Quote of the day - from a Singapore woman

[scroobal]

It just whizzed past his head. The guy is clueless. Don't worry too much.

don't know what sources u want but if you want an definition, can try m-w or dictionary.com

i guess its depends on the context discussed.. if you are talking about social definitions, the term draws its roots from Europe, when trade made a lot of ppl rich

this book may explain that: http://www.amazon.com/Bourgeois-Vir...=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1277179015&sr=8-3

in modern age, i guess some people try to correlate the attitude of contemporary society to that of europe when commerce was flourishing

 

[bodycells]

Another Sinkie Woman said this:

I want to see what u guys think if he is serious about me.

There is a guy that is trying to go into a relation with me. I really dunno he is going for real of just flirting around.

Im mid 20s this year n he is 1year older than me. both of us are working now.

becos the problem lies with my background. im a divorcee with a 3yo kid. He knows about it n said he dun mind. he visited my home before during cny.

Another problem lies with both our living style. We are both clubbers. Night lifers.

In fact, we met in a club. He was my fren fren. 80% the time we met, we will end up in a club at the end of the day after dinner etc. the 2nd time I met him, thru my fren again, I asked for his hp number. n since then, we have been contacting each other without going thru my fren.

He got a lot of frens everywhere. Frens working in the club. Walk around can see his frens, hp keep beeping thru out the night those type.

Number of females frens as well. I have seen a female fren of him after being drunk, just throw herself on him, collapse, lean against him like tat. I really wonder if im not around that night, will he go home with her? He told me this particular female is a very close fren of him since schooling days n he treat her like sister only. All his frens know her too, so I assume he is saying the truth.

Whenever we go clubbing, with his frens, there will always be unknown girls talking to him. I think those are his not so close fren. He will say they are his fren fren etc. But at least end of the day, he still stick with me and send me home.

He is not extremely handsome. but not ugly, and not fat. No tummy body those kind. But he is a party animal, he knows how to club n I never get boring when im with him.

He declared to me at first, but I told him we need more time. and he continue contacting me after that day. now, as times goes by, I think im starting to like him also. Im very afraid to go into another relation due to my first marriage breakage. I really dunno he is going for real or just flirting around. but if he want flirt, cannot be flirt so long rite, I know him about 7months now.

He really like me for who I am or he is just playing and going after my body cos im pretty? I dun think it is that easy for a guy to accept my background.

why does it sound so complicated? Divorcee with kid and then get caught up with a guy who says dun mind? then worried about him with other girls this and that.

It is tough living such a life. it is kind of unnecessary.

 

[Alamaking]

why does it sound so complicated? Divorcee with kid and then get caught up with a guy who says dun mind? then worried about him with other girls this and that.

It is tough living such a life. it is kind of unnecessary.

I think manokie real meaning is in the last paragraph bah, LOL

He really like me for who I am or he is just playing and going after my body cos im pretty? I dun think it is that easy for a guy to accept my background.

 

[bodycells]

then how the hell did she land herself into such her background and devalued herself. She knows her share price then deal with it.

 

[Ash007]

why does it sound so complicated? Divorcee with kid and then get caught up with a guy who says dun mind? then worried about him with other girls this and that.

It is tough living such a life. it is kind of unnecessary.

Women are weird. If the guy has no girl "friend" at all in the club, then they won't even look at them or "consider" being with them. Having heaps of female friends shows validation that the guy "can make it" when it comes to other females. It shows that the guy can communicate with the female race etc, the more female that talks, like him, the more female he can get in the future, its that simple. This Singapore woman is just worried that is the case, if she is worried then find a "boring", "no female friend" guy. But I suspect she won't be attracted to this type in the first place.

 

[Orion]

Women are weird. If the guy has no girl "friend" at all in the club, then they won't even look at them or "consider" being with them. Having heaps of female friends shows validation that the guy "can make it" when it comes to other females. It shows that the guy can communicate with the female race etc, the more female that talks, like him, the more female he can get in the future, its that simple. This Singapore woman is just worried that is the case, if she is worried then find a "boring", "no female friend" guy. But I suspect she won't be attracted to this type in the first place.

Extremely well said!

Just as some guys got lusty when they can hook on married women too...

 

[kingrant]

Bet her bod that the guy is not sincere. He's a fake. Probably another Jason.
Once he's screwed her enough, he'll take flight.

The frens of his whom she saw are probably smarter and couldnt be laid w/o extreme conditions..that's why they are still frens. If they are Foyces and he's been a Jason, you'll know the diff. and I hope she does too.

Divorcees like her shld be looking for homely guys, guys who cld be good Dads, guys who'll shun clubbing as a lifestyle, and you can't find these in night clubs ..

 

[Ash007]

Extremely well said!

Just as some guys got lusty when they can hook on married women too...

Married or not, virgin or slut, it all depends on how you present your value. I've talked about female validation. Success with female get you more females, you also have to know when to say no. I suspect part of the attraction she is having is because the guy never state explicitly whether he wants to be with her or not. There is a push/pull factor happening, this causes the girl to wonder whether the guy is serious or not. Its that simple, the prettier the girl, the more attention she would have in life, the more you say you are not attracted, bothered by her, the more she would wonder why are you not attracted to her yet many other guys have. This guy a player, he is just doing what he can get as guy.

 

[SIFU]

what is the probability of finding a 'marriageable' man in a club?

on the other hand : what is the probability of finding a 'marriageable' woman in a club?

chances are that man is looking for a free fuck. so whether that woman is divorce or got kids or not doesn't matter to him.

 

[scroobal]

The best advice to her is to continue clubbing. She should not worry too much about the important things in life. Just continue to club and your worries just goes away. With clubbing, at least there are good memories to keep.

 

[no_faith]

if she worried so much, bring her kid along when she go clubbing and
tell her kid to call him "Daddy" infront of his frenzzz..

 

[Ash007]

the best advice to her is to continue clubbing. She should not worry too much about the important things in life. Just continue to club and your worries just goes away. With clubbing, at least there are good memories to keep.

不管天长地久之在乎成今用有?

 

[Alamaking]

I got a female friend who told me she dun keep track of her GIRO, she said it's nothing much, i was like......... -_-""