Well i mean no harm. In fact, i know how one feels after losing so much money through gambling.
Since very young age, we were taught not to gamble by our strict dad, and were told of the consequences that may arise. I had witnessed for myself how a family can be destroyed within a short period of time. In this case, this rich man was demonised and possessed by the casinos, before he woke up from his dream, he was gobbled by them. In a couple of years, he lost no less than Rm50millions, raked up millions of debt, all his properties were auctioned off, his so call good friends and relatives desserted him. I still can recall vividly the day he brought along his family to our house, begging my dad to help him out, i.e to give him some time to repay his debt owed to my dad. All of them were crying, including his two young daughters(i wonder if
they know why they are crying). It was, believe me, a very pitiful and disturbing scene. A week later, he commited suicide. A very very true story.
I am not trying to scare anyone. If you really think that you have to gamble, then play within your mean like what many people say. Otherwise, you will end up very miserable. Remember,
you are not the only one suffer, your loved one hurt the most.
Yes point taken.
Your eg is just many of true life scenarios. People taking their own lives due to gambling is a fact. You must heard numerous stories of such incidents which happened in Genting.
At the end of the day..it all boils down to self control. Lose only what you can afford and never borrow money to gamble. If one can practice that...all will be honky dory but alas most cant.
I know ppl (during my students days) who blew their education funds gambling in casinos. Borrowed monies from friends. Such is the addiction of gambling...
As to your point friends running away...I am not ashamed to say I was one who refuse to borrow money to them. Why? Lending them only makes it worst. Of course if they needed money to pay for boarding and food...I wont hesitate..but to borrow them to continue their gambling spree is just bad.