Singapore men are hot property in Brunei and it would be easy to get someone there. The country offer free education and scholarship is abundance for its citizens. As long as you're slightly above average, the government will give you scholarship. Mostly for overseas universities. Their domestic gas usage is free for everyone. Their salary is on par or slightly higher than Singapore. Almost all top civil servants are related to the royal family. Malays are of course viewed as higher status than others. Many years ago, the Sultan divorced his ex-2nd wife as she was found in a hotel room with a businessman. It was hush hush in the media but was an open sercet within the country. It is also known that the crown prince is not much of a thinker which mean the Sultan would have to make some "adjustments" if he want the family continue ruing the country for years to come.
If the royal family happens to take an interest of any of the citizen, the gal would be asked to go forth and serve. If not, the gal and her family will be having a hard time living in the country. However, this is unlikely as the royal family like very fair and western looking gals. Many of the citizens like taking up government jobs as it is safe and pays very well.
Alcohol is viewed as socially unacceptable but if you know your way around the country, you can find it in restaurants and underground pubs. In restaurants, it would be served in tea cups that that it is less obvious.