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Women who seal the deal with sex

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Hahaha, comments from Aware never fail to tickle my humerus. :D


Article from CNA:

SINGAPORE: One former financial broker knows at least two financial instrument brokers who play the "sex for contracts" game: They get into the sack with corporate clients even though they have more-than-generous expense accounts with which to woo these clients.

With each swap going for an average of tens of millions of dollars, the payouts are temptingly high for those who manage to clinch the trade, the 35-year-old told MediaCorp.

But with very little to differentiate the services of one brokerage from another, some women brokers resort to sleeping with traders who may then pay them bigger commissions if they are happy with the "service", he said, describing the practice as "rife" within the profession.

A professional in the IT industry, which also sees stiff competition for multi-million-dollar contracts, knows of at least one peer in her circle who has gone to such lengths - usually as part of her after-dinner entertainment for the client.

According to the 38-year-old, who has been in the IT line for about 15 years, a mix of lucrative incentives and the pressure to deliver makes for powerful motivation.

DISEMPOWERING

Another IT industry veteran, Mr H Lim, who has worked for the likes of Oracle and IBM, said the sales quotas at such multinationals are very aggressive.

"(Employees) need to meet the numbers and most IT procurers are male.

"Pressure is extremely high and you may get the boot if you don't meet your numbers for two to three quarters.

"This drives some women to desperation," he said, adding that targets are usually in the double-digit millions of dollars per annum.

"It would be naive to think it is only the high-profile cases. It is happening daily - in the pharmaceutical industry, banking as well as IT ... it's just a matter of not getting caught," he noted.

In this era of equal opportunity, and with ever more women working their way to success through knowledge, talent and hard work, instances of women sales professionals offering sex in exchange for a quick, sure-fire way of clinching deals have been thrust into the limelight.

Last week, former Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) chief Peter Lim was charged with 10 counts of corruption for allegedly obtaining sexual favours from three women - two vendors and one potential vendor.

In return, he would allegedly show favour to their companies in IT-related tenders called by the SCDF.

There is a certain irony to all this.

Executive Director of the Association of Women for Action and Research (AWARE) Corinna Lim points out that more such incidences may be occurring these days because modern women are getting into career roles that draw the big bucks.

Yet, this is ultimately "disempowering" for women.

"Ideologically, the using of sex to get ahead reinforces the idea that their greatest asset lies in the fact that they are desired by men.

"This perpetuates patriarchy as it makes women's value dependent on how much men desire them... they do not have value in their own right," said Ms Lim.

PREDATORY BEHAVIOUR

Academics and women's rights organisations that TODAY spoke to suggest various factors may be at play in determining the way some women in business behave.

Ms Lim, as well as sociology professor Teo You Yenn of the Nanyang Technological University, suggest taking a closer look at organisational cultures that influence how employees act.

In those with "masculine leadership cultures" and very few women at the top, "sexual predatory behaviour may be implicitly encouraged", Ms Lim added.

"Although the customer may not outright ask for sex in exchange for sealing the contract, there is still some element of sexual harassment, through implicit, subtle suggestions or hints from the customer that the sales representative may not get the deal if they do not offer sex.

"There is an imbalance of power between the two parties."

This is happening in industries where clients are mostly male.

A pharmaceuticals sales representative with 12 years' experience said that in the cases she has heard of, doctors are bold in asking for sexual favours due to the strong competition that sales representatives face.

Ms Lim called for stronger sexual harassment laws, arguing that where it is the norm for transactions to be conducted in such a manner, the professional may find it difficult to lodge complaints.

IT'S COMPLICATED

But is it too simplistic to cast women in such transactions as naive or manipulated victims?

There is, after all, the fact that there are women in the same lines who choose not to exchange sexual favours for a contract. Or who decide to leave the industry altogether. Personal greed, and perhaps also the extent of one's ambition, factor into a woman's choice, some point out.

Their actions earn some detractors' scorn. In a day and age when women advocates and business leaders are calling for more female participation on corporate boards and in top management positions, on the basis of their competence and talent, it surely does no good when a female company director or manager or chief executive makes the news for allegedly sleeping with a client to further the company's business.

Prof Teo, who is also an AWARE board member, said: "From a sociological viewpoint, all individual actions have to be understood in a broader social context. We should ask why the system is such that sex is rewarded but capabilities directly related to the job alone are not.

"Men continue to dominate higher positions across almost all organisations and we know with certainty that they are almost never asked for sexual favours in order to get there - why is it that comparably capable women are put in such positions wherein this so-called choice is even a possibility?"
 
A picture is worth a thousand words. Can we have some pictures here of the femmes fatales ALL IN ONE PLACE?
 
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Do you know why would someone seal business deal for sex while working with a company ? Isn't it better to sell for own pocket $ or own company ? :confused:
 
Do you know why would someone seal business deal for sex while working with a company ? Isn't it better to sell for own pocket $ or own company ? :confused:

You obviously know nothing about mixing business with pleasure.
 
Hahaha, comments from Aware never fail to tickle my humerus. :D

bro,

last remembered, men love SEX, women LOVE sex. we all LOVE SEX! if we don't love sex, me worry :p:p:p
 
You obviously know nothing about mixing business with pleasure.

In general women and men take it differently when comes to sexual deals. Also most of the decision maker in this kind of big deals are usually ugly ah pek
 
This is a messy world. Every married man will start to worry what their wife wll do behind their back. A boss whose female employee tried to clinch business for him by sleeping with another man should also be worried about whether his wife is also sleeping with another man. Anything is possible for the sake of money. Is it really worth it when your face is exposed? You lost your friends, family, reputation and haunted for life.
 
Wow, in AWARE's mind, MEN are dammed if their restrict women to climb corporate ladder.

Men are also dammed if women need to 'differentiate' themselves by offering something they had but not men (I refer to straight men), in order to climb that same ladder.

Either way, MEN are dammed!

Life is more fair to women with AWARE, but not men! Wonder why there is no AM(EN)ARE set up to protect MEN?
 
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Wow, in AWARE's mind, MEN are dammed if their restrict women to climb corporate ladder.

Men are also dammed if women need to 'differentiate' themselves by offering something they had but not men (I refer to straight men), in order to climb that same ladder.

Either way, MEN are dammed!

AWARE. They really mean things. Protect women rights at all cost. Unless we men come out with AMARE and balance things out, we could all be hit by a double-decked bus without we knowing it.
 
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Executive Director of the Association of Women for Action and Research (AWARE) Corinna Lim points out that more such incidences may be occurring these days because modern women are getting into career roles that draw the big bucks.



Trust AWARE to put a positive spin on women whoring themselves out for money.
 
Aiyah, for AWARE, women cb itchy is also men fault one lah. I think many of the women in AWARE had been dumped badly by men before and so setup the group to tekkan men.
 
Aiyah, for AWARE, women cb itchy is also men fault one lah. I think many of the women in AWARE had been dumped badly by men before and so setup the group to tekkan men.

Or that they're closet lesbians trying to rescue the 'sisterhood' from us evil men - the knuckle-dragging oppressors, tormentors and predators of the fairer sex. :rolleyes:
 
And see how AWARE puts on the feminist 'It's his fault' spin on things?

Misandry is very real in this world.

Married men, if you've been cuckolded by your wife and you've caught her red-handed/collected evidence, during divorce proceedings the Family Court still won't give a rat's arse about your plight. It is your fault, and YOU drove her into cheating. She's a victim. Now kindly pay your alimony to her.

Single men, think twice before you do this:
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AWARE must surely be aware that sealing a deal with sex happens all the time. Doesn't matter which industry - motor-vehicle, real estate etc. Takes place not only in S'pore. The recent cases attracted attention simply coz of the personalities involved.
 
Even for marriage, some men will decide which woman to marry based on who gives a better fuck or blow job.



AWARE must surely be aware that sealing a deal with sex happens all the time. Doesn't matter which industry - motor-vehicle, real estate etc. Takes place not only in S'pore. The recent cases attracted attention simply coz of the personalities involved.
 
Even for marriage, some men will decide which woman to marry based on who gives a better fuck or blow job.

The sky's the limit! There will always be a higher mountain or, a betterer fuckee or blower.
 
fuck to seal seals is nothing new...even within the PAP, the elites marry and fuck within themselves to perpetuate the power ....
 
The reason is that working with a company you can get to choose whom you want to sleep with while the company pays yr regular base salary. If you sell for yr own company, my god, you have to sleep with any Ah Ter, Ah Kow who looks like shit because they are yr only source of income. Liddat, you will have no rest between yr legs.

Do you know why would someone seal business deal for sex while working with a company ? Isn't it better to sell for own pocket $ or own company ? :confused:
 
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