No la ..she dun love me only be with me for financial security & aiming for SPR :(
I also hope she break off with me .. now both of us are not in talking term.
She is in Shanghai & I am in Singapore.. not calling & sms each other everyday not even MSN daily.
I only call or msn during weekend
Haa u power leh. U are a real-life ROBERT (aka a person who gets conned easily). No offence bro, u need someone to scold u. Even though i am not ur lao peh or related to u, must talk some sense as i see that u are heading for deep shit.
Seems like u feel v insecure about this relationship and also the fact that ur PRC gf seems very street-smart and materialistic.
There is no such thing as you buy a house under your name and then after divorce, your wife gets nothing one. Maybe in U.S if u sign pre-nuptial agreement, but Sinkapore don't have!
Don't forget the alimony u have to pay her after divorce. Think of it as a monthly income tax. U won't ever see your money back.
If you are open to suggestions, i suggest that u try out those match-making agencies who will intro u Viet wives. Of cos no guarantee they won't be materialistic or what la, but i guess you should explore your options before committing to your PRC gf. No kidding!