why i am always optimistic when advising but if it's me i will be pessimistic?

[LaoHongBiscuit]

No mortal has the ability to predict the future. In your case, although such minor surgeries are often successful, 99% most of the time, it is the 1% that most are frightened of, not just your housemate, but even yourself, of medical complications that may arise during surgery or later....thus the pessimism, of the unknown 1% chance...

Rather than to be pessimistic, to dwell upon that 1%, such would only make each other become even more fearful, in tears & hugs for comfort. It would serve no good to anyone, weakens the mind & eventually the body self healing systems.

As you are medically well, your housemate whom is in pain, seeks for comfort, assurance, guidance & critically hope from you - a close friend. And it is hope that gives birth to courage & optimism, to dwell instead on the 99% of chance.

Such is NOT false hope, as it is proven that most go thru such med assistance & survive well. Thus have courage & hope always, & to share it with rest of Humanity whom need such to go thru painful times....

why u talk like a pastor.

walau

 

[Willamshakespear]

why u talk like a pastor.

walau

A Pastor deals with the relatively unknown, that only oneself can personally experienced the epiphany, & thru scriptures written thousand of years ago as guide & solace towards life....

The insignificant nobody me on this thread of yours only dealt with scientific & medical evidences of the physical & the mental, & crucially realities that each Earthborn given the gift of 5 senses would be able to relate to, for hope, courage & optimism in this journey of life....

 

[LaoHongBiscuit]

A Pastor deals with the relatively unknown, that only oneself can personally experienced the epiphany, & thru scriptures written thousand of years ago as guide & solace towards life....

The insignificant nobody me on this thread of yours only dealt with scientific & medical evidences of the physical & the mental, & crucially realities that each Earthborn given the gift of 5 senses would be able to relate to, for hope, courage & optimism in this journey of life....

can summarize in a sentence 20 words max?

 

[Willamshakespear]

can summarize in a sentence 20 words max?

Sure. The insignificant nobody me can summarize it in less than 20 words even - 'the only thing to fear is fear itself.'



However, Humankind are NOT slaves, nor expected to OBEY instructions given.

Each Earthborn is gifted with Free Will, and thus a need to extrapolate, explain FURTHER in DETAIL, so that they may understand in full to accept & comply, & motivated enough to follow through on advise given.

All Humankind are given the gift of intelligence. Only the LEVEL of intelligence is different amongst cultures & nations & thus the need for details....& I do agree it must be kept to the KISS principle - Keep It Short & Sharp, WITHOUT neglecting DETAILS on how an advise - accepted or disregarded based upon FREE WILL, is DERIVED from...

 

[LaoHongBiscuit]

Sure. The insignificant nobody me can summarize it in less than 20 words even - 'the only thing to fear is fear itself.'



However, Humankind are NOT slaves, nor expected to OBEY instructions given.

Each Earthborn is gifted with Free Will, and thus a need to extrapolate, explain FURTHER in DETAIL, so that they may understand in full to accept & comply, & motivated enough to follow through on advise given.

All Humankind are given the gift of intelligence. Only the LEVEL of intelligence is different amongst cultures & nations & thus the need for details....& I do agree it must be kept to the KISS principle - Keep It Short & Sharp, WITHOUT neglecting DETAILS on how an advise - accepted or disregarded based upon FREE WILL, is DERIVED from...

Tldr

 

[Willamshakespear]

Tldr

Tldr means 'too long didn't read'

It's ok with the insignificant nobody me. I did not & will not take it as an offense or an affront to me, because you are NOT or will be the ONLY one reading this thread, as there are thousands whom surf SBF daily.

Instead, I do thank you for bringing up such posts, & hopefully my posts here may help others, even if one, whom are facing difficult & painful predicaments in their journey of life.

One is an EXPONENTIAL number - one to another, then to another, & extrapolate at the sum of power of three to millions....to elevate & save lives....