I ddn't quite understand what is bothering Maureen. Cant Maureen enjoy the best of both worlds?
Instead of complaining about it - why not see how lucky Maureen actually is - or has the Singaporean in Maureen never really left in the first place? Funny how complaining has become a Singaporean cultural norm!!!!
Ms Pollard case would portray the typical SG wife although there could be some exceptions to the rule. Nothing has changed in 30yrs with regards to the SINGAPOREAN wife be it in Singapore or as a SG emigrant.
Most don't know how to cook, can't do housework, has little or no idea about childcare. At least the Singapore male has done area cleaning in NS (before the SAF contracted out area cleaning).
My married SG friends say their wives rely 100% on maids or their own mothers for help in Singapore. The total reliance is almost akin to DRUG ADDICTION.
Those that have emigrated to NZ, call for help for their MUMMIES to come from Singapore and help them do housework(wash toilets, ironing of clothes etc), look after the newborn kid, cook and clena up etc. It is also pretty common for these SG little princesses to fly back to Singapore 2 to 3 times in a year.
The breed of SG women are all
"LITTLE PRINCESSES" with smooth satin hands and fingers with long painted nails untainted by housework. Emigration is THEIR WORST
NIGHTMARE!
It is NO WONDER that the personification of Ms Pollard as the typical SG wife; lamenting and wallowing in self-pity when most people would be envious. Her complain if indeed true is so frivolous.
Note also that she had so conveniently disregarded old age security afforded in Australia, the future of her children's education to Tertiary level, medical care that won't make one a bankrupt etc.