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How do I soften the blow to parents that I do not intend to have kids...

ShyGuy

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And they can forget about having grandchildren...

I think my mom should be fine but my dad is all about 传宗接代.

Any good strategy to share?
 

blackmondy

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Asset
You place this book on the table deliberately and make sure they can see it. They will definitely take the hint.

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Loofydralb

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And they can forget about having grandchildren...

I think my mom should be fine but my dad is all about 传宗接代.

Any good strategy to share?
Just assuage them by also saying that you do not want any inheritance.

Got balls?
 

mahjongking

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Loyal
And they can forget about having grandchildren...

I think my mom should be fine but my dad is all about 传宗接代.

Any good strategy to share?

i was same as your father, he will soon respect your decision sooner or later
dont want kids also not so much headaches and burden, its not a bad thing

on the flip side, kids usually bond the couple more, not so easy divorce
 

LordElrond

Alfrescian (InfP)
Generous Asset
And they can forget about having grandchildren...

I think my mom should be fine but my dad is all about 传宗接代.

Any good strategy to share?
You don’t have a girlfriend or wife currently so the topic of kids should be the last thing you worry about. Start worrying if you like a girl and she wants kids.
 
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