LOL. If you are still not that old, I can pass you some tricks for this game.Its passionate love and sacrifice. Thats why i like chinese girls.
I'm too old for that now.
To steal a Chinese girl heart, you must play it like fishing. Once a while give and mostly retract. The more you show not much interest the more they will then take the initiatives.
Of course you need to possess something that attracts them to achieve that. Looks may not be necessary. They always like men with ambitions. Whether success or not is another matter. And I know they despise kiasu kiasi sinkie men even upfront the sinkie men is more successful than their mudland counterparts.
Once their heart is stolen they will belong to you as long as you like.