The more housework man do at home, the higher rate of divorce

[Ash007]

Its not just a matter of the newer generation. The majority of the new generation has been brain-washed by the new age of "equality" between husband and wife. They see it as the men's duty to also be involved in household chores. Going back to the 70s, and the old traditional saying, 男注外女注内， it is the duty of the men to provide income, stability, bread to the family while the wife take care of everything at home. In fact, in Japan, all the husband's income goes into the wife's account. There is nothing wrong with this, it is how a family has always been like this for centuries, even the bible, bro drifter is going to go rampant on me with this, states that the wife should submit to their husband. I really blame the feminist movement for breaking this old fashion but effective way of raising a family. Think of how many families in Singapore needs to have dual income and the high prices of property. All this because of the word "equality" being espouse.

When the husbands lose their jobs & can no longer afford a maid, then you'll see a spike in the divorce rate. For many guys it will probably be welcome a relieve from the nagging they will have to face from their maid-less wives:p Due to the womens charter the husband will of course lose out.

You seem to have a more understanding wife are you an older uncle Many of the younger guys may not be so lucky. The newer generation females can be very heartless & calculative

 

[monkey001]

Seems like you either have a traditional family which can last or a fair and equal family but you cannot have both. No wonder the Malaysian wives are starting a movement to pamper their husbands.

Hoho. That is rather good and postitve to start with. How can we raise two kids in Singarpo ?

 

[Fook Seng]

Datok,

Interesting observation.

I reckon the most stable marriage is one where the husband do approximately a quarter of the housework.

For example, I clear all the empty heineken and chivas bottles every morning, do the gardening and get rid of the green moss of the pond once every fortnight. :o

I like it - empty the Heineken and Chivas bottles and clean up the fridge. That is fair share of the house-keeping.

 

[The_Hypocrite]

Its also due to the rise of social democrats n their child support bull shit n in sinkieland we have the womens crapster so more shit to promote divorces n destruction of traditional family values

Its not just a matter of the newer generation. The majority of the new generation has been brain-washed by the new age of "equality" between husband and wife. They see it as the men's duty to also be involved in household chores. Going back to the 70s, and the old traditional saying, 男注外女注内， it is the duty of the men to provide income, stability, bread to the family while the wife take care of everything at home. In fact, in Japan, all the husband's income goes into the wife's account. There is nothing wrong with this, it is how a family has always been like this for centuries, even the bible, bro drifter is going to go rampant on me with this, states that the wife should submit to their husband. I really blame the feminist movement for breaking this old fashion but effective way of raising a family. Think of how many families in Singapore needs to have dual income and the high prices of property. All this because of the word "equality" being espouse.

 

[Fook Seng]

Hoho. That is rather good and postitve to start with. How can we raise two kids in Singarpo ?

Dump both of them in childcare centres or with home care baby sitter.

 

[Fook Seng]

I am just mulling over the conclusion of the study. Does it mean that the woman of the house, if given too much free time, will create trouble leading to a divorce? Or is it that the man must be given more free time to satisfy his instinctive tenancies so as to maintain a balance in his life and in his family? Or maybe in a family or any joint-partnership there should be one dominating figure who will make the final decision? Doesn't it always happen in divorces, that there is a stalemate of some sort?

 

[Equalisation]

siti do wat? ...

Laksamana,

U no anyhow say siti ...! She hardworking binya ... and muka nya look alot like a young yvonne elliman binya ....:p

 

[johnny333]

Its not just a matter of the newer generation. The majority of the new generation has been brain-washed by the new age of "equality" between husband and wife. They see it as the men's duty to also be involved in household chores. Going back to the 70s, and the old traditional saying, 男注外女注内， it is the duty of the men to provide income, stability, bread to the family while the wife take care of everything at home. In fact, in Japan, all the husband's income goes into the wife's account. There is nothing wrong with this, it is how a family has always been like this for centuries, even the bible, bro drifter is going to go rampant on me with this, states that the wife should submit to their husband. I really blame the feminist movement for breaking this old fashion but effective way of raising a family. Think of how many families in Singapore needs to have dual income and the high prices of property. All this because of the word "equality" being espouse.

I think the problem is much worse than in the west.

The problem in Spore is that females want all the rights but not the responsibilities. Things like paying the bills, driving them around,.. is still the responsibility of the poor husband. Even looking after the children is now the responsibility of the maid. The females will of course claim that the family needs a dual income but I notice that many wives spend their income to buy branded clothes, shoes ....

In countries like LOS, the husband still has some say. For example my Thai friend has prevented his wife from working for companies that would keep her too busy that she would neglect the family.

Many of the social problems in Spore can be traced to the PAP. Around the 70's the term latch key kids became common as parents were drafted to provide cheap working units. The males had the added responsibility of providing cheap security i.e. NS The womens charter has made things worse for males. Females can now take the easy option of bailing out of a relationship & even get rewarded for a failed marriage

 

[Ash007]

Indeed it's worst in sg as most people wants everything the western world offers but none of its associated problems and responsibility.

I think the problem is much worse than in the west.

The problem in Spore is that females want all the rights but not the responsibilities. Things like paying the bills, driving them around,.. is still the responsibility of the poor husband. Even looking after the children is now the responsibility of the maid. The females will of course claim that the family needs a dual income but I notice that many wives spend their income to buy branded clothes, shoes ....

In countries like LOS, the husband still has some say. For example my Thai friend has prevented his wife from working for companies that would keep her too busy that she would neglect the family.

Many of the social problems in Spore can be traced to the PAP. Around the 70's the term latch key kids became common as parents were drafted to provide cheap working units. The males had the added responsibility of providing cheap security i.e. NS The womens charter has made things worse for males. Females can now take the easy option of bailing out of a relationship & even get rewarded for a failed marriage

 

[BuiKia]

I agree but actually, you need someone to clean the house? Can employ maid. You need a fuck? You can go call chicken.

Unless you want kids, marriage is a waste of time.

That is why,,a good wife is a maid of the house and a slut in bed...that is what maintains a marriage,,,anything else is bullshit

 

[Ash007]

Kids/children are important for the society, nation in the future. Where are you going to get the tax base, income for the government. The PAP is worried that without enough children now, there won't be any income for them in the future, who will pay for their salary? That is why you see them worrying about the birth rate. If they don't fix it now, 20-30 years from now there won't be any Singaporean left for them to leech off. It either they spend some money now to try to encourage people to have them or start importing more FTs to become new citizen.

I agree but actually, you need someone to clean the house? Can employ maid. You need a fuck? You can go call chicken.

Unless you want kids, marriage is a waste of time.

 

[BuiKia]

PAP should understand that birthrate is actually a direct reflection of its citizen's perspective of their future.

no one will give birth if they think their future is bleak or will be worse off. Who will give birth expecting that their child will suffer.

In the 60, 70s and early 80s, many were feeling that future is good, so many will give birth even if there were penalties then. Now, they give benefits, people also want to think twice.

 

[ionzu]

Its not just a matter of the newer generation. The majority of the new generation has been brain-washed by the new age of "equality" between husband and wife. They see it as the men's duty to also be involved in household chores. Going back to the 70s, and the old traditional saying, 男注外女注内， it is the duty of the men to provide income, stability, bread to the family while the wife take care of everything at home. In fact, in Japan, all the husband's income goes into the wife's account. There is nothing wrong with this, it is how a family has always been like this for centuries, even the bible, bro drifter is going to go rampant on me with this, states that the wife should submit to their husband.

the church also said the world was flat and burned any astronomer who said the earth wasn't the centre of the universe.

you can keep harping on the past, or evolve into the future.

the duty between husband and wife, is best defined by husband and wife.

speaking of japan, sure we can adopt their ways and end up with 20 years of stagflation.

 

[johnny333]

I agree but actually, you need someone to clean the house? Can employ maid. You need a fuck? You can go call chicken.

Unless you want kids, marriage is a waste of time.

Spore can be a good place if you have a decent job. For example look at all those angmo with expat packages & millionaire/billionaires who are here to avoid taxes.

However if you want to raise a family in a healthy environment, you have to go elsewhere. Many Sporeans know this, even those who support the PAP Just look at where their children are now living

 

[johnny333]

the church also said the world was flat and burned any astronomer who said the earth wasn't the centre of the universe.

you can keep harping on the past, or evolve into the future.

the duty between husband and wife, is best defined by husband and wife.

speaking of japan, sure we can adopt their ways and end up with 20 years of stagflation.

I got to see my Canadian friend who was visiting Spore. She is a sociologist & tells me that Spore is watched closely because of all the experimentation going on & it is a perfect example of a controlled environment

It took a while for this "fact" to sink in.
The PAP has had complete control to social engineer how most Sporeans think. Our attitudes are influenced by what is taught in school, the books we read, what we see on TV/movies, ... ALL of which are controlled by the PAP. Cradle to grave brainwashing

So next time you think you have free thought, you can thank LKY for influencing that thought There is some hope of free discussion on internet & that's why you have a large team of internet brigade members trying to influence the discussions in this & other forums.

 

[ionzu]

I got to see my Canadian friend who was visiting Spore. She is a sociologist & tells me that Spore is watched closely because of all the experimentation going on & it is a perfect example of a controlled environment

It took a while for this "fact" to sink in.
The PAP has had complete control to social engineer how most Sporeans think. Our attitudes are influenced by what is taught in school, the books we read, what we see on TV/movies, ... ALL of which are controlled by the PAP. Cradle to grave brainwashing

So next time you think you have free thought, you can thank LKY for influencing that thought There is some hope of free discussion on internet & that's why you have a large team of internet brigade members trying to influence the discussions in this & other forums.

brainwashing is only effective against an uncritical mind. much like those who donate thousands to build mega churches.

my mind remains as free as yours.

others are free to try and influence, but only you make up your own mind.

 

[ionzu]

Our attitudes are influenced by what is taught in school, the books we read, what we see on TV/movies, ... ALL of which are controlled by the PAP.

ask yourself who writes and makes the movies and books that we watch. i'm sure the PAP did not make The Matrix nor did they write A Brave New World.

you give the PAP too much credit for the success and failures of your fellows.

 

[ionzu]

Think of how many families in Singapore needs to have dual income and the high prices of property. All this because of the word "equality" being espouse.

you need to elaborate a lot more on this. how does one jump from women's emancipation to high property prices and need to have dual income?

 

[congo9]

A man must be a ALPHA male on bed and off bed. That the only way.

Doing housework is just a excuse for being lazy.

 

[johnny333]

brainwashing is only effective against an uncritical mind. much like those who donate thousands to build mega churches.

my mind remains as free as yours.

others are free to try and influence, but only you make up your own mind.

I also thought I was immune because I am critical of the PAP. However I found out the hard way & almost lost money in some investments in Spore. That is one of the reasons I am totally out of the Spore market:o
Propaganda is very powerful especially when it is so pervasive.