Eh, I am pretty horny guy, when i am a single, i am in my 50's still mari kita every morning, the urge can be control.
My family come first, before my need, if i have to do without SEX, so be it.
Each and everyone of us has different priority, we set for ourselves.
As for look, my wife look plain jane.
I thought you first thing in the morning masturbate by stimulating your clitoris before you even brush your teeth ???