Good woman: Kind-hearted & supports the husband/boyfrn in everything
Bad woman: tel the husband/boyfrn "trust me... i know wat is good for you"
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That is true only to a certain extent.
If the woman is better than good, she will more than just support the boyfriend and hubby. She can be his best and most honest critic.
Believe me, it's not easy criticizing a man you love very much. The guys on the forum only bitch about the bad women in sinkieland, there are good ones out there like their moms for a start.
There's always male ego at stake and any smart woman can tell you that it's much easier to use "submissive" power (maybe not sinkie women). Men like to hear yes, and it's easy for women to agree with smiles.
But in the long run this is very bad for the man. He is made to feel good at home and it's selfish of the woman, because he can look like a fool outside.
It takes true courage to tell the man you love that he's wrong. I've done that many times, not to put the guy down, but simply, I don't want him to get laughed at and mocked by others when he goes out.
Do you think it's an easy decision to make when you know that you would incur his wrath?
Don't you guys think that as a wife or gf, the last thing that you would want is to jeopardize your relationship with your bf or hubby for his own good, but he may not appreciate?
Guys are very funny (in other words, stupid). They can take it if their mom critiques them when they are children, but they can't when their wife or gf does it to them. Of course, you've got to distinguish between actual bullying of the guy or just simply for his own good.
And honestly, the guy who doesn't know the diff deserves to be called a fool behind his back. They are only so many alpha males around.