Serious Age 40++ advice needed

[SirRichard]

Hi guys ,

I’m approaching late 40s and I find it very obvious that my inner drive and motivation level has dipped.l considerably. I still have the hunger and desire to do well in life but the mental part cannot keep up, even for concentration level. Anyone of you experienced this post 40s and how do you overcome it.

I get the STRONG and DRIVEN feeling back whenever I finish a long work out when the endorphins level is high. How to sustain such positive and driven state ? Any useful supplement for that ?

Your advice is greatly appreciated!

Cheers

SR.

 

[laksaboy]

No one can tell you how to live your life. You have to figure it out on your own.

 

[NgahLatLou]

Once you hit mid 40s towards late 40s, you will realized that many things in life and about life slowly goes downhill.
1) You find yourself no longer have the same stamina to climb the stairs or even walk up a steep slope.
2) You watch porn also somethings has not much kick.
3) You PCC also cannot shoot but drip instead and a lot lesser comparing to few years back
4) Your hair starts getting lesser by the day and eventually turns grey/white
5) Your skin condition turns bad and no longer shine and smooth as before
6) Auntie that once address you as Mr call you uncle instead.
7) SYTs no longer interested in you even if you are not poor
8) Opportunity in job or whatever gets lesser as those chances has been given to the younger chaps
The list goes on and it's really disheartening to see your own downfall eventually.

 

[zhihau]

Listen to me: Tantric sex is the best!

 

[sweetiepie]

Once you hit mid 40s towards late 40s, you will realized that many things in life and about life slowly goes downhill.
1) You find yourself no longer have the same stamina to climb the stairs or even walk up a steep slope.
2) You watch porn also somethings has not much kick.
3) You PCC also cannot shoot but drip instead and a lot lesser comparing to few years back
4) Your hair starts getting lesser by the day and eventually turns grey/white
5) Your skin condition turns bad and no longer shine and smooth as before
6) Auntie that once address you as Mr call you uncle instead.
7) SYTs no longer interested in you even if you are not poor
8) Opportunity in job or whatever gets lesser as those chances has been given to the younger chaps
The list goes on and it's really disheartening to see your own downfall eventually.

KNN once you hit 50 onwards is even worse KNN you will realise that
1. even you willing to pay for sex to prostitute your request might be rejected at times KNN
2. you will always think of past glory instead of future plans during bedtime as future looks bleak and infact no more future as it will only get worst each day KNN
3. you will find that your working colleagues and superiors are all younger than you but you still need to respect them and take their orders KNN
4. even you still have friends you will find that the topic is always encircling the same thing KNN
5. even you try to colour your hair black it will look weird as the face texture doesn't match the hair colour KNN
6. you will not want to shop for clothes as you be very scared to go fitting room to see the ugly you KNN
and the list goes on KNN

 

[AhMeng]

The Solution

1. Talk to @ginfreely.
2. Try to bed her. Robbing her virginity will make you young again.
3. Do item 1 and 2 repeatedly until you suck her dry

 

[sweetiepie]

The Solution

1. Talk to @ginfreely.
2. Try to bed her. Robbing her virginity will make you young again.
3. Do item 1 and 2 repeatedly until you suck her dry

KNN correct KNN the idea is to ram @ginfreely type repeatedly so that at least someone will end up worst than yourself then you will feel better KNN

 

[SirRichard]

Sex drive also downhill. One shot and that’s it whereby last time can straight away hantum second shot.

Any serious advice from bros here ?

 

[red amoeba]

Sad. Ur sex drive low but women of the same age are more sexually hungry.

 

[batman1]

No point working so hard. You cannot catch up with costs of living .

 

[Baccara77]

Sex drive also downhill. One shot and that’s it whereby last time can straight away hantum second shot.

Any serious advice from bros here ?

If you are not handsome, being young will help hide your defects. If you are handsome, then make sacrifice to keep your body in shape.

Be successful in life, and women will naturally want to share your limelight. Don't worry about the aunties who go around calling you "uncle". These aunties are suffering from 40+ crisis themselves, and the only way they can make themselves feel good is to pull you into their group. Remember : inferiority complex is a vicious cycle. When it infects you like it infected the aunties, the virus tends to spread around. Inferiority complex is contagious and it breeds jealousy.

Stay away from people (friends and relatives included) who attempt to assimilate you. Stay away from hawker centers.

 

[batman1]

Old nevermind but must have vitamin M,all ladies young or old will flock on you.

 

[Froggy]

You have a good life. If your career is threatened for example your sales figure don't meet expectation you will be too busy to think of such mundane things. Every month end I worry about my screws, now I having my holiday and today is 29th I damn worry. So count your blessings, keep yourself busy.

 

[mako65]

Tat's life.. Dun worry, be happy! Hahahaha.. U can't thwart the Nature of Life, live with it..cheers, bros!

 

[GoldenDragon]

Sex drive also downhill. One shot and that’s it whereby last time can straight away hantum second shot.

Any serious advice from bros here ?

You are not alone. It’s equal misery or worse for those in their 60s. Just be thankful it’s still does the job for you, one shot notwithstanding. Better than no shot at all.

 

[Bacccarat]

You have a good life. If your career is threatened for example your sales figure don't meet expectation you will be too busy to think of such mundane things. Every month end I worry about my screws, now I having my holiday and today is 29th I damn worry. So count your blessings, keep yourself busy.

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[Leongsam]

Hi guys ,

I’m approaching late 40s and I find it very obvious that my inner drive and motivation level has dipped.l considerably. I still have the hunger and desire to do well in life but the mental part cannot keep up, even for concentration level. Anyone of you experienced this post 40s and how do you overcome it.

I get the STRONG and DRIVEN feeling back whenever I finish a long work out when the endorphins level is high. How to sustain such positive and driven state ? Any useful supplement for that ?

Your advice is greatly appreciated!

Cheers

SR.

Don't let the naysayers in this thread get you down.

The best years of my life have been from 45 onwards.

I'm now fitter, healthier, leaner and happier than I was in my 20s and 30s. The reason is simple and it is because I got my priorities right after periods of confusion and self doubt in my younger years.

And the notion that sex will invariably go downhill is absolutely false. In order to function well sexually there are two essential elements that need to work in tandem and they are your testosterone levels and your artery health and both these aspects of your overall health can be taken care of with just one activity which is regular exercise!

If you ask me today what is the most important activity that I perform as part of my regular routine it just has to be my daily workout.

Why else do you think I constantly try to get commuters out of their cars and into cycling. It's because it will transform their lives immensely with far better outcomes than winning Toto.

If you need more detailed information just let me know and I can point you in the right direction.

 

[Leongsam]

I forgot to add that it is important to also have a hobby in order to stimulate yourself mentally. If you're having problems concentrating it's probably because you're bored with what you're doing currently so your mind starts wandering. It can be brought back into sharp focus when you concentrate on something that you enjoy and which motivates you.

Meditation is also an important component of happiness. You can learn just by subscribing to apps like Headspace or Calm. I have both. I was skeptical initially but I have found that these sorts of apps actually help. All you need is constant practise.