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Once I give I don't care how they use the money. They can spend it anyway they chose. If they want to buy 4D, buy ciggies or food, so be it. The pleasure is mine when I give so why should I feel bad if the recipient spend it unwisely? To worry about such things takes away the pleasure you have from giving freely.
this is the true art of giving. i do that too. like 居士林, free food. anyone can walk in and eat. no need to check to make sure u r poor and local or foreigners. hungry? nearby? just pop in and eat, if want to donate just do it. if dont feel like or too tight no prob.