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I'm a 30-year-old Singaporean woman born and bred here in Singapore.

All my life, I've never met or known a S'porean guy who liked or LOVED serving out his National Service. They always have s*** to say about it. They often tell me, "If only you know what we go through here for 2.5 years, you'll know why we feel so strongly against it"

A guy from my bro's school even had to give up his dream of accepting a scholarship at one of the most prestigious music schools in the USA because MINDEF wouldn't allow him to defer NS for just 1 year... He had to do a diploma instead!!

The ONLY people, i can tell you this, who keep waxing lyrical about how good National Service is for their sons and how they would willingly do NS if they had to, are the FOREIGNERS-TURNED-NEW-<!--<WBR />-->CITIZENS. They talk alot about this, but guess what... they don't have to do it!! That's why it's all just BULLSHIT!!!

I don't even wish NS for my own son... but these Indian FTs in the forum can say, "oh i think it's good for my son to do NS"?!! BULLSHIT.</TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE>
 

seebaysong

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Let's be clear abt NS ... And I say this as one who went thru "hell" there ... It's good for the boys as it helps us develop mental strength, maturity and comraderie. The thing that is terribly wrong with the NS is that it is too long and draggy and becomes counter productive and counter intuitive after 1.5yrs and sadly, the govt doesn't think so... Still, NS is good
 

scroobal

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No body in his right mind will want to do NS. However it is done for national security and its an obligation that needs to be fulfilled. Since one is obliged might as take in the right spirit, make the best of it, pick up what it can offer and have fun when you can.

By the way scholarships come into play when you begin your course. This lady has no clue what she is talking about. It is indeed a sacrifice as it gives the females a 2 year headstart in their career.
 

Papsmearer

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Let's be clear abt NS ... And I say this as one who went thru "hell" there ... It's good for the boys as it helps us develop mental strength, maturity and comraderie. The thing that is terribly wrong with the NS is that it is too long and draggy and becomes counter productive and counter intuitive after 1.5yrs and sadly, the govt doesn't think so... Still, NS is good

Your kind of fucked up logic is why singapore is in the PAP hell that it is today. U don't need 2 years of NS to develop mental strength, maturity, and comraderie. If you think NS gives you this, u are a fool. Look around singapore, there are NS men having their backpacks carried by maids, there are so many sissy men walking around carrying handbags for their girlfriends, etc. All of them have done NS. By your logic, countries that do not have NS must have generations of immature, mentally weak men. We should be than dominating Hongkong, USA, etc. But we are not. And if you think NS will provide all those good things to you, why don't we extend NS to women too? That way, they can also develop mental strenght, maturity, etc. Talk bullshit.
 

Papsmearer

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No body in his right mind will want to do NS. However it is done for national security and its an obligation that needs to be fulfilled. Since one is obliged might as take in the right spirit, make the best of it, pick up what it can offer and have fun when you can.

By the way scholarships come into play when you begin your course. This lady has no clue what she is talking about. It is indeed a sacrifice as it gives the females a 2 year headstart in their career.

Who told u its done for national security?
 

silverfox@

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Your kind of fucked up logic is why singapore is in the PAP hell that it is today. U don't need 2 years of NS to develop mental strength, maturity, and comraderie. If you think NS gives you this, u are a fool. Look around singapore, there are NS men having their backpacks carried by maids, there are so many sissy men walking around carrying handbags for their girlfriends, etc. All of them have done NS. By your logic, countries that do not have NS must have generations of immature, mentally weak men. We should be than dominating Hongkong, USA, etc. But we are not. And if you think NS will provide all those good things to you, why don't we extend NS to women too? That way, they can also develop mental strenght, maturity, etc. Talk bullshit.
Sometimes i just think u are a sissy who keep harping on the same maid carrying fullpack excuse to regurgitate ur point that it is bad. U know what is bad abt ur single pt?

1 maid carrying fullpack for that soldier does not mean all people who do ns are sissies n have maids carrying fullpack for them. If that picture reminds u of how ur maid carry ur fullpack for u, good for u. That picture gives u good memories.
Dun use 1 reason to bash everything that comes along if not prostitutes can be mothers but does that mean all mothers are prostitutes? Ur logic goes along this same reasoning by interconnecting them together n it really sucks.
 

silverfox@

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Let's be clear abt NS ... And I say this as one who went thru "hell" there ... It's good for the boys as it helps us develop mental strength, maturity and comraderie. The thing that is terribly wrong with the NS is that it is too long and draggy and becomes counter productive and counter intuitive after 1.5yrs and sadly, the govt doesn't think so... Still, NS is good
Ns is too long. I did my ns too. I dun like ns but if u ask me is ns good? I think it has its good points but it can be reduced to 1 year instead n increase the reservice cycle for those who did ns for only 1 yr
 

shOUTloud

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No body in his right mind will want to do NS. However it is done for national security and its an obligation that needs to be fulfilled. Since one is obliged might as take in the right spirit, make the best of it, pick up what it can offer and have fun when you can.

By the way scholarships come into play when you begin your course. This lady has no clue what she is talking about. It is indeed a sacrifice as it gives the females a 2 year headstart in their career.

I always tell girls who asked me about NS. I dun have to like it; I just have to do it. No doubt my vocation is not as as siong as commandos or engineers so they really tulan about it. But my thinking is the same as you, it is national security and we have to do it.

It does build up resilience doing things we do not like to do.
 

Char_Azn

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2 points I want to bring up

1)NS 2 years liao not 2.5 yrs. I suspect this is another one of those jokers who had to go through 2.5 yrs NS, not happy come out and complain.

2)The friend was going to accept a place in a "music school". Prestigious or not, U go to some place like this U come back SG = cannot find work
 

SIFU

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2 points 1 want to bring up

1) Char_Azn is a certified confirmed chop 100% loyal PAP dog.

2) Char_Azn is not very smart.
 

red amoeba

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2 points I want to bring up

1)NS 2 years liao not 2.5 yrs. I suspect this is another one of those jokers who had to go through 2.5 yrs NS, not happy come out and complain.

2)The friend was going to accept a place in a "music school". Prestigious or not, U go to some place like this U come back SG = cannot find work

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bro, one year or 6 mth...i am against it if it does not serve any purpose. During my time in NS, my time was wasted basically - rushing to wait, and waiting to rush - that sum up my life in NS. the crap about commaradaire and fortifying oneself is ridiculous, I can do that by going to the gym or signing up some teambuilding exercise.

yah, you learn to shoot a SAR21 but you ain't allow to vote. U aint allow to view R21 movies but u can see each others' cocks during shower time - tok about gay tendencies.

I have been thru n seriously, i learn nothing but a waste of time n my youth. Ok, i understand the reason for NS, to defend the country, etc. But r we recognised for our efforts? Who are we defending? Rising costs / rising influx of FTs....

the reality of losing 2 years - 2.5 years to the female counterparts as well as those Asian scholars, FT scholars are very real. You enter NS at the prime of your youth (18) and you waste your time - and you go through university - assuming you don't go crazy, injured, killed, etc. deferrment happens only in exceptional circumstances - eg: study medicine or scholarships.

an average joe will enter uni, and finishes the course in 3 years? Enters workforce...2 years lag time in corporate world is huge. U imagine u will be reporting to your JC / poly classmate whom u have a crush on...or a FT classmate - not by your fault becos u fucked up ur job but bcos u goto be held back for 2 years.
 

Papsmearer

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Sometimes i just think u are a sissy who keep harping on the same maid carrying fullpack excuse to regurgitate ur point that it is bad. U know what is bad abt ur single pt?

1 maid carrying fullpack for that soldier does not mean all people who do ns are sissies n have maids carrying fullpack for them. If that picture reminds u of how ur maid carry ur fullpack for u, good for u. That picture gives u good memories.
Dun use 1 reason to bash everything that comes along if not prostitutes can be mothers but does that mean all mothers are prostitutes? Ur logic goes along this same reasoning by interconnecting them together n it really sucks.

I guess u need to get an education, u obviously cannot read. I only used the backpack carrying maid as one example ans not the single point. I also used handbag carrying males as another, and many more that I care not to name, that's why I used etc. And don't change the subject. How about countries that DON"T HAVE NS? Are they a nation of mentally weak, immature people? Is that what Hong Kong is? Is that what China is? What about the US.? U have fuck logic, everyone can see that. Its time u grow a brain and see it too.
 
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