when they are in their 20s, women will take nice guys for granted and treat bastards like kings. When they are in their 30s they will wish to marry a nice guy who is a stable life partner.
I guess my point is: there is no "perfect person" in marriage.. only a "perfect time" which you can look back and blame.
There is no perfect person and there is no perfect time.There is only a "perfect frame of mind". If you truly love a person, you love her at all times - young in the 20s or old in the 70s. This is true love. Those who fall out do not really love each other in the first place. So they give all sorts of reasons for their separation : money lah, freedom lah,sex lah,children lah, in laws lah, incompatibiity lah, all sorts of fucking excuses to get out!
I see many uncles and aunties still deeply in love. They even hold hands together.And they even sleep in the void decks together , eating together and feeding each other.They are so loving and so in love despite the fact that they have no money and no savings. Still loving each other so deeply and so touchingly.
For those young couples who go to courts and fight it out, I say take a leaf from all these old uncles and aunties. If you just want sex, don't marry. If you just want beauty, don't marry.If you just want a young body, don't marry. If you just want to show your girl to others, don't marry. Your SYT will grow old in no time after a few deliveries.Then you start wondering.Your eyes roaming.You seek divorce on all sorts of reasons.Your cock gets itchy and you want to be Chamberlian.....Learn from those loving old uncles and aunties.Love till death.Stay till die.