Anyway, we had been going out for lunch for these past 2 yrs. Although timing is short, but we do it constantly. Roughly a week once. She is working in Singapore.
I have a minor surgery a a month back in Dec 2013. Told her about it before. On the day of surgery, i didn't see her SMS or salutation. But i think it ok she is busy with work. 2 weeks later , she told me that she miss my message. The message which i send her 1 week ago before my surgery. She claim that she has missed it cos her other friends has message her and "my message has fallen down the pecking order" and she didn't see it. Hence, the replied message came 3 weeks later. My heart just sank ..........XXX it !
To me , i feel so XXXXX. It is not she is not capable of showing care , but it just that she is not capable to show me the so call basic friend care that all. I have to suck my thumb and move on. To me , if someone who has been out for lunching with me practically every week, i would definitely show more towards that person. I do believe there is so much more between man and women other then usual FXXXXX.