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[Sg video] - "I Only Date Guys Who Accept My 18 year old Autistic Sister": 27-Year-Old Caregiver Woman

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If I were the autistic sister, I would acknowledge the sacrifice of my elder sister. However, I would also be quick to tell her not to use my autism as her reason for not being able to find a husband.

I might look cute at the age of 18, and she might still have the power of youth to resist the onslaught of loneliness. When I am 28, and my sister 37, she might think differently. If I'm no longer cute, what remains is a burden - an old burden. And she might blame me for her not getting married. At 37, it would be even more difficult for her to find someone to marry her, even if she was prepared to drop her "buy one get one free" condition.

If I were the autistic sister, I do not want to be the reason for my sister remaining a spinster, and worse still, the excuse. At the very least my sister should not announce to the media I would be the reason for her spinsterhood. Even without my condition, there could be many reasons why she could not get married.

The caregiver sister should do her best to attract the best male species in her pool of acquaintances and put the issue of her autistic sister on hold. Once an eligible man is attracted to her, then it's time for her to reveal her problems. Her attractiveness and the fact the man is already attracted to her will provide her with the bargaining power to have the best of both worlds - a marriage and a husband who accepts her autistic sister.

Instead she is doing the reverse. Look at her image in the video. Not only is she not doing anything to enhance her attractiveness, she throws her problems at her potential suitors at the outset via public media. It's suicidal and nobody will come forward. She becomes the author of her own misfortune, but she puts the blame on the autistic sister.
 
looking at the autistic sister, although she is functioning, she will need care for rest of her life. I think the elder sister is just 'buying insurance', ensure if anything happen, like divorce, she will be able to have 50% of the man's assets. Which is why she is insisting on buy one-get one policy. Good luck to her in finding one.
 
If I were the autistic sister, I would acknowledge the sacrifice of my elder sister. However, I would also be quick to tell her not to use my autism as her reason for not being able to find a husband.

If the sister could say that, she wouldn't be autistic. The autistic sister is too stupid, and will continue to act like an irritating kid for the rest of her life.
 
looking at the autistic sister, although she is functioning, she will need care for rest of her life. I think the elder sister is just 'buying insurance', ensure if anything happen, like divorce, she will be able to have 50% of the man's assets. Which is why she is insisting on buy one-get one policy. Good luck to her in finding one.

Without or without the autistic sister, it's the Women's Charter that provides her with the insurance that she will get 50% of his assets. I suspect she believes she will not be able to find a husband even without the autistic sister, so she is also "buying insurance" that in the event she is left on the shelf, she has the autistic sister to blame.
 
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Seriouslee my uncle rather look after a good wife's autistic sister than looking after a good wife's child who belongs to another man unless is a dead man.
 
Very difficult as life in Singapore is already tough enough and you do not know when you will lose your job to a foreign "talent" .
 
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