• IP addresses are NOT logged in this forum so there's no point asking. Please note that this forum is full of homophobes, racists, lunatics, schizophrenics & absolute nut jobs with a smattering of geniuses, Chinese chauvinists, Moderate Muslims and last but not least a couple of "know-it-alls" constantly sprouting their dubious wisdom. If you believe that content generated by unsavory characters might cause you offense PLEASE LEAVE NOW! Sammyboy Admin and Staff are not responsible for your hurt feelings should you choose to read any of the content here.

    The OTHER forum is HERE so please stop asking.

What could be worst with husband being sex fiend?

hossey

Alfrescian
Loyal
Some men are just sex fiends , my childhood friend turned husband also did alot of evil which I always warned him karma will take its course. When he was in Spore Poly , he was still quite alright although I noticed he has been stealing looks at girls but once he went NS he became a different man.

I noticed he is very demanding , asking for sex whenever he's out from camp , he has such a strong desire that I cant even coup with .....3 to 6 times a day ! within 24 hours , sometimes climbing on me in the middle of the night when he gets horny . I told him it is unhealthy for him to be so sexually active and told him to cool down. That was my biggest mistake , soon after our shot gun marriage and telling him that he should take it easy and not over exert himself he started to go out very often claiming he's got overtime work. That was the beginning of his wild life , I discreetly checked on his personal effects and found a piece of time table with all the girls' names , mentrual cycles , safe periods with dates that he could have safe sex . It was a shocking revelation , how can a once innocent looking person suddenly turned into a sex fiend and he could be so meticulous in maintaining a sex time table with 9 different girls? I felt so sick and embarrassed with the finding but cannot confide in anybody as this is extremely shameful . My parents will hit the roof if they find out their son-in-law is a sex monster , I dont know what has driven him to such extremes. When he worked in a Dutch trading company as a sales executive selling glass he was a smart looking person who could pass off as decent .But what went wrong with him , I am still puzzled , is it a medical condition or is he simply born highly sex?

He is not handsome , although with huge eyes but a sweet talker he is since he's been in sales. I objected to him being a sales person since he mixes with building contractors and developers who are rough characters , this could contribute to his unusual sex behaviour. When we quarrel over his demands , out of anger I told him your english name starting with "F"is synonymous with the four letter word that makes you what you are. It is very traumatic living with him but for the sake of the kids , I close my eyes to all his misdeeds. Hopefully , he will change if not all those girls who have been violated by him will pray for divine punishment on him. I feel sorry for those who were cheated by him but there is little I could do as I am unable to control him.

Girls who bump into strangers who are very friendly and eloquent must be careful , my husband is a sweet talker who will buy flowers and send to his new targets regularly until they fall for him. He will spend on expensive lunches /dinners and gifts until he conquers them and most of them will return all the gifts and money many times more than what he has initially spent on them.

For the sake of my children I hav eno choice but to protect his identity but I am very frustrated with my life with him.
 

makapaaa

Alfrescian (Inf)
Asset
icon1.gif
My husband raped me
<HR style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #989898; COLOR: #989898" SIZE=1><!-- / icon and title --><!-- message --><TABLE class=forumline border=0 cellSpacing=1 cellPadding=3 width="100%"><TBODY><TR><TD class=row1 vAlign=top width=150 align=left>Sharkula



Joined: 07 Feb 2009
Posts: 16809
Location: Between The Devil & the Deep Blue Sea

</TD><TD class=row1 height=28 vAlign=top width="100%"><TABLE border=0 cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0 width="100%"><TBODY><TR><TD width="100%"> Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 9:31 am Post subject: My husband raped me</TD><TD vAlign=top noWrap> </TD></TR><TR><TD colSpan=2><HR></TD></TR><TR><TD colSpan=2>When it first happened in 2007, we had already been married for seven years – he had been my senior at the polytechnic and my first love.

Our marriage was on the rocks because I had just discovered that he had been cheating on me with different women for years. And his ongoing infidelity was slowly ripping us apart with frequent quarrels and scuffles.

One night, he started touching my body, as he always did when he wanted sex.

But sex was the last thing on earth I wanted at the time – I wasn’t even sure exactly how many women he had been with. So I pushed him away. He tried again. And I pushed him away again.

That was when he became frustrated. He climbed on top of me and pressed me down roughly. I struggled but he was stronger than me. He kissed me all over and started to force himself on me.

I was helpless.

When he was done, he simply rolled over to his side of the bed and went to sleep, leaving me feeling traumatised.

The next morning, he behaved as if nothing unusual had happened. But I was still reeling in shock and disbelief.

What had happened to the intelligent and attentive man I had known since I was 17, the student leader whom our peers had looked up to?

That night, he was a different man altogether, he was a stranger.

Cracks in an ordinary marriage

I first discovered signs of his infidelity in 2005.

I found photographs of him with a Chinese woman in her 20s on his mobile phone.

Then, when I was spring-cleaning the house before Chinese New Year in 2007, I discovered remittance receipts, a forged divorce document with a fictional woman and an application to marry a mainland Chinese woman in China.

I also stumbled upon sex videos of him with different women, who did not appear to be aware that they were being filmed. The discovery shook me to the core. Despite being married for seven years, I suddenly felt that I didn’t know my husband at all. In the weeks following that discovery, I numbed myself with 16-hour work days, only climbing into bed in the wee hours of the night, when I knew he would be fast asleep. Or I would sleep in my daughter’s room.

I was bitterly confused about my love for him and our marriage, but one thing was clear: I did not want to have sex with him.

The last straw

To keep up with the pretence that our marriage was still normal and to avoid another quarrel, I would make myself sleep in the same bed with him.

At times, he would demand sex.

Whenever I refused, he would shove me down roughly and force himself on me. Each time after he did that, I would feel deeply upset. But I coped with it the best way I could – I told myself to bear it for my daughter.

But he never showed any remorse.

I don’t think it ever occurred to him that what he was doing was hurting me physically and emotionally. Perhaps he felt that as a wife, I should always submit to his sexual desires. At that time, I had never heard of marital rape.

Late one night in October 2007, about nine months after the first rape, he forced himself on me as usual. This time, I snapped.

While he was going at it, I pushed him away with all my strength. He turned violent and we fought. In the scuffle, he slapped and hit me.

I sobbed bitterly and called the police. He didn’t stop me at all.

At the hospital alone, I was treated for my bruises but nothing more. It was simply brushed off as a case of family violence.

There was no mention of any medical examination to assess if I had been sexually assaulted.

At the time, I was too confused and traumatised to think too deeply about the matter. But looking back, I wonder if that omission was because my attacker had been my husband. Since marital rape doesn’t exist as a crime except under certain exceptions, there would have been little use in them documenting the signs of sexual assault.

Instead, it was on the advice of my private investigator that I finally applied for a personal protection order against him.

When he found out about it, he toned down his temper. It was as if he finally understood that I was being serious and would no longer give in to his sexual demands.

But I couldn’t forgive.

I don’t think I will ever understand why he did what he did to me – all I know is that he started raping me after I confronted him about his cheating, so I can only conclude that it all came from a place of rage, guilt or revenge.

I had once harboured hopes of saving the marriage but it came to a point when I just couldn’t bear it anymore.

When he finally moved out early last year, a few weeks after I filed for the personal protection order, I felt an overwhelming sense of relief.

* Name has been changed to protect her identity.

icon_lol.gif
icon_lol.gif
icon_lol.gif
</TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE>
 

Watchman

Alfrescian
Loyal
High Sex drive is but a passing phrase .

Now women go Africa for their rock-hard cocks .

Older men craved a different aphrodisiac .
 

SamuelStalin

Alfrescian
Loyal
I told him it is unhealthy for him to be so sexually active and told him to cool down. That was my biggest mistake , soon after our shot gun marriage and telling him that he should take it easy and not over exert himself he started to go out very often claiming he's got overtime work.

If you are not good enough to give him what he wants, you are worthless. How he became a sex fiend is your doing and your fault.

He should have left you too. Be real lucky he didn't.
 

Watchman

Alfrescian
Loyal
Yup .............



<object width="560" height="340"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/dryShfyd04k&hl=en_US&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/dryShfyd04k&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="560" height="340"></embed></object>
 

drifter

Alfrescian (InfP)
Generous Asset
<object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/50dywtJ7csA&hl=en_US&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/50dywtJ7csA&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>
 

SamuelStalin

Alfrescian
Loyal
One night, he started touching my body, as he always did when he wanted sex.

But sex was the last thing on earth I wanted at the time – I wasn’t even sure exactly how many women he had been with. So I pushed him away. He tried again. And I pushed him away again.

That was when he became frustrated. He climbed on top of me and pressed me down roughly. I struggled but he was stronger than me. He kissed me all over and started to force himself on me.

I was helpless.

When he was done, he simply rolled over to his side of the bed and went to sleep, leaving me feeling traumatised.

The next morning, he behaved as if nothing unusual had happened. But I was still reeling in shock and disbelief.

They are man and wife. But my English I'm afraid is not very good, having dropped out from elementary in my childhood days. Can any Oxford students inform a total illiterate like me on what the definition of rape is?
 

OFart

Alfrescian
Loyal
They are man and wife. But my English I'm afraid is not very good, having dropped out from elementary in my childhood days. Can any Oxford students inform a total illiterate like me on what the definition of rape is?

Ask these Rapists of Peesai. They are experts in screwing Sporns to numbness =>





This is how I finger Sporns when I feel like it! *chey*
 

1sickpuppy II

Alfrescian
Loyal
Having a husband that is a useless bump that gambles the whole family away and have the whole family sleeping in public beach?
 
Top