The Negative Aspects of Marriage
By Jolanta Wencel
If partners can no longer come to an agreement with each other, the consequences are very serious. Firstly, numerous quarrels, that are unavoidable, have destructive effect on a couple as well as children who may have a serious problem with establishing their own families in the future.
Many think that if our relationship is sealed with marriage we are often together at stuck, when we should part with somebody forever. We are afraid of starting new lives and instead of sorting things out we carry on our toxic relationship.
Unhappy couples are often afraid of separation or acrimonious divorce, which can be sometimes better than being together at a push, but is connected with: emotional suffering, sometimes high costs of a lawyer, and a bitter battle for custody.
Sometimes toxic relationship can have tragic consequences such as depression or even suicide. These are the negative aspects whose probable future occurrence should be a sign to stop one's partnership and get divorced.
However, there are also some people who do not decide on making a commitment as they think that is a negative thing in general, because of a few reasons. Some of these reasons are truly accurate, when some others are triggered off by typical pessimism.
The opponents say that marriage means limiting of freedom, giving up some customs and it requires a lot of sacrifice. Additionally, it may destroy your plans and stop a developing career as it is extremely hard to combine a career with raising children.
Another reason that discourages people against making a commitment is that people change so you cannot love one person forever. For many it is out of a question to expect anyone to spend their whole life with only one person; affairs are inevitable, and consequently far too many marriages end up in divorce anyway.
However, there are still a lot of weddings in all over the world and, for sure, this tradition will be always continued. Even though many people decide to live without getting married, societies seem to have started to appreciate its good points again.
