How do you deal with money lost ?

[chootchiew]

Win some. Lost some. Screw up some. That's life.

My boss told me that when I started working.

Cheers!

OK, that's is the cool Xiao sa approach..

 

[chootchiew]

Fuck new yr resolution la. People never keep them. Start off with small but concrete actions. If you want to start a business, start small by finding a partner. If you want to invest, then go speak to someone. Don't just sit there and look at calendar. lol

to be frank, for whole of 2013 I was just looking at calendar every early mth for payday only.., to accumulate more $ to fight back. Now yr end coming then I realized I have peh peh cho kang for 1 yr :(

 

[chootchiew]

dun think about it, most important dun feel bitter and have the mindset that you want to win or take it back.

in my investment journey, i was lucky, i did a lot of reading and maybe i am smart and savvy as well, that's why i make in my investment that was able to sponsor me to trips overseas. i have been to phuket, phnom penh, perth and melbourne this year. god bless!

but when it comes to politics, i am unable to bring myself to lick pappies asses that's why i am unable to succeed in sinkieland. if i do, i think i will be more successful.

treat it as a lesson, money can be made back, losing...i think you are not alone, 90% investors are losers, only people like me can make.

cheers!

That's true, I rarely hears people who win in investments. I heard quite many success initially but eventually they lose upon subsequent investment.

 

[nutbush]

hope that i dun sound too arrogant, just stating facts. but my investments are small cos' i am a scary cat...:o

my problem is i have a mat mentality, i spent what i made. that's why i can never be rich...

That's true, I rarely hears people who win in investments. I heard quite many success initially but eventually they lose upon subsequent investment.

 

[laksaboy]

hope that i dun sound too arrogant, just stating facts. but my investments are small cos' i am a scary cat...:o

my problem is i have a mat mentality, i spent what i made. that's why i can never be rich...

Want to play, play big. Cowards never prosper.

28:20 onwards
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[Scrooball (clone)]

Haha nb this gambling show is too exaggerated.

 

[Leongsam]

What happens if your 2nd venture turn out to be failure also ? Will you be able to write it off and start over ?

I have not had two big failures in a row so I was able to recover.

 

[halsey02]

Just write if off and that will set the clock back to zero so you can start over.

I have lost tens of thousands of dollars in failed ventures. I treat the losses as course fees for learning the game of life.

Ah! guru-ji, Sahib!...easy to say, " easy come, easy go"...I lost quite a lot during the Asian Financial Crisis, when shares went into free fall & bottom less tumble, cut losses till I bled, that went into thousands of dollars....sure the clock was set to zero, learn a lesson in life, that, how careful you 'watch the horzon' a financial Tsunami' may occur....it was never the same..like a vase now broken & patch back, but is still BROKEn....can never get back to the level before the FALL.:p

Easy to talk...

 

[dietcoke]

before we continue, u must tell us what is ur addiction. ball? horse? stock?

 

[Clone]

How do you deal with big money lost ? I have difficulties accepting the fact and keep trying to chase after the losses and end up with big and bigger lost. How do you guys generally handle such situation e.g. have a good fuck , take anti depressant will it help? Genuine case, please advise good methods :o

I usually have a good fuck.

 

[chootchiew]

before we continue, u must tell us what is ur addiction. ball? horse? stock?

Majority on ball and horses.
Casino not so much, due to the fact that needs to pay $100 levy and for my type of mindset easily can lose the whole bankroll in casino else I will not retreat before the last $ is bet. My 6 visits this yr to RWS proved it. 4 wins of total about $5.5K but 2 lost already totaled $9k (bankroll of $3k and $6k) , so overall still lose $3.5k this yr.
Stocks is history to me..

 

[GOD IS MY DOG]

How do you deal with big money lost ? I have difficulties accepting the fact and keep trying to chase after the losses and end up with big and bigger lost. How do you guys generally handle such situation e.g. have a good fuck , take anti depressant will it help? Genuine case, please advise good methods :o

i've been in the same situation...................lost well over 100,000..............

consider this...........

1) death means the end of all things.............so do you want to die now ?

2) if not then start thinking how to recoup money back...............you'll never forget previous losses, so don't even bother to try ................

3) every time you think of past losses, stop immediately................instead focus on how to recoup the losses ...........think of what you want to achieve and think how you're gonna get there.............


also go read up on Emptiness............when you realize and understand it.............the losses will be less painful..........

 

[chootchiew]

i've been in the same situation...................lost well over 100,000..............

consider this...........

1) death means the end of all things.............so do you want to die now ?

2) if not then start thinking how to recoup money back...............you'll never forget previous losses, so don't even bother to try ................

3) every time you think of past losses, stop immediately................instead focus on how to recoup the losses ...........think of what you want to achieve and think how you're gonna get there.............


also go read up on Emptiness............when you realize and understand it.............the losses will be less painful..........

method (3) is to turn failure into success..need very strong and positive character, tks for the suggestion.

 

[rushifa666]

quite simple. Stop gambling like a sinkie cunt and do real investing. You could have made only 5 investments per year and come out tops. No contra, you will not understand the risk otherwise. Play wth real cash and you will learn prudence

 

[ykhuser]

How do you deal with big money lost ? I have difficulties accepting the fact and keep trying to chase after the losses and end up with big and bigger lost. How do you guys generally handle such situation e.g. have a good fuck , take anti depressant will it help? Genuine case, please advise good methods :o

just always install this mindset: $$ lose can always earn back. more important is your safety and health not compromise.

 

[jw5]

I usually have a good fuck.

But didn't your ATB gf go back?
Something doesn't quite gell here.........................................

 

[jw5]

i've been in the same situation...................lost well over 100,000..............

Hey GIMD, may I ask how much you have on Roma winning Serie A this season? And at what odds? Tks. :o

 

[AhMeng]

Just go to Marina Bay Sands Skypark and jump lah

 

[Jah_rastafar_I]

Just write if off and that will set the clock back to zero so you can start over.

I have lost tens of thousands of dollars in failed ventures. I treat the losses as course fees for learning the game of life.

From the post of the TS it doesn't look like business ventures or money making ones but more like gambling losses. That's very different from business ventures.

 

[Jah_rastafar_I]

Just write if off and that will set the clock back to zero so you can start over.

I have lost tens of thousands of dollars in failed ventures. I treat the losses as course fees for learning the game of life.

i've been in the same situation...................lost well over 100,000..............

consider this...........

1) death means the end of all things.............so do you want to die now ?

2) if not then start thinking how to recoup money back...............you'll never forget previous losses, so don't even bother to try ................

3) every time you think of past losses, stop immediately................instead focus on how to recoup the losses ...........think of what you want to achieve and think how you're gonna get there.............


also go read up on Emptiness............when you realize and understand it.............the losses will be less painful..........

Name of a book?