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5. Singaporeans lacking self confidence and communication skills
I always feel that local Singaporeans lack self confidence when it comes to their communication skills and handling difficult work situation.
Perhaps our innate lack of the spoken language has caused us to step back rather than take on someone when there is a difference in opinion.
I remembered staying in Sydney and saw how articulate Aussies were when they engaged me in deep constructive conversation.
Even though some are merely blue collared workers, they could strike up a decent conversation with you and coomunicated their thoughts well.
People judge us by the way we speak and when I saw how some local Singaporeans spoke on TV interviews, it make me winched.
When foreigners saw how we struggled in our first language – English they thought that this must be a joke!
Some could not even make out what we say and many retreated back to their own circle of expat friends. They also began to look down on us as we can’t even utter a decent mouthful of English.
PRC Chinese also despised our spoken Mandarin langauge as it is not polished enough and reminded them of how the Hong Kongers spoke their style of Mandarin.
- http://www.transitioning.org/2012/03/28/5-reasons-why-foreigners-dont-respect-singaporeans/
I always feel that local Singaporeans lack self confidence when it comes to their communication skills and handling difficult work situation.
Perhaps our innate lack of the spoken language has caused us to step back rather than take on someone when there is a difference in opinion.
I remembered staying in Sydney and saw how articulate Aussies were when they engaged me in deep constructive conversation.
Even though some are merely blue collared workers, they could strike up a decent conversation with you and coomunicated their thoughts well.
People judge us by the way we speak and when I saw how some local Singaporeans spoke on TV interviews, it make me winched.
When foreigners saw how we struggled in our first language – English they thought that this must be a joke!
Some could not even make out what we say and many retreated back to their own circle of expat friends. They also began to look down on us as we can’t even utter a decent mouthful of English.
PRC Chinese also despised our spoken Mandarin langauge as it is not polished enough and reminded them of how the Hong Kongers spoke their style of Mandarin.
- http://www.transitioning.org/2012/03/28/5-reasons-why-foreigners-dont-respect-singaporeans/