Dilemma: SYT age 26 or Still S but not YT at 35

[Froggy]

Having children is a hassle especially in Singapore

 

[lifeafter41]

Can ask him pass 1 to me or not ? I also same STILL HOPING TO SETTLE DOWN LE

Can, I ask him.
My only concern is not sure if he has "used" either of them.
Don't want bro chootchiew to be on losing end.

 

[po2wq]

Early 50s, staying in executive with his parent, ie, the mom, old folks. House bought together with her name much earlier on. Owns a condo too, has his own business, guesstimate net worth easily more than 3mil.

Among the group of friends consider quite successful. Not flashy guy, down to earth.
Still looking forward to settle down and have family and kids. With his net worth, raised family definitely no problem ...

same 1 dat u mentioned earlier who got 1 shanghai galfren who wanted him 2 buy her a condo? ...


tel u wat ... he has his mind on ze syt la ... he wans 2 hear from pips telling him 2 go 4 ze syt ...

a normal man @ any age wil oways prefer a syt 1 la ...

 

[virus]

i not normal i want threesome with both 24 and 35

 

[GoldenDragon]

Can, I ask him.
My only concern is not sure if he has "used" either of them.
Don't want bro chootchiew to be on losing end.

I have no problem being on losing end. Can intro?

 

[jw5]

Hahaha, your spelling is atrocious but your memory is great. :p

same 1 dat u mentioned earlier who got 1 shanghai galfren who wanted him 2 buy her a condo? ...


tel u wat ... he has his mind on ze syt la ... he wans 2 hear from pips telling him 2 go 4 ze syt ...

a normal man @ any age wil oways prefer a syt 1 la ...

 

[bushtucker]

choose the one who CAN cook.

period.

 

[Froggy]

choose the one who CAN cook.

period.

Wrong. If she can cook I'll have no more excuses to stay out to "eat".

 

[lifeafter41]

same 1 dat u mentioned earlier who got 1 shanghai galfren who wanted him 2 buy her a condo? ...


tel u wat ... he has his mind on ze syt la ... he wans 2 hear from pips telling him 2 go 4 ze syt ...

a normal man @ any age wil oways prefer a syt 1 la ...

No, they are different person. The one mentioned earlier already hook on with Shanghai lady. How it turn out still remains to be seen. The condo he bought for/with her will only TOP this year end. As to getting married, it's anybody guess.

Hahahaha. You might be correct, he might be asking for affirmation to go for SYT. If family and kids is what he yearn, perhaps going for a younger lady would have a better chance to conceive.
Meanwhile in this case, he already paid for this condo and understand it's already been rented out.
It will be their matrimonial home once he settles down.

 

[lifeafter41]

I have no problem being on losing end. Can intro?

Hahahaha. Just pulling chootchiew leg.
Already write in forum, and ask him some more, sure get into trouble.

From what he told me, no "moves" being make by him, on both, for now.

 

[NanoSpeed]

Wrong. If she can cook I'll have no more excuses to stay out to "eat".

She can bathe you, most probably. Nevertheless, it's not going to stop you from ap nam -ing outside.

 

[looneytan]

you know the rule here, no peekture no talk, with peekture at least half of the forummers here can make decision for your friend liao ...

please ask your friend to send peekture

 

[no_faith]

Only 2 options? Got more? Why limit to 2 only leh?

 

[Ash007]

Early 50s, staying in executive with his parent, ie, the mom, old folks. House bought together with her name much earlier on. Owns a condo too, has his own business, guesstimate net worth easily more than 3mil.

Among the group of friends consider quite successful. Not flashy guy, down to earth.
Still looking forward to settle down and have family and kids. With his net worth, raised family definitely no problem.

Was wondering why you ask this question too?

If he wants kids consider this article as well.

http://www.smh.com.au/national/health/whats-your-magic-number-scientists-predict-when-you-should-start-a-family-20150730-ginobm.html

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[tonychat]

 

[tonychat]

Was talking to an old friend yesterday. Still hoping to settle down and have not given up hope.
Told me he was introduce to a SYT, this year at 26, not bad looking but just started out to work and kind of click together, he told me.

Meanwhile understand he was also introduced to another girlfriend, this time round, 35 years old. Doing quite well in her career, I think in accountancy, but did not really ask. Not bad looking too, mature type.......went out a few times together, told me enjoyed her company.

Anyway, ask me he do not know which one to decide to go with??
Told him go with his heart, but replied both also potential wifey material.
Told him, go for the younger one....
What do you think??

you friend or you..don;t insult intelligence leh.

 

[lifeafter41]

If he wants kids consider this article as well.

http://www.smh.com.au/national/health/whats-your-magic-number-scientists-predict-when-you-should-start-a-family-20150730-ginobm.html

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Yes, I understand what the article means.
I know of a couple, local Singaporean guy married a Japanese lady. They met when he was studying in Japan.

Married late and because of work and stress, did not have any children, last resort went for IVF. Every time time goes for the treatment cost at least 15k, went at least 3 times, but to no avail. Last I know they are still childless. Did ask them to consider adoption though.

When the wife went for IVF, I recall was already 42, not easy as the doctor told them. Chances are only about 33% of succeeding. Thought 3 times try maybe can succeed, but no go.

 

[lifeafter41]

you friend or you..don;t insult intelligence leh.

Dear tony, while I wish it was me, but it's not.
I told him to go for the younger one.
That's a no brainer, if you ask me.

 

[lifeafter41]

Your friend think too much. In reality, the problem in Sinkieland here is not of choice but rather lack of choice. If both are good like your friend described they are unlikely to go for a fifty plus man.

You will be surprise, understand from him both are willing to take the relationship further. While he might be reading too much into it, given his age and experience, dealing with people and business, he should be able to tell.

 

[MovieStar]

If your friend has nothing. Net worth less than 100k.
You ask the 2 girls still want him or not.