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Not if one was forced into it by family debts and feels compelled enough to do it for the family. Working 2-3 jobs, giving tuition, running errands for others. All this was all in a days work back then, worked without time off for CNY as well as all the major holidays for years as i worked OT or sold stuff in the factory. Folks back in secondary school even thought i was loaded but they had no idea.
Some people are trapped in their situation and I would call it a psychological impairment. No advice is good enough as his mind is closed. From his letter, it is easy to arrive at this conclusion.