go somewhere you want to go. You want to say, “I don’t care what you say; I hate you!” Instead you say, “I really want to go, but you are mom/dad and I will trust you.”
• Someone on your team makes a big mistake in the game. You want to say, “Way to mess up; can’t you do better than that?!” Instead you say, “It’s okay; we all make mistakes. Way to try hard!”

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Words can hurt or words can heal. Words can leave scars or they can be soothing medicine.

Proverbs 11:9 – “With their words, the godless destroy their friends, but knowledge will rescue the righteous.” NLT

Proverbs 15:1 – “A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.” NLT

It’s important that we think before we speak. Once the words are out of our mouth, they cannot be taken back. We can ask God to help us just like David does in Psalm 141:3 -

“Take control of what I say, O LORD, and guard my lips.” NLT

Pass out either strips of paper with this verse or attach it to a small tube of toothpaste for kids to take with them. Tell them to remember this simple object lesson each time they brush their teeth and ask God to help them use words that build others up.

Take time to pray this verse together as a group.



T.H.I.N.K. Acronym

You have probably seen this on posters or here on the Internet. This THINK acronym is a great way for any of us to think before we speak.

Before speaking, ask yourself - "Is it..."

T - true?

H - helpful?

I - inspiring?

N - necessary?

K - kind?



James, Jesus' brother, gives us great advice about being slow to speak -

"Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry." James 1:19 NLT



Bible Craft option: Kindness Rock

Kindness rocks are another fun way for kids to remember this important Bible object lesson!
Provide various size rocks for students to choose one and then either use paint or permanent markers to write a kind word on it and decorate it. Encourage them to either give their rock to someone who needs encouragement or to leave it in a spot around church or town where someone can find it and be encouraged.
Remind them that our words can be stones we throw and hurt others or they can be kindness rocks gently passed to another to encourage them and build them up – even if they don’t deserve it. May our words be gifts of grace!

 

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Mistakes in Gathering [ 1 min read ★ ]

. . . if anyone thinks he is something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself—Galatians 6:3

When we men relent and finally accept that we’re designed for community with other men, we nearly always start with the wrong criteria for choosing which men. We often plot and single out guys that are cool or rich or connected or well-educated or who’d be good to know from a work perspective. And, if we don’t fall into those traps, we choose guys that are just a lot like us. We each think, subconsciously almost, “If I’ve got to devote myself to a handful of other men, I’m going to make sure they have some strategic value to me—worldly value, to my career or to my social standing—or, at the very least, they’re men who won’t challenge me or make me uncomfortable.” Such plotting is a mistake. It’s driven by pride—that we somehow know better than God how these communities should come together. We must instead follow the blueprint given us by our King, Jesus Christ. He never once used this “strategic value” analysis. Throughout the Gospel, he spent time with people whom God the Father wanted him to—people with whom it made no sense to spend time, from a worldly perspective. Adopting this blueprint, the Apostle Paul wrote: “Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight” (Romans 12:16).

Okay, so what do we do? Pray that God brings the right men. Allow him to connect you to men who are willing to commit and surrender, willing to be transparent, are desperate for him. Be forewarned, though, the group that comes together will probably look nothing like what you expect . . . and that’s good. Groups we create ourselves, based on worldly criteria, aren’t worth our time. Groups that God creates for us are worth everything.

 

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Object Lesson - A Backpack of Worries

This object lesson can be used for Sunday school, youth lesson or even family worship time! It's a great reminder for all of us not to worry.

How often have we seen a student struggling to carry the load of books and supplies stuffed in their backpack? From now on may we remind ourselves God has asked us to trust Him with carrying the burden of our worries and anxiety.


Topic: No Worries...Giving God our Cares

Object Lesson Title: A Backpack of Worries

Object: Backpack, heavy books or other heavy random useless items

Bible Verses: Matthew 6:27, Matthew 11:28-30, 1 Peter 5:6-8, Philippians 4:6-7

Key Takeaway: We can trust God with all our worries.

Worry...we are all guilty of it. I say guilty because when we worry, we are not trusting God and that can give Satan a hold in our life. Worry is bad for our physical, mental, emotional & spiritual health. It's bad for our relationships. It's bad for anyone around us, especially impressionable souls like our children.

Let's use this object lesson to help us, as well as our kids, learn how to give our worries and anxiety to God and trust Him.



“Worry is like a rocking chair:
it gives you something to do but never gets you anywhere”
― Erma Bombeck

Christian object lesson:

Fill your backpack with a few useful items such as back-to-school supplies and several very large random books. Put the backpack on and appear to be struggling under its weight.

Have students comment on items they normally carry in their backpacks and how they use each. Ask them to guess what might be in your backpack.

Set the backpack on the ground and begin to unload the large random books commenting on their uselessness and not really knowing why you packed them. Finally pull out your Sunday School lesson book, Bible or other supplies that you did need to have with you.

Everyday we carry around worries just like a load of books that weren't ours to carry. Have student name some worries or fears with which they struggle. Share a few of your own worries. Mine would include: worry something bad will happen to my family, worry my paycheck won't cover the bills, worry about what other think of me, etc. Can we usually fix or do something about these things ourselves?



1. Jesus said Worry is useless.
Tell them that today we are going to see what God's Word says about things we try to carry ourselves such as worries, anxiety, fears, etc. and how we can learn to trust God to carry these for us.

Have everyone turn to the book of Matthew chapter 6 in their Bibles. This is part of the Sermon on the Mount where Jesus is speaking and teaching. Read aloud verses 25-27:

“That is why I tell you not to worry about everyday life—whether you have enough food and drink, or enough clothes to wear. Isn’t life more than food, and your body more than clothing? Look at the birds. They don’t plant or harvest or store food in barns, for your heavenly Father feeds them. And aren’t you far more valuable to him than they are? Can all your worries add a single moment to your life?" NLT

Jesus instructs us NOT to worry! In verse 25 He says "That is why..." Have students look back and if they can find the why in 24. Help them understand that a master is someone you depend upon. When we worry, we are depending on someone or something besides God.

Put everything back inside the backpack and ask for a volunteer to stand by you with the backpack on their back while you teach.

Now that we know we shouldn't worry, how do we live that out in everyday life?



2. I Can to trust God with my worries.
Read 1 Peter 5:6-8 -"So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honor. Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you. Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour." NLT

When we worry, we are actually being prideful. We are trying to handle hard things ourselves rather than trusting God. We must first admit we can't carry it all, we need help!

Pride is always a doorway for Satan. Worry, anxiety and fear can really devour or eat us up! They paralyze us and keep us from being who God has called us to be - courageous warriors for Christ!

We are to "give" or as other translations say "cast" our cares on God. This is a word picture of literally placing them on His back.

At this point take the backpack off the student's back and put it on your own.

Ask your volunteer to explain how that made them feel with you taking the load for them. God wants to do this for us too. He wants us to trust Him with our worries, anxiety and fear.



3. Don't worry; pray always & Give Thanks!
Paul sums up this process when writing to the Philippians in chapter 4 verses 6-7:

"Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus." NLT

Paul explains that our part is:

1. Never worry
2. Always pray
3. Give thanks

Then God will give us peace that no one can understand, but it can guard our heart and mind in Christ Jesus!

Take all the useless things out of your backpack and put to the side. Place the "much lighter" backpack now back on your back.


Read together out loud the words of Jesus found in Matthew 11:28-30 -
"Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.” NLT
When we walk closely with Jesus, He is there to carry our burdens of worry, anxiety and fear. He lightens our load and we can then "run the race set before us" (Hebrews 12:1-2) all out for Him!
Close the object lesson with a time of prayer asking God to carry our present worries and to guard our hearts and minds with His peace as we trust Him.

 

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With Whom Do You Gather? [ 1 min read ★ ]

For where two or three are gathered . . . there am I among them—Matthew 18:20

We men often find it hard to gather with other men in Christian community. Calendars are full: “I just don’t have time for one more thing.” Pride is high: “I’m good . . . I’m doing fine on my own.” Aversion to vulnerability is strong: “Oh, man . . . I’m just not that good at opening up.” If we are followers of our King, Jesus Christ, though, we must gather—“not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some” (Hebrews 10:25). But . . . why? Why is community so important for men? Well, a couple reasons. “Two are better than one,” Scripture tells us—we are stronger, less vulnerable, together (Ecclesiastes 4:9). “For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up” (Ecclesiastes 4:10). Even more important, though, Jesus tells us that he is uniquely present when we gather in his name (Matthew 18:20). You see, God the Holy Spirit dwells within each follower of Jesus. (John 14:17) Therefore, when we gather, the power of the Spirit flows from one to another and back. When we gather, the work of God is done: confessions are made; sins are repented; love and compassion are expressed; hearts are healed; encouragement is given; lives are transformed. Men are lifted up, up out of sin and rebellion, into life and identity and calling. Work is done that just cannot be done in isolation.

Okay, so what do we do? Grab some other guys . . . one guy, even. Start meeting on a regular basis, weekly is best. Fight for community, brother—against calendars, against pride, against fear. King David sang: “Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity!” (Psalm 133:1-3). This is so very important.

 

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A Parable of Two Seas




Jesus said, “The one who believes in me…will have streams of living water flow from deep within him” (John 7:38).
There’s an old but excellent analogy I find very helpful as a picture of a healthy Christian life. In northern Israel lies the beautiful Sea of Galilee, where Jesus often sailed with His disciples. Water freely flows from it into the Jordan River. Its water is fresh and life-giving. Like many, we’ve been there and seen and smelled its vitality.

But 88 miles south is a radically different sea. One of the lowest spots on earth, the Dead Sea collects large volumes of water but disperses none. Its salt concentration is so high no fish or vegetation can survive. While it’s fun to float on the Dead Sea—you can’t help but do so—it’s not fun to realize how utterly dead that sulfur-smelling water really is.

While the Jordan River flows into the Sea of Galilee, it also flows out. The water passes through, allowing it to support fish and plant life. Trapped, with no outlet, the Dead Sea keeps taking water in, but none leaves it but by evaporation.
No outlet means no life. This is a parable. In order to be faithful stewards and love others, we must be not only recipients of God’s provision but also outlets of it. Only then will we experience the abundant life He intends for us. (And we won’t smell like sulfur to everyone either!)

 

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Doing Too Many Things? [ 1 min read ★ ]

The days of my life all prepared before I’d even lived one day—Psalm 139:16

There are twenty-four hours in every day. We wish for more. We often act as if there were more: stay at work a little longer; stay up a little later, cram a bit more in. No matter what we do, though . . . still only twenty-four. God’s set the length. He’s also set the absolute number of those twenty-four-hour days each of us will ever get. We often act, though, as if that too weren't settled, as if our earthly days might stretch on forever. They won’t: “Since his days are determined, and the number of his months is with you, and you have appointed his limits that he cannot pass” (Job 14:5). Our time is scarce—it’s limited and there’s less than we’d like. How we allocate it, therefore, how we run our calendars, matters. If we’re not intentional, external factors will govern the allocation: things that are more urgent will claim top priority. The problem is, urgent things aren’t always important things. In fact, many unimportant things become urgent if we let them: e.g., we sign up for something, maybe simply because someone asked us to or because everyone else is signing up, and its demands escalate and it begins to take too much time. This happens some and we default into calendars that don’t reflect our true priorities. We end up with days filled, but with the wrong things.

Okay, so what do we do? Look at your weekly calendar. Grab some paper. List the major items. Then sort it by importance (not urgency). What’s most important to you? Most important to God? Now, brother, begin to cut from the bottom, from what’s least important. Go up as far as you can. Cut what you can right now, and commit to phase out what you must, over time.

 

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Handling Anger

The Issue: Anger is an emotion that can have a serious impact on your home life, friendships, and even your walk with God. Biblically speaking, anger in itself is not wrong when it is directed at sin with the right attitude (even God gets angry at sin - Josh. 7:1).

But when anger is rooted in a desire for retaliation or getting even, it is wrong. This is selfish, and it boils over from inward frustration and rage, leading to more trouble (Prov. 29:22). What does the Bible say?

Note what the Bible says about the seriousness of anger:
 James 1:19-20 – Our anger doesn’t produce anything good.
 James 3:6-8 – Harsh words destroy; root of many problems.

Note what the Bible says about handling anger:
 Eph. 4:26 – Do not sin, resolve anger issues quickly.
 Eph. 4:31-32 – Replace feelings of anger with a forgiving heart.

Note what the Bible says about being on guard against anger:
 Prov. 22:24-25 – Avoid those with anger issues; it can rub off.
 Prov. 19:11 – It is wise to ignore offenses done against you.

What should I do?

There will be moments of frustration in life, and there will be times when people do things that offend us. The key is how we handle such things. Inappropriate words and actions to fight back do not please the Lord, nor do they show a trust in God’s sovereign hand over the situation.

Fighting back only leads to regretful actions and damaged relationships. Having an attitude of patience and forgiveness, however, shows that we understand God’s patience and forgiveness toward us!

 

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The call to be different

The Issue: As we look at our society, we learn a lot about our modern culture. There are various expectations placed on us, and even pressure to fit into the mold of society. Sadly, many attitudes, perspectives and behaviors do not match that which God would desire us to have. In our study today, let’s see what Scriptures says about the call to be different.

What does the Bible say? Look at Numbers 14 (Israel approaching the Promised Land):

 How did Joshua and Caleb’s perspective of their situation cause them to stand out (vv. 1-9)? Joshua and Caleb trusted God and were committed to Him, whereas the people were afraid.  What did the Israelites think of Joshua and Caleb? (v. 10) They did not like the fact they were different. They hated them.

 Note v. 30 - Only Joshua and Caleb received the blessing.

 What does v. 24 say was so different about Caleb that set him apart from the other people? He had a different spirit and his heart was set on following God completely. What do these verses say is the goal of being different?  Rom. 12:1-2 – Don’t conform to the world, but be transformed.

 Matt. 5:10-16 – Let your light shine so others may glorify God.

 Rom. 8:29 – Our goal = be conformed into the image of Christ. What should I do? As followers of Jesus Christ, we are not called to look or act “weird.” But we are called to rise above the norm and live a life that glorifies Christ. Others may not like it, or even understand it, but when we are determined to live our lives for God, we will be different! In what ways should this calling play out in your life? In what ways should people see Christ in you?

 

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When you think about yourself, what thoughts come to mind? Consider your talents, abilities, personality, intelligence level, physical appearance, sense of humor (etc.). Do these things bring you good thoughts, bad thoughts, or mixed feelings?

The way we view ourselves often has an impact on the way we live. It is important that we look to Scripture to get a correct understanding of who we are. What does the Bible say? Note what the Bible says concerning our existence:

 Gen. 1:26-27 – We are a creation of God, made in His image.

 Ps. 139:13-16 – We were each formed by God, being made just as He wants us. We were all fearfully and wonderfully made. Note what the Bible says about God’s view of us?

 Rom. 5:6-8; 8:39 – Though we sinned, He loved us and redeemed us. We cannot be separated from God’s great love. Note some warnings about how we shouldn’t view ourselves:

 Rom. 12:3; Phil. 2:3 – Do not think too highly about ourselves. Do not live life self-focused or consumed with prideful thoughts.

What should I do? Each of us is a unique creation of God and therefore valuable and significant! There is no place to be overcome in misery over aspects of our life that are not what we think they should be, nor is there place to become prideful in areas of our life that we think are better than others! We were not given life to be self-consumed, but rather to be grateful for the goodness of our Creator and to be surrendered to allow Him to use the life He has given us for His purposes!

 

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The Issue:
The words that we say have such a huge impact on so many things. Our words can help us build friendships or create bitter enemies. Our words can encourage one person while hurting another. Let’s look at Scripture to see what God says about our speech and how to best use it for His glory.

What does the Bible say? What do these verses say about the impact our words have?

 James 3:3-5 – Though our tongue is little, it is very powerful.

 James 3:10-12 – Words are used to curse & bless = problem.

 Prov. 12:18 – Words can bring pain or bring healing/comfort.

 Prov. 15:1 – Words can help keep peace or stir up anger. How should we use our words in a positive way?

 I Tim. 4:12 – Use your speech to be an example to others.

 Prov. 4:24 – Do not use dishonest and hurtful speech.

 Prov. 12:15; 16:24 – Use words to be an encouragement.

 Psalm 19:14 – Focus on pleasing God with our speech. What should I do? Our speech is an outward reflection of what is in our hearts (Matt. 12:33-37), so it is important to first confess any sin in our hearts that may be causing wrongful speech (e.g., lack of respect for parents, hatred toward someone, jealousy, etc.). Then we must realize the significant impact our words can have to uplift and encourage those around us. We must be committed to intentionally using our words in a way that honors the Lord. Opportunities are all around us to do so! How can you use your words to encourage someone today?

 

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Contentment The Issue:

Being content with what we have is not always easy. From new clothes to the latest electronics, advertisers bombard us with things we are told we “have to have.” When we buy into this thinking, discontentment sets in and before long we find ourselves in the middle of an endless cycle of always wanting more and more. What does the Bible say? Note what the Bible says about contentment:

 Prov. 15:16 – Fearing God is good and brings satisfaction.

 Prov. 27:20 – Things do not satisfy; we will always want more.

 I Tim. 6:6-8 – Godliness with contentment is very beneficial, for it helps us see that our possessions on earth are only temporary. What are the keys to contentment?

 Ps. 73:25-26 – Our focus and desires should be on God.

 Matt. 6:33 – Our passion should be toward the things of God.

 Phil. 4:11-13 – Be grateful with what you have and the circumstances you are in by leaning on the strength of Christ. What should I do? Are you focused more on what you do not have as opposed to what you do have? Learning to be grateful and taking time to thank God for His blessings can go a long way in helping you become more content. In what other areas are you struggling to be content (life circumstances, your appearance, wanting popularity, etc.)?

How do the above verses speak to those struggles? May each of us not be characterized by pursuing “things,” but by pursuing God and His will for our lives!

 

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The Issue:

As believers, we have a desire to grow in our knowledge of God and learn more about how we can live for Him. A daily devotional time allows us this chance to hear from God and share what’s on our heart with Him every day. What does the Bible say? Note what insight these verses give concerning devos:

 Mark 1:35 – Jesus Himself set aside time for prayer.

 Matt. 6:5-6 – Helpful to find a place to humbly pray in a quiet.

 Ps. 5:3; 88:13 – Devotional time is often in the morning.

 Ps. 119:11 – Knowing God’s Word = key for victory over sin.

 Ps. 119:105 – God’s Word gives needed direction for life. What should I do? The Bible gives us principles and examples of what our devotional time should be like. Think through how to answer these questions concerning how to have a devotional time:  Where? A place that is quiet and away from distractions  When? In the morning, or a time of the day you can set aside

 How much time? Enough to be meaningful, yet not unrealistic  What to do? Share your heart with God and listen to Him •Prayer: Adoration, thanksgiving, confession, requests •Bible reading: Read a portion each day. Ask what truth, command, lesson, (etc.) is God teaching you from His Word Devotional time gives us moments with God that allow our relationship to develop and grow.

Just like any relationship, communication with God is important (both speaking and listening)! Devotions do require some discipline and planning, but when they become a habit in our lives, our relationship with God will never be the same

 

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Discernment

The Issue:
Discernment in the spiritual sense refers to the ability to recognize truth from error. When considering the variety of opinions and beliefs in our culture today, the need to screen out what is false and accept what is true becomes clear!

What does the Bible say? Note God’s warning and advice concerning false teaching:

 II Cor. 11:13-15 – Satan appears at times as an angel of light, so just because something sounds right doesn’t mean it is right.

 I John 4:1 – Many false teachers are in the world, so we must learn to “test the spirits” (evaluate what we hear). How do we know what is really true?

 John 17:17 – Thy Word (the Bible) is truth; we can rely on it.

 Heb. 4:12 – God’s Word is the key to revealing what is right. What is the end result of discerning what we hear?

 Eph. 4:14 – We will not fall for everything we hear.

 Heb. 5:13-14 – It is a sign (evidence) of spiritual maturity. What should I do? Many people are quick to accept a belief because it “sounds good” or because it is popular. However, we are told to be grounded in the truth, not popular opinions!

We must be careful about what we listen to, for when we are not careful, it can be easy to be deceived. God calls us to filter what we hear and be able to distinguish right from wrong. That is the key to standing for truth! And it all starts with being rooted and established in God’s Word (note Acts 17:11; Col. 2:7-8)