wife wants a divorce. please help

[LoserKiller]

I suggest you put some in the condom

we are catholic.

can you accompany me to her father's place? i am afraid he might decapitate me with his sword.

 

[kiss]

just go her father house alone... be a man !!!

If her father threaten u, just commit suicide immediately... maybe harikiri !!!

 

[Agoraphobic]

my wife is straying and wants a divorce. she also wants me to pay for her maintenance. i am loyal and never had sex outside marriage. she said that i have been mentally torturing her with my behavior, which i didn't. what can i do? she said she has a bf outside and many guys who like her.

i earn about $200 more than her. we are both uni graduates. no kids yet thanks god
thanks

No kids. She earns well. You haven't fucked around; she might have.

No kids. She wants a divorce. Thank God.

Bud, you have a life ahead of you. Let her have hers. Tell her to proceed to file for it. Get it over with quick so you both can get on with life. The only thing you have to get is no spouse support because she is capable. If you need a lawyer for this part, then get one.

Good luck.

Cheers!

 

[Thick Face Black Heart]

my wife is straying and wants a divorce. she also wants me to pay for her maintenance. i am loyal and never had sex outside marriage. she said that i have been mentally torturing her with my behavior, which i didn't. what can i do? she said she has a bf outside and many guys who like her.

i earn about $200 more than her. we are both uni graduates. no kids yet thanks god
thanks

You are a fucked up piece of shit. Only 31 posts as WE are being tortured by your lame drivel ... ... how to believe you aren't torturing your wife?!?

 

[tanny]

if u dun have very young children, den let her go. if there is a third party den go n bash him up or go create a scene at his office. he wil den stop messing up your family.

 

[hotbot]

did you all watch the Ch8 drama at 9pm, the female lawyers look very chio,how nice if can threesome.:p

if u dun have very young children, den let her go. if there is a third party den go n bash him up or go create a scene at his office. he wil den stop messing up your family.

 

[KNNBCCB]

did you all watch the Ch8 drama at 9pm, the female lawyers look very chio,how nice if can threesome.:p

Count me in.

 

[no_faith]

nowadays, ppl song song go marry. buay song go divorce.
if gt held wedding dinner, worst, the few k spent masuk lokang. no returns.
song meh?

 

[middaydog]

if u dun have very young children, den let her go. if there is a third party den go n bash him up or go create a scene at his office. he wil den stop messing up your family.

doesn't work !
in my case I still pester her till today

 

[Equalisation]

nowadays, ppl song song go marry. buay song go divorce.
if gt held wedding dinner, worst, the few k spent masuk lokang. no returns.
song meh?

Jing Song !!!

Few k spent masuk longkang, then main main tiga longkang !!!

 

[ah_phah]

yeah.. i think so.. but i dont like to lick it. she doesnt like it either

she thinks sex is dirty

she thinks sex is dirty, but she can stray & have other "unclear" relationships outside? by her definition, by now, she would have become filthy.

 

[ah_phah]

dont be a wimp la. if its a divorce she's calling for, let her have it, but be sure that u hire a solid lawyerso u dont pay alimony... on grounds that u've not strayed.

turn the tables around, get evidence to prove she's been straying with different men, on separate occassions, sue her for all the incidental costs & emotional distress.

 

[MarrickG]

loserkiller,

Get a PI to find proof of her affairs so that you can use it as the reaon for divorce later. If not, she will use the reason that you have unreasonable behaviour which the court will believe her and your character would be in doubt.

As long as you have been married, maintenance is a must, especially those mariage that is more than 10 years.

$1500 if too much and I doubt the court is so stupid.

Keep record of all your spendings towards the family and keep it. That is why it is a good idea to keep all your credit card bill.

Get a good lawyer and be prepared to spend around $30k if you guys are going to fight it out in court.

Good luck!

 

[NoNewsGood]

I'm not a PI. You can hire a PI to collect evidence if you suspect your wife is fooling around. There's such thing as wife paying husband maintenance under the Women's Charter. With solid evidence, the most you can get away with is a smooth and fast process of divorce without having to share assets and/or pay ongoing maintenance.

There is NO SUCH THING that wife pay husband maintenance! What rubbish!

Even if the wife admits that she is guilty of multiple adultery in court, that does not deny her to claim a share in the assets and claim maintenance. In fact, it does not even reduce the amount she could claim.

 

[streetsmart73]

Re: wife wants a divorce

yes i never have sex with other girls since we got married in 2006. but i think she has maintained a very unclear relationship with many men. when i confront her jokingly, she said she need backups when i am at work. what can i do

hi there


1. bro, my advice to you, get some pi to track her down.
2. why should you pay for her stupid things?
3. on the sex thing, honest, she is just another slut, sorry for my language.
4. move on and there is always life after the slut.

 

[IR123]

my wife is straying and wants a divorce. she also wants me to pay for her maintenance. i am loyal and never had sex outside marriage. she said that i have been mentally torturing her with my behavior, which i didn't. what can i do? she said she has a bf outside and many guys who like her.

i earn about $200 more than her. we are both uni graduates. no kids yet thanks god
thanks

looking at all your posts, i don't believe your story

more of a caricature of a traditional fucked-up couple, unreal

 

[hotbot]

haha..ram,mr know all, again anyhow spray his sperm.

There is NO SUCH THING that wife pay husband maintenance! What rubbish!

Even if the wife admits that she is guilty of multiple adultery in court, that does not deny her to claim a share in the assets and claim maintenance. In fact, it does not even reduce the amount she could claim.

 

[jimmyfallon]

my wife is straying and wants a divorce. she also wants me to pay for her maintenance. i am loyal and never had sex outside marriage. she said that i have been mentally torturing her with my behavior, which i didn't. what can i do? she said she has a bf outside and many guys who like her.

i earn about $200 more than her. we are both uni graduates. no kids yet thanks god
thanks

your incomes, the fact that you are grads, have nothing to do with this. You are a superficial typical loser thats why she is leaving you and making you pay you dumb fuck!!

 

[red amoeba]

we are catholic.

can you accompany me to her father's place? i am afraid he might decapitate me with his sword.

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[LonewolfAlfa]

u said she doesnt like sex but then u accuse her of having 'unclear' relationships outside... it really must be mentally torturing living with a husband like u and she did the right thing by packing up.