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Woman sues ex-boyfriend for alleged rape; judge says she tampered with evidence
Ms Yang Nan had tampered with the WeChat exchanges by deleting her side of the conversation and showing only the man’s messages. ST PHOTO: KELVIN CHNG
Selina Lum
Senior Law Correspondent
Feb 25, 2023
SINGAPORE - A woman claimed her former boyfriend had raped her, and presented numerous text messages as court exhibits to support her allegation that he had been harassing her as well.
But it turned out that Ms Yang Nan had tampered with the WeChat exchanges by deleting her side of the conversation and showing only the man’s messages.
This gave the false impression that Mr Li Shukai was sending multiple unwanted messages relentlessly.
The lawsuit was dismissed by a district judge, who found that Ms Yang had failed to prove her claim for damages.
“Not only was there an absence of any objective direct evidence of the alleged rape, the contemporaneous evidence contradicted the plaintiff’s explanation for what happened,” said Judge Allen Ng in a judgment published on Friday.
The judge also said Ms Yang had damaged her own credibility by tampering with evidence.
Ms Yang has filed an appeal against the decision.
Mr Li and Ms Yang met on Feb 14, 2018. They started texting each other on WeChat and had sex on Feb 27.
He said the encounter was consensual, but she said he raped her. Ms Yang claimed the incident caused her to suffer post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
But they continued to text each other and meet after the incident. He said it was because they were a couple, but she said it was because he threatened her.
On the evening of March 10, 2018 the pair went to Mr Li’s flat.
She alleged that he confined her until the afternoon of March 11 and assaulted, raped and injured her.
He said they had consensual sex and she voluntarily stayed the night. The pair continued to exchange messages and meet, but broke up in April 2018.
On May 2, 2018, Ms Yang lodged a police report saying she suspected that Mr Li was harassing her.
A day later, she made another report stating that her ex-boyfriend had sexually assaulted her.
Mr Li was investigated by the police, and no further action was taken.
He said Ms Yang sent him harassing messages, published defamatory posts and vandalised the walls outside his flat.
On Aug 19, 2020, Ms Yang sued Mr Li over several alleged incidents of rape.
Mr Li partly succeeded in striking out her claim, and the trial was limited to the March 10 incident for which she sued for assault, battery and false imprisonment.
Ms Yang asserted that Mr Li had twisted her wrist, ripped off her clothes and bit her breast.
She submitted a photograph of a foot which she said was scarred as a result of the incident, as well as a medical report which stated that she had a vaginal infection.
Judge Ng said the report did not prove she was raped.
The judge said the messages exchanged between the pair contradicted Ms Yang’s claim that she was a victim who was agreeing to an aggressor’s demands out of fear.
The messages immediately after the alleged rape also did not indicate she was in fear – the pair had exchanged affectionate emojis on the night of March 11.
Ms Yang submitted 30 pages of messages which gave the impression that she was ignoring Mr Li.
When Mr Li’s lawyer Riyach Hussain confronted Ms Yang with the full exchange from his client, she admitted she had deleted her own messages.
She said she deleted them “so that the conversation will appear to be more complete” and because she wanted “all the conversation to be reflected in this screenshot”.
Dumb ATB no brains, just like Winnie Xi. Think deleting msg on her side means other party will also be deleted.
PRC WOMAN SMASHED S’PORE EX-BF’S CAR & HOUSE WITH GOLF CLUB, JAILED 2 WEEKS
ByKanyeNorth
June 28, 2023
A 36-year-old Chinese national, Zhou Dani, had been involved in a relationship with her Singaporean lover for over four years. Despite knowing that he was married and had a child, Zhou believed that he would ultimately choose to settle down with her.
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However, in late 2020, she discovered that he had been seeing another woman, which caused their relationship to deteriorate further. By August 2021, her lover expressed his desire to end the affair.
In an attempt to salvage their relationship, Zhou Dani decided to pay a visit to her lover’s house in September 2021. She hoped to discuss the two children she claimed to have had with him during their affair.
Zhou demanded through WhatsApp for him to come out of his house, but he refused. Determined to be heard, Zhou repeatedly pressed the doorbell, drawing the attention of his family members.
As Zhou’s ex-lover remained inside the house, urging her not to cause a disturbance, she climbed over the metal gate of the property. Once inside, she sent him a close-up photograph of his car and main door, along with threatening messages. She vowed to “crush” his car and even threatened harm to his mother if he did not comply.
In a fit of rage, Zhou grabbed one of his golf clubs and proceeded to smash his car’s body, windows, and door. Unfortunately, the golf club itself was destroyed during the act.
During Zhou’s destructive rampage, her ex-lover contacted the police, referring to her as a “lady stalker” who had invaded his home.
When the authorities arrived at the scene, Zhou was still in the process of damaging her ex-lover’s house. However, she ceased her destructive actions upon the police’s orders and was subsequently arrested.
It is worth noting that Zhou admitted to consuming alcohol before the incident.
Following the incident, Zhou Dani was charged with mischief, criminal trespass, and criminal intimidation. After pleading guilty to two of the charges and with the third charge taken into consideration, she was sentenced to two weeks’ imprisonment. Additionally, she was ordered to compensate her ex-lover for the damages caused.
The damages resulting from Zhou’s violent outburst were substantial. The estimated cost of repairs amounted to approximately S$18,361.67. This included the expenses for repairing the car, replacing the house window, and the value of the broken golf club.
During the legal proceedings, Zhou Dani’s mental health came under scrutiny. A private psychiatrist diagnosed her with adjustment disorder, which prompted the court to order a Mandatory Treatment Order (MTO) Suitability Report.
However, a psychiatrist from the Institute of Mental Health (IMH) opined that Zhou was unsuitable for MTO. The IMH psychiatrist emphasized that Zhou’s actions were more influenced by alcohol intoxication than her adjustment disorder.
Zhou Dani has filed an appeal against her sentence and the compensation order. At present, she is out on bail pending the outcome of her appeal.
An average joe who can provide financial support to a woman that is unable to work for a long term for whatever reasons. He is considered to be a good & useful man 
Who the hell wanna be useful to a woman or used by a woman. Women degrade until like this to treat men as a tool to be used.An average joe who can provide financial support to a woman that is unable to work for a long term for whatever reasons. He is considered to be a good & useful man
The main objective of women finding a guy to get married is $$$ first then love.
I had encountered smart ladies & stupid women in my lifetimes. The silly women are the ones who dreaming marrying rich men but in the end they did not get married to the rich men & ended up with nothing with they reached their 40s.
