... because my ex want to meet up and I went to meet up for dinner with her and lend her $1000 because ex told me she has a bit of cash flow problem. i don't see anything wrong meeting up and helping her because she is a nice girl from a not so well to do family. i told my housemate even if ex doesn't return me the money, it's ok because she is a good filial daughter to her elderly parents. my housemate says i m a useless sucker man. really?