Time to settle down ?

[Scrooball (clone)]

Vietnamese women looks good. Easily twice the looks of Sinkie women.

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

 

[streetsmart73]

If your wife "steal eat" plentiful, does point no.3 still stand ?

hi there


1. aiyoh!
2. bro, to find a wifey.
3. the individual must be some goody thing mah.
4. as long i wipe my mouth hyper clean & stick to what i say.
5. never admit to anything!
6. nothing can go wrong hoh.
7. honest, "honesty" in the husband/spouse thing does not work good for the guy!

 

[yinyang]

..only sorry to the ones i've hurt........going for a 4th time soon with my thai gf......think she could be the one finally.

Good for you, brave man -all the best. In europe, it's now quite a social norm not marry but call de-facto spouse as "partner". Even ICA here recognises same for dependent pass for expats' live-in partner. Same for life insurances over there for some years now, for beneficary as "common law" wifey (subject to proof, cannot anyhow say). What about alimony and estate?

 

[Narong Wongwan]

Good for you, brave man -all the best. In europe, it's now quite a social norm not marry but call de-facto spouse as "partner". Even ICA here recognises same for dependent pass for expats' live-in partner. Same for life insurances over there for some years now, for beneficary as "common law" wifey (subject to proof, cannot anyhow say). What about alimony and estate?

Nothing is set in stone yet. i might not go thru with it......my window is only 4 years from now as the gf is already 30....i plan to have kids before she is 35. If i cannot marry her within next 4 years to start a family it will be too late. I will then forgo marriage and we will just live together.

 

[Clone]

bro a wife is a soul mate........why would you want a XMM if she cannot connect with you on other levels besides physical.
i never go for STYs......because the relationship never last long after i get bored of the sex.
i dun know what to talk to them about and most times they dun understand what i am talking about....

A soulmate? That's too serious. The simple adage of got money got honey works best. Never be held for ransom, always be the boss.

I like your advice in a previous thread - get married only if you want to have kids.

 

[YellowRibbon]

Ehh... women reach what age cannot give birth liao ah ?

man reach what age the sperm useless liao ah ?

 

[Narong Wongwan]

Ehh... women reach what age cannot give birth liao ah ?

man reach what age the sperm useless liao ah ?

not say cannot give birth......after 35 there will be higher risks.....man as long as still got sperm can fertilize liao

 

[YellowRibbon]

I like the girl at the most right (no. 4)

 

[The_Hypocrite]

Hey, dont so bo liao and worry about such things lah,,clear debt 1st,,u never to late to get married,,you are not woman,,man can marry at 60 and still have kids,,most important is get young and pretty wife,,,,which money can easily solve,,and you can find one easily in Pinoyland or Indon...

no money talk this sort of cock for what??Kids and wife need to feed,,,and Womens crapster will give u more shit,,,so dont play play hor

When you start having a strange kind of feeling whenever you see adorable kids ?

When you look at yourself in the mirror and suddenly realise that you no more has that youthful look ?

I been having these 2 feelings for the past few months ... but then i am also worried that i will not be able to provide for my wife and kid if i were to get married.

So should i clear my debts first, or should i start looking for Miss right ?

But with debts, chances of finding Miss Right also very slim right ?

Need advice. Pls advise. Advise good advice. Hope will be advised.

 

[Narong Wongwan]

I like the girl at the most right (no. 4)

simple! cut your foreskin, convert to islam and sapu all 4 home lah....you wont leave your bedroom for a month man

 

[YellowRibbon]

simple! cut your foreskin, convert to islam and sapu all 4 home lah....you wont leave your bedroom for a month man

But.. but i freethinker .... freethinker can sapu all 4 ?

 

[drifter]

Perhaps it boils down to the lack of a "greater vision" in life. As the forum host has rightly pointed out, the lifespan of the kids in terms of adorableness is short. You're looking at a "honeymoon period" of between 3 to 5 years.

Any decision to marry cannot be based on the prospect of a romantic honeymoon. The motivation is grossly misplaced. Likewise, you don't make a decision to start a family just because you enjoy the company of adorable kids. The sort of education, academic as well as parental, that you plan to nurture is a greater reflection of your readiness to be a father.

clap clap ...well said bro ..

 

[Narong Wongwan]

But.. but i freethinker .... freethinker can sapu all 4 ?

Say already counted.
Now outside also many fake xtiana fake buddhists fake muslims out there.
Just join the bandwagon.

 

[salmon]

i used sport a ponytail like ah ram when i was younger.....one day an aunty called me aunty from behind...........that was the day shaved my head........never had long hair after that.

did not remember when was the first time i was called uncle though...lucky no one call me ah pek yet

wapiang so traumatising! auntie called u auntie - not even miss or xiaojie. er... u got child-bearing hips is it? :p

 

[salmon]

I think now only left those 30s, left on the shelves for me to choose.. Those 20s SYT xmm out of my reach liao .... sob

syts in their 20s prolly won't be as kancheong as u are to have kids though.

 

[drifter]

wapiang so traumatising! auntie called u auntie - not even miss or xiaojie. er... u got child-bearing hips is it? :p

not true about the child-bearing ....maybe he have nice hair ?

 

[drifter]

syts in their 20s prolly won't be as kancheong as u are to have kids though.

very true .

 

[jw5]

Just join the bandwagon.

bro narong
just curious about something, hope u won't think I'm prying..................
previously, u were concerned about expenditure and said something about cash being tight.
why then do u want to progress with this latest wife and even have children, considering
that u already have children? doesn't seem consistent with your concerns previously, tks........

 

[Narong Wongwan]

I was complaining cost of living getting high and everything getting expensive.
I am feeling the pinch like many more so because I have been unemployed for past 2 years.
Everyone will complain money no enough....
Been living off my savings and rental income....it's getting more expensive to maintain my lifestyle.
Life is currently on hold as I am waiting for some outstanding issues to pan out before I can plan for the future.
Probably move to live in a less expensive country like Thailand once my problems are resolved.
I have 3 ex wives and a handful of children....
But I want to start a new family if I remarry and that means having kids again.
Hope this clarifies.

bro narong
just curious about something, hope u won't think I'm prying..................
previously, u were concerned about expenditure and said something about cash being tight.
why then do u want to progress with this latest wife and even have children, considering
that u already have children? doesn't seem consistent with your concerns previously, tks........