Time to settle down ?

[YellowRibbon]

When you start having a strange kind of feeling whenever you see adorable kids ?

When you look at yourself in the mirror and suddenly realise that you no more has that youthful look ?

I been having these 2 feelings for the past few months ... but then i am also worried that i will not be able to provide for my wife and kid if i were to get married.

So should i clear my debts first, or should i start looking for Miss right ?

But with debts, chances of finding Miss Right also very slim right ?

Need advice. Pls advise. Advise good advice. Hope will be advised.

 

[goldenmonkey]

Find a rich (preferably ugly to increase your chance) girl and both your problems will be resolved in one swipe.

 

[Leongsam]

When you start having a strange kind of feeling whenever you see adorable kids ?

There's no such thing as "adorable" kids. They're all brats.

 

[drifter]

" When you start having a strange kind of feeling whenever you see adorable kids " ?



pedophilia ?

 

[hotbot]

haha...good idea to get a rich wife! bro, you are not alone, i also feel that way but i know i must have money before settling down if not sure very stressed but unlikely i will want to have kids anymore, already nearing 40.

i also feel old but i don't have any liability and seriously thinking buying one way air ticket to states to find my dream.

chances of me succeeding in life in sinkiepore is really dim with lky's cronies always jabbing me.

When you start having a strange kind of feeling whenever you see adorable kids ?

When you look at yourself in the mirror and suddenly realise that you no more has that youthful look ?

I been having these 2 feelings for the past few months ... but then i am also worried that i will not be able to provide for my wife and kid if i were to get married.

So should i clear my debts first, or should i start looking for Miss right ?

But with debts, chances of finding Miss Right also very slim right ?

Need advice. Pls advise. Advise good advice. Hope will be advised.

Find a rich (preferably ugly to increase your chance) girl and both your problems will be resolved in one swipe.

 

[drifter]

Find a rich (preferably ugly to increase your chance) girl and both your problems will be resolved in one swipe.

and he will be her pet for the rest of his life ...not a good idea .

 

[drifter]

When you start having a strange kind of feeling whenever you see adorable kids ?

When you look at yourself in the mirror and suddenly realise that you no more has that youthful look ?

I been having these 2 feelings for the past few months ... but then i am also worried that i will not be able to provide for my wife and kid if i were to get married.

So should i clear my debts first, or should i start looking for Miss right ?

But with debts, chances of finding Miss Right also very slim right ?

Need advice. Pls advise. Advise good advice. Hope will be advised.

i advice ..bulid your weath first ..when you have cash you dont want to get married liao...trust me

 

[Leongsam]

i advice ..bulid your weath first ..

Should be "I ADVISE....".

"Advice" is a noun.

 

[Cruxx]

[video=youtube;I_mBLWpdwnI]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_mBLWpdwnI[/video]

 

[Leongsam]

you only got eyes for advise/advice? cannot see the 'bulid' instead of 'build'?

That's just a typo. Everyone makes typing errors. I'm not interested in correcting those.

I concentrate on grammatical errors for the sole purpose of improving the general standard of English in this forum.

PS: Could you please reduce the font size of your signature. It's an eyesore.

 

[Ash007]

I was in the same dilemma about five years ago. I wanted a family and have a girl waiting for me. But the environment back home is just not conducive. I don't earn enough to have the lifestyle I want. I don't think I can afford to maintain a car or a landed property. I could have settled with taking public transport or living in a pigeon hole. However, in the long term, I don't think I want my kid to grow up in the current environment. I told my girl, just like in the song 约定, to wait for me 3 years. I decide to leave. Now, I drive a mini cooper S countryman. Just got a Peg Pergo car seat yesterday, and is having a house build. My first born is coming in a couple of months time as well. If you can't get what you want in life, either change yourself or accept that is the situation, or change the environment you are in.

PS: I realised its not having the baby that is exciting, but buying stuff for it that is. Especially if its a boy.

 

[bryanlim1972]

When you start having a strange kind of feeling whenever you see adorable kids ?

When you look at yourself in the mirror and suddenly realise that you no more has that youthful look ?

I been having these 2 feelings for the past few months ... but then i am also worried that i will not be able to provide for my wife and kid if i were to get married.

So should i clear my debts first, or should i start looking for Miss right ?

But with debts, chances of finding Miss Right also very slim right ?

Need advice. Pls advise. Advise good advice. Hope will be advised.

u should clear ur debts and look for miss right at the same time. both will take time.

 

[drifter]

Should be "I ADVISE....".

"Advice" is a noun.

whahahaha..got me this time ...THANKYOU

 

[hotbot]

tsk...tsk...boss sam at it again...

On Alert. cranky leong is on duty today.

Should be "I ADVISE....".

"Advice" is a noun.

 

[looneytan]

When you start having a strange kind of feeling whenever you see adorable kids ?

When you look at yourself in the mirror and suddenly realise that you no more has that youthful look ?

when young girls starting to offer you seat on buses and mrt

 

[drifter]

u should clear ur debts and look for miss right at the same time. both will take time.

cannot ...got gf sure spend money ...so i still think bulid wealth first ...all the things later then talk .

 

[erection2015]

he asked for good advice....not bad labels

There's no such thing as "adorable" kids. They're all brats.

 

[erection2015]

how to build wealth...i keep on building debt leh :(

Owe $$$ to AK until he going to take over my flat soon.

cannot ...got gf sure spend money ...so i still think bulid wealth first ...all the things later then talk .

 

[zhihau]

Need advice. Pls advise. Advise good advice. Hope will be advised.

unable to evaluate your debt, what kind of debt is it? blood debt? monetary debt? me consider owing someone a favor a debt too. me is indebted to a lot of bros here, for example.

could you provide slightly more details about your current situation and your desired outcome? the last you need is getting the wrong advice and regretting it later on.

 

[hotbot]

lucky man! cheers...

I was in the same dilemma about five years ago. I wanted a family and have a girl waiting for me. But the environment back home is just not conducive. I don't earn enough to have the lifestyle I want. I don't think I can afford to maintain a car or a landed property. I could have settled with taking public transport or living in a pigeon hole. However, in the long term, I don't think I want my kid to grow up in the current environment. I told my girl, just like in the song 约定, to wait for me 3 years. I decide to leave. Now, I drive a mini cooper S countryman. Just got a Peg Pergo car seat yesterday, and is having a house build. My first born is coming in a couple of months time as well. If you can't get what you want in life, either change yourself or accept that is the situation, or change the environment you are in.

PS: I realised its not having the baby that is exciting, but buying stuff for it that is. Especially if its a boy.