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Ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives
By Dr. Laura Schlessinger. Phd
1. Stupid Attachment: Is a woman just a Wo Wo Wo to a Man?
You typically look to the context of a man to find and define yourself.
2. Stupid Courtship: “I finally found someone I could attach to” and other stupid ideas about dating.
Desperate to have a man, you become a beggar, not a chooser, in the dating ritual.
3. Stupid Devotion: “But I love him” and more stupid romantic stuff.
You find yourself driven to love and suffer and succor
4. Stupid Passion: “Ohhh, Ahhh, we’re breathing hard … it must mean love”.
You have sex too soon, too romantically, and set yourself up to be burned.
5. Stupid Cohabitation: The ultimate female self-delusion:
So stop lying to yourself! You’re not living with him because you love him. You’re living with him because you hope he’ll want you!
6. Stupid expectations: First you commit to him, then you hate him?
Using marriage as a quick fix for low or no self-esteem.
7. Stupid conception: Making babies for the worst reasons.
Misguidedly, you use biology as a jump start for love, personal growth, and commitement.
8. Stupid Subjugation: Letting him hurt your kids.
You and your children are held hostage to your own obsessive need for security and attachment.
9. Stupid helplessness: “Oh, I always whine and whimper when I’m angry.”
Too scared and insecure to deal with your rage, you turn it into wimpishness.
10 Stupid forgiving: “I know he’s adulterous, addicted, controlling, insensitive, and violent …but other than that – "
You don’t know when to break off a no-win relationship, or how to not get involved in the first place.
By Dr. Laura Schlessinger. Phd
1. Stupid Attachment: Is a woman just a Wo Wo Wo to a Man?
You typically look to the context of a man to find and define yourself.
2. Stupid Courtship: “I finally found someone I could attach to” and other stupid ideas about dating.
Desperate to have a man, you become a beggar, not a chooser, in the dating ritual.
3. Stupid Devotion: “But I love him” and more stupid romantic stuff.
You find yourself driven to love and suffer and succor
4. Stupid Passion: “Ohhh, Ahhh, we’re breathing hard … it must mean love”.
You have sex too soon, too romantically, and set yourself up to be burned.
5. Stupid Cohabitation: The ultimate female self-delusion:
So stop lying to yourself! You’re not living with him because you love him. You’re living with him because you hope he’ll want you!
6. Stupid expectations: First you commit to him, then you hate him?
Using marriage as a quick fix for low or no self-esteem.
7. Stupid conception: Making babies for the worst reasons.
Misguidedly, you use biology as a jump start for love, personal growth, and commitement.
8. Stupid Subjugation: Letting him hurt your kids.
You and your children are held hostage to your own obsessive need for security and attachment.
9. Stupid helplessness: “Oh, I always whine and whimper when I’m angry.”
Too scared and insecure to deal with your rage, you turn it into wimpishness.
10 Stupid forgiving: “I know he’s adulterous, addicted, controlling, insensitive, and violent …but other than that – "
You don’t know when to break off a no-win relationship, or how to not get involved in the first place.
