I think it's safe to say that
@ginfreely truly enjoys talking to
men (both online and in real life), most probably because she used to enjoy talking
a lot to her late father, who probably
also enjoyed talking to her.
But at the same time, she does
not want anybody (whether men or women) to consider her to be some kind of
promiscuous or potentially promiscuous woman; which is why whenever anyone calls her a "slut" or "whore" or "mistress" or any other similar word, she becomes
humiliated.
If she simply
stops talking to
men, she would
suffer because that is one of her
main earthly pleasures she enjoys.
Therefore (and unfortunately for her many victims),
instead of simply ignoring those insults (
if she's a truly innocent virgin), she would
rather keep attacking her enemies
incessantly (while insisting that she's a "virgin" with
obviously zero proof), in order to
save her "face" and also to
overcome/prevent her suffering whenever she
stops talking to
men.
Her
incessant attacks would also include
lies and nonsense, which would only
provoke her enemies to attack her
even more!
Finally, she knows that she's an
unmarried
middle-aged woman with
no children, so she
can't defend herself by saying that she
has children, in order to say that there's
nothing wrong for her to have
lost her virginity.
This is probably why she keeps declaring that she's a "virgin", so as to
try to save her "face" by
stopping/preventing other people from thinking that
because she has no children and no husband, she
must have had
non-marital sex
several times with
at least one or two men after her marriage with her ex-husband ended,
whenever she felt very horny!