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The short answer based on my previous post would be you have allowed yourself to be vexed by events and the unhappiness associated with it. If it doesn't exist, or it doesn't matter, it wouldn't hurt. It's not like you have to face this person everyday where it may be difficult to forget. Take stock of your own life, find out what makes you happy and look forward to a living a good life.
That's a tough one. How about imagining that you are really two personalities in one body, and the last guy before you died after the incident. Before then you were an observer, now you are solely in charge of your own life. You have a chance to start anew like a newborn at erm.. (how old are you? 30?). Either that or langah all the people who crossed your alter ego in the past. My take is that even if you choose the latter and succeed, you still may not find peace with yourself. Would you be happy if they are all six feet under? What next?
As many stock market gurus here can attest, when things unexpectedly turn for the worse, admit you made a mistake (which may not be your fault). Cut your losses and move on.
