Singaporeans are not gracious and big hearted towards foreigners? Have PAP forgotten the outpour of kindness and help by Singaporeans to foreigners in the so many cases that have happened in the recent years?
Cases of the murdered little girl Huang Na, the Thai teenag girl who fell down the MRT track, the PRC hostess found dead in the Sentosa cove bungalow pool, the foreign workers who were robbed by Sarawak workers etc etc. How much donations did they receive from Singaporeans?
What is gracious and big hearted? Should Singaporeans give up our rights to plum jobs, schools and houses etc and get crumbs without a protest to be considered gracious and big hearted?
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Singaporeans' undercover kindness
Posted on Aug 30, 2012 12:03 PM Updated: Sep 1, 2012 12:53 PM
By Jalelah Abu Baker
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Passers-by helping Teo Jia En (in white, on the ground) up to her feet when the student actress fell to the ground. Ngee Ann Polytechnic students explore whether Singaporeans are gracious by acting out five scenarios. The students were taking part in "Be Nice", an event sponsored by the Singapore Kindness Movement's Seed Kindness Fund. -- TNP PHOTO: YAP NING
Much attention has been paid this past week to the uglier side of Singaporean behaviour.
At his National Day Rally speech on Sunday, Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong called on Singaporeans to be more gracious and big-hearted in their treatment of foreigners.
Yet, while we should reflect on and recognise such bad behaviour, it is also important that we do not lose sight of the fact that there is still so much that is good and gracious about our society.
All too often, it is the bad that gets circulated, printed, posted and retweeted. The good tends to keep a lower profile. About two weeks ago, I received a reminder of just how big-hearted Singaporeans can be, even towards foreigners.
I had written a story about a Bangladeshi man who was beaten up and robbed, rather mercilessly, if I might add. He had no money on him. Mr Sudip Chandro Bhandro Joy, 36, was cycling, on his way to meet his brother at Bugis, when two young men attacked him. He was left with serious injuries.
He was in a sad state. He was on medical leave and was not getting paid, so he could not make the monthly repayments for a loan he had taken with his home as collateral. Even feeding his two-year-old child back home became a problem. In the interview, he broke down.
All he wanted to do was go home, he said, to be hale and hearty so that he could work. But he did not have the funds he needed to seek hospital treatment.
From the day the story was published until a day ago, I was inundated with offers of help to him. To date, more than 100 offers have streamed into my mailbox.
Among them was a dentist who offered him free consultation to fix his teeth, which he said were numb, preventing him from eating properly.
Another good samaritan wrote: “It is so unfortunate that this person who came here to make ends meet for his family but he fell victim to one of our own citizens in a totally unprovoked sadistic attack. It's also a blot on our country and we should make some reparation for it as a society.”
There was nothing anti-foreigner in my inbox. If anything, it was the opposite. As one of the donors wrote to me said, it was precisely because Mr Sudip was a foreigner, because he had no support network here, that he wanted to help.
None of the people who came forward had anything to gain from offering their help. They would get no recognition, no medal. These are the Singaporeans we can be proud of. It is not the first time Singaporeans have rallied to help foreigners who have found themselves in unfortunate circumstances.
A substantial sum was raised for the two Chinese workers who died in the Bugis worksite collapse last month.
Thai teenager Nitcharee, who fell on MRT train tracks, and had to have both her legs amputated also had many Singaporeans lending a hand.
For sure, some of us may complain about the newcomers. Some of us resort to flaming them online or leer and scrunch our noses at them in the trains.
But in our efforts to build a more gracious society, I look to my inbox as a comforting reminder that we are not starting from zero.