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Coffeeshop Chit Chat - Even New Citizens knows ugly PAP</TD><TD id=msgunetc noWrap align=right>
Subscribe </TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE><TABLE class=msgtable cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0 width="96%"><TBODY><TR><TD class=msg vAlign=top><TABLE border=0 cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0 width="100%"><TBODY><TR class=msghead><TD class=msgbfr1 width="1%"> </TD><TD><TABLE border=0 cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0><TBODY><TR class=msghead vAlign=top><TD class=msgF width="1%" noWrap align=right>From: </TD><TD class=msgFname width="68%" noWrap>AAAAAA50 <NOBR></NOBR> </TD><TD class=msgDate width="30%" noWrap align=right>5:14 pm </TD></TR><TR class=msghead><TD class=msgT height=20 width="1%" noWrap align=right>To: </TD><TD class=msgTname width="68%" noWrap>ALL <NOBR></NOBR></TD><TD class=msgNum noWrap align=right> (1 of 7) </TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE></TD></TR><TR><TD class=msgleft rowSpan=4 width="1%"> </TD><TD class=wintiny noWrap align=right>29860.1 </TD></TR><TR><TD height=8></TD></TR><TR><TD class=msgtxt>Even New Citizens know the ugly side of the PAP....eventually.
Stay here long enough, and they will begin to see the inadequacies of their policies, their double standards and the cold, high handed treatment of its citizens.
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http://www.todayonline.com/Voices/EDC100310-0000050/Unmarried-and-paying-for-it
I AM a 34-year-old living in Singapore with a 20-month-old son. I am a single parent by choice. I became a citizen here in 2008, in hope for a better future for my son. However, I have come to realise that there is not enough assistance from the Government for single parents such as myself.
When my son was born in 2008, I learned that we were not eligible for the Baby Bonus scheme as I do not have a marriage certificate - one of the requirements to claim the bonus. I understand that this was meant to promote a two-parent family unit, but I also understand that this scheme is meant to help the citizens of Singapore.
Is my son not entitled to the Baby Bonus though he is a citizen by birth?
When I was interested in acquiring an HDB flat to call a home for my son and myself, I was informed that I was not eligible yet as I was still considered "single" and would have to wait until I am 35 years old. I learnt that my son and I were not considered a "family nucleus" and thus did not merit owning a unit yet. I also learnt that I am not eligible (again) for HDB grants.
When I filed my income tax last year, I applied for the rebate on the levy imposed on my maid, the working mother relief, as well as the parenthood rebate. I was very disappointed to receive a letter from the Inland Revenue Authority of Singapore requesting that I send in a copy of my marriage certificate before I am considered eligible for the reliefs.
I am also anxious for the future of my son. What if he is not eligible for the financial assistance given to students for their education needs because I do not have a marriage certificate?
I cannot allow anybody to hold back my son just because I chose not to marry.
Please note that I am not promoting single parenthood. Single parenthood is not for everybody, and those who choose to raise their child alone have a great deal of responsibility to act as both a father and a mother to the child, to provide for the child singlehandedly, and to ensure that the child grows up a citizen of good moral character.
Whatever assistance anybody - family, friends, colleagues or government - can provide for single parents is very much appreciated, even if it is to ease a little of the burden that those in my position are carrying.
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Stay here long enough, and they will begin to see the inadequacies of their policies, their double standards and the cold, high handed treatment of its citizens.
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http://www.todayonline.com/Voices/EDC100310-0000050/Unmarried-and-paying-for-it
I AM a 34-year-old living in Singapore with a 20-month-old son. I am a single parent by choice. I became a citizen here in 2008, in hope for a better future for my son. However, I have come to realise that there is not enough assistance from the Government for single parents such as myself.
When my son was born in 2008, I learned that we were not eligible for the Baby Bonus scheme as I do not have a marriage certificate - one of the requirements to claim the bonus. I understand that this was meant to promote a two-parent family unit, but I also understand that this scheme is meant to help the citizens of Singapore.
Is my son not entitled to the Baby Bonus though he is a citizen by birth?
When I was interested in acquiring an HDB flat to call a home for my son and myself, I was informed that I was not eligible yet as I was still considered "single" and would have to wait until I am 35 years old. I learnt that my son and I were not considered a "family nucleus" and thus did not merit owning a unit yet. I also learnt that I am not eligible (again) for HDB grants.
When I filed my income tax last year, I applied for the rebate on the levy imposed on my maid, the working mother relief, as well as the parenthood rebate. I was very disappointed to receive a letter from the Inland Revenue Authority of Singapore requesting that I send in a copy of my marriage certificate before I am considered eligible for the reliefs.
I am also anxious for the future of my son. What if he is not eligible for the financial assistance given to students for their education needs because I do not have a marriage certificate?
I cannot allow anybody to hold back my son just because I chose not to marry.
Please note that I am not promoting single parenthood. Single parenthood is not for everybody, and those who choose to raise their child alone have a great deal of responsibility to act as both a father and a mother to the child, to provide for the child singlehandedly, and to ensure that the child grows up a citizen of good moral character.
Whatever assistance anybody - family, friends, colleagues or government - can provide for single parents is very much appreciated, even if it is to ease a little of the burden that those in my position are carrying.
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