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A couple whom I am close friends with planned to have a Christmas gathering at their new BTO flat on Christmas eve.
They invited me and another couple. We know each other well since University days.
So total is 5 of us.
I plan to do a self A.R.T (just to be safe before I go).
So this morning, via WhatsApp Groupchat, I asked my host couole and the other couple if they would also do self A.R.T tests on Christmas Eve, so that everyone is safe as we gather without masks to celebrate Christmas together.
They have gone totally silent on the WhatsApp Group Chat since my message this morning.
Have I offended them?
Is it wrong to ask for A.R.T tests before being maskless in a flat with other people, even though they are close friends?
Or have I just UNINVITED myself from the Christmas Eve gathering this Friday?




They invited me and another couple. We know each other well since University days.
So total is 5 of us.
I plan to do a self A.R.T (just to be safe before I go).
So this morning, via WhatsApp Groupchat, I asked my host couole and the other couple if they would also do self A.R.T tests on Christmas Eve, so that everyone is safe as we gather without masks to celebrate Christmas together.
They have gone totally silent on the WhatsApp Group Chat since my message this morning.
Have I offended them?
Is it wrong to ask for A.R.T tests before being maskless in a flat with other people, even though they are close friends?
Or have I just UNINVITED myself from the Christmas Eve gathering this Friday?



