What I want in A Man!

[Leongsam]

8. Gainfully employed

Why on earth would you want an employee. Surely his employer would be a far better catch.

High Net Worth can last much longer than an employment contract which can disappear in a puff of smoke.

 

[AhGirl]

Dear ahgirl, first time during this CNY I got a comment that is complimentary. Thank you man...oops, ahgirl.

Hope you will get what you want in life ...but then, I must say, it is not a short order, one must work hard to get what one wants to get and even after getting it, efforts and hard work are still needed to have it maintained in good happy order.

Cheers

I know its a tall order...i know i may not find this man...i know i may even find one lacking some in some areas, or more in some areas...end of day, its a question of chemistry lor...no chemistry...all also means nothing lor..

 

[AhGirl]

Why on earth would you want an employee. Surely his employer would be a far better catch.

High Net Worth can last much longer than an employment contract which can disappear in a puff of smoke.

true...but self employed also means one get suck into the risk of business failures...

 

[Leongsam]

true...but self employed also means one get suck into the risk of business failures...

Employees have a far greater risk of being out of a job at 40 and ending up driving taxis for a living.

On the other hand, an employer who builds a thriving business can easily grow his net worth to the point where he no longer needs to work.

BTW your list is very demanding. What do you bring to the table? A man of such sterling qualities will have a list of his own regarding what he wants in a woman.

 

[AhGirl]

Employees have a far greater risk of being out of a job at 40 and ending up driving taxis for a living.

On the other hand, an employer who builds a thriving business can easily grow his net worth to the point where he no longer needs to work.

BTW your list is very demanding. What do you bring to the table? A man of such sterling qualities will have a list of his own regarding what he wants in a woman.

Sam, we can always agree to disagree on the employer employee point.

On your point about what i can bring, its about loyalty, warmth and taking care of him forever. It may not be enough but i believe i have the tenacity and i will stick with the man i decide to go with, be it hardship or riches.

 

[blackmondy]

Dear Ahgirl,

Your criteria represents 99% of Sinkie women. The other 1% are nuns.

 

[AhGirl]

Dear Ahgirl,

Your criteria represents 99% of Sinkie women. The other 1% are nuns.

another one from space...:*:

 

[Leongsam]

Sam, we can always agree to disagree on the employer employee point.

I'm not arguing with you. I'm giving you a lesson in financial literacy.

Who do you think is better off... someone who earns $250,000 a year or someone who is jobless but who has a net worth of $7 million?

 

[looneytan]

if i wanna please the man i love, i will do it willingly.

are you TracyTan866's clone

 

[mopeng]

You may think that I want someone who is buffed and tanned and looks like a bodybuilder model from GQ. Those things are nice and yes I like to look at those guys, but just like you don't need for me to look like Victoria Secret models I don't require it in my man.

OK. The 13 most important qualities that I look for in my man are:

1. Honesty
2. Intelligence
3. Nice Smile
4. Sense of Humor
5. Manners
6. Sensitivity
7. Sincerity
8. Gainfully employed
9. Has own place
10. Owns a car
11. Affectionate
12. Considerate
13. Thoughtful

So many qualities. I very auto one. I will pass.

 

[AhGirl]

I'm not arguing with you. I'm giving you a lesson in financial literacy.

Who do you think is better off... someone who earns $250,000 a year or someone who is jobless but who has a net worth of $7 million?

Sorry Sam, money is not equal to love or commitment. I have to disagree.

 

[Leongsam]

are you TracyTan866's clone

99% of all females think the same way before they get hitched. 5 years after the wedding and a couple of children later, they're singing an entirely different tune.

 

[Leongsam]

Sorry Sam, money is not equal to love or commitment. I have to disagree.

So why bring the requirement "gainfully employed" into the list in the first place?

 

[looneytan]

Ah Sam, You reply to wrong people leh

 

[AhGirl]

So why bring the requirement "gainfully employed" into the list in the first place?

I m practical too...while i do not require him to be rich, at least there must be some dough to keep the livelihood going.

 

[mopeng]

which aspects?


She does the *full* course

....you eh sai beh?? You even know wdf is a full course or not???

This one I know. *full* course =

Bath together
Fenching
BBBJ
AR
BF
FJ
AJ (if possible)
Bukakke and Swallow

If go with friends, can do DP too.

 

[Leongsam]

Ah Sam, You reply to wrong people leh

No I'm not you twit. I was commenting on the remark you made.

 

[blackmondy]

another one from space...:*:

Chemistry is a disclaimer to your 13 clauses.

 

[looneytan]

No I'm not you twit.

then you quote AhGirl la, quote me for what

anyway, boss say twit then twit la, what to do

 

[Spock]

A store that sells husbands has just opened where a woman may go to choose a husband from among many men. The store is composed of 6 floors, and the men increase in positive attributes as the shopper ascends the flights.

There is, however, a catch. As you open the door to any floor you may choose a man from that floor, but if you go up a floor, you cannot go back down except to exit the building.

So a woman goes to the shopping center to find a husband.

On the first floor the sign on the door reads:

Floor 1 - These men have jobs.

The woman reads the sign and says to herself, "Well, that's better than my last boyfriend, but I wonder what's further up?" So up she goes.

The second floor sign reads:

Floor 2 - These men have jobs and love kids.

The woman remarks to herself, "That's great, but I wonder what's further up?" And up she goes again.

The third floor sign reads:

Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love kids and are extremely good looking.

"Hmmm, better" she says. "But I wonder what's upstairs?"

The fourth floor sign reads:

Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking and help with the housework.

"Wow!" exclaims the woman, "very tempting. BUT, there must be more further up!" And again she heads up another flight.

The fifth floor sign reads:

Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking, help with the housework and have a strong romantic streak.

"Oh, mercy me! But just think... what must be awaiting me further on?" So up to the sixth floor she goes.

The sixth floor sign reads:

Floor 6 - You are visitor 6,875,953,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please.

The store’s owner then opens another store that sells wives just across the street.

The 1st floor has wives that are beautiful and love sex, but have no other redeeming qualities.
The 2nd, 3rd,4th, 5th and 6th floors have never been visited.